submissive's creed
author unknown
i will communicate with complete honesty my
needs, desires, limits, and experience. i realize that failing to do so will
not only prevent my Sir and i from having the best experience possible, but
can also lead to physical and emotional harm. i will not try to manipulate my
Sir. i will not push to make a scene go the way i feel it should. In other words,
I will not top from the bottom. i will keep an open mind about trying things
that i am not comfortable with and expanding my limits. i will continue to grow
as a submissive and as a human being. i will accept the responsibility of discovering
what pleases my Sir, and will do my best to fulfill His wishes and desires.
i will not allow myself to be harmed or abused. i know that submissive does
not equal doormat. i will be courteous and helpful to my fellow submissives.
i will share my knowledge and experience with others in the hope that they will
learn and benefit from where i have been. i will take the time to help those
new to the scene start out on the correct path. i will be responsive to my Sir.
i will not try to hide what my mind and body are feeling so that i may assist
Him in His responsibilities as my Authority. i know that Dominants are not telepaths,
and will not expect my Sir to know thoughts or feelings, which i do not share.
i will accept in the responsibility of a scene or relationship gone bad. i will
not place total blame on my Top when it is not warranted simply because He is
the Dominant. i realize that things may not work out as they should at times,
and will do my best to put it behind me and move on. i will give my gift of
submission only to Those that can responsibly accept and desire to receive.
i will not place anyone in the position of Topping me non consensually, nor
will i give my respect to Someone that has not earned it.
I know that D/s is not a contest, and will never think myself a "better" submissive
because i choose to submit on a different level than another. i will not be
boastful of the experiences i have had as a bottom. i will be obedient to my
Sir even if i disagree with what He is requesting. i realize He has my best
interests at heart and often knows better than i what i need in a particular
situation. i know that my actions reflect upon my Sir, and will do my best to
help O/others see His in a positive way. i will not intentionally embarrass
or displease my Sir. Above all, i will wear my title of submissive with honor.
i will never cause O/others to think that being submissive means to be weak
or sub human. i will take pride in who and what i am and will never show myself
in a negative way.