That would be fine if we spent all of our lives in bed. But the truth of the matter is a good lover doesn't start or end in the bedroom. A good lover is the one who stays when all others have walked away. It does not matter if he is as agile as a cat and as sensitive as a frayed nerve ending. If he does not love you with his heart, stroking your body and teasing your senses will soon become meaningless.
Loving the body is not enough. Your mind and your spirt need to be cared for too. Who cares if your man is built like an Adonis if he doesn't stand by you in a storm? His twinkling eyes mean nothing if he does not prove to be reliable in a crisis. Oh, my friend, being a good lover is more than hips, lips,and fingertips. It is the ability to hold the cold wind of life in your hot hands until the wind warms under your loving touch. It is standing by the bed until the light goes out in my eyes and you kiss my face one final time. It is the ability to stay with me until the machine stops and the ventilator ceases to pump air into my lungs, and I speak one more time or squeeze your hand.
If you ever have to fight a real storm, you will need a lover, but not the kind you might normally seek. This is a lover of the day, not just the night. Lovers that deal with the day are more difficult to find than the kind that grope you in the night. If a tragedy occurs economically or, worse still physically, will he still be your lover?
Auther Unknown