| JAY WAS BORN ON FEB. 13, 1967. THE SUMMER OF 1984 I RAN INTO HIM AT A LOCAL HANG OUT. I WAS 14, HE WAS 18. IN THE SUMMER OF 1986 WE WERE MARRIED. WE HAD KAYLA IN 1991, AND THEN PAXTON IN 2001. WE GOT TO CELEBRATE 16 YEARS OF MARRIAGE TOGETHER. SOME YEARS OF COURSE BETTER THAN OTHERS. THE YEAR OF 2002 NOT BEING ONE OF THOSE BETTER YEARS, BUT YOU SEEM TO ALWAYS TAKE FOR GRANTED THAT THEY WILL ALWAYS BE THERE. JAY WAS SHOT TO DEATH ON MAY 4, 2003. LEAVING BEHIND A WIFE, AND TWO CHILDREN WHO LOVED HIM VERY MUCH. DESPITE THE TROUBLE THAT HAD WENT BY THE PAST YEAR. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO THINK CRACK IS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN SMOKE ONE TIME AND NOT GET ADDICTED TO, I'M HERE TO TELL YOU THAT, THAT IS A DAMN LIE! MY HUSBAND TOOK A JOB ON NIGHT SHIFT WHERE HE WAS INTRODUCED TO THIS DRUG TO "STAY AWAKE". IT ONLY TOOK ONE TIME, AND HIS ADDICTION ESCALATED AS TIME WENT BY. AFTER A FEW MONTHS HE WAS LIEING, STEALING, AND USING MONEY THAT WE NEEDED TO FEED OUR CHILDREN WITH. YOU WONDER HOW YOU CAN BE SO IGNORANT NOT TO SEE THERE WAS A PROBLEM OF SOME SORT, BUT HE BECAME A WONDERFUL LIER. AND I LOVING HIM AS MUCH AS I DID WAS WILLING (OR JUST REALLY WANTED TO) BELIEVE EVERYTHING HE TOLD ME. MAY THE 4TH, A CRACK DEALER SHOT HIM IN THE HEAD. THIS MAN HAS NOT BEEN CAUGHT AS OF YET. AND I WILL MAKE SURE TO POST DETAILS AS I GET THEM IN....................................IF I EVER DO. |
