The next thing that I want to say is that not all adoptions are bad. It is clear to me that there are many more cases of children being put in to good homes then bad. Unfortunately in the society that we live in the bad is what we hear about the most. We hear about those kids that are abused because it such a tragedy and should never happen. But what about at the cases where a kid has had a great home. No we don't hear about that because of course, that is what is suppose to happen or that is why we set up adoption agencies. No one cares about the good relationships that are happening because of the lack of connection we feel as a community. We are only intereseted in the bad to prove to ourselves that nothing is perfect. For those people that grew up in bad home there is nothing i can say but sorry. i cannot even begin to feel what those people go through and if there was anything i could do i would do it. But lets not forget about all the good that can come form adoption if it comes down to it. I am not trying to stir anything up i am just tryiong to act as another voice. If anyone whats to talk to me or respond you can email me at [email protected].