Sex Education for Iranians - FAQ3

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#131

Az : Ali/M/Mj/18
S : BA ARZE SALAM VA TASHAKOR AZ RAH ANDAZI IN SITE
JENABE AGHAYE DOCTOR SOALE MAN IN AST MAN DAR HODOODE 2 SAL JALG MIZANAM VA BE NAZARE KHODAM BAZE HAYE MAN ANDAZEYE NORMAL RA NADARAND VA GHABL AZ SHOROO BE JALG ZADAN YANI 2 SALE PISH DOCTOR BAIZEHAYE MAN RA SONOGERAFI KARDE VA GOFT SALEMAND MAN MIKHAM BEDOONAM CHERA INHA KOOCHEKTAR AZ HADE MAMOOL HASTAND VA YA YEK BAZEYE NORMAL BAYAD CHE GHADR BASHD?
BA TASHAKOR

DK: bAyad tavassote pezeshk moAyene shavid tA be tavAn be dorosti goft cherA chenin ast. emkAn dArad dar hengAme janini beizehA be dorosti be dAkhele kiseye beize nayoftAde bAshand. beizeye normAl dar hAlate adame tahrik, va pas az hamAme Abe garm hodoodan be andAzeye yek sevvome mosht ast. (albatte bishtar jenetiki ast)

Dr. Kahrobayi

#130

Az : Abtin/M/Mj/28
S : salam alate tanasoli man kochak mibashad. dar halate tahrik shodeh be andazehe 8 cantimetr chi kar bayad bekonam ba tashakor az shoma.

DK: be site hayee ke be in manzoor ijAd shode morAjee konid yA be nazde pezeshk (bArAye amale jarrAhi)

Dr. Kahrobayi

#129

Az : Farhad (Dubai)/M/Mj/20
S : BA SALAM KHEDMATE SHOMA, AZ SITE BESYAR KHOUBETOUN VAGHEAN MAMNOUN VA MOTSHAKERAM.
dar ghesmate Bayzeye man 2 taa joush beroun oumadeh ke mano be sakhte dochare narahati kardeh, betoure ke bazevaghta baaese dard neez meshavand. en jousha baze vaghta kouchik va bazi vaghta bozorg meshavand haala man nemedonam ke chegoune bedoune morajehe be pezeshk ye kate konam ka az beyn beran ena.man khejalat mekesham beram pishe doktor.lotfam mano rahnamaye konid.
ba tashakore mojaddad , khodanegahdar

DK: agar jooshA tarashod nadArand ehtemAlan dar asar estefAdeye az tiq mibAshand, az dArooye nezAfat barAye zodoodane moohAye zAed estefAde konid.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#128

Az : ?!!!/Z/Mj/21
S : ba salaam:
man mikhastam darmorede alate tanasoliam bishtar bedanam .
yekiaz pardehaye birony an bolandtar az digary ast aya tabiye mibashade?
aya erza shodan ertebati ba bakere boodan darad(yany dokhtare ha ham erza mishavand?)
man gahi vaghty pesary ke behesh alaghedaram dastam ra migirad eke maye sefidrangi taravosh mishavad az man aya in maye bamaye ke dar hengame nazdiky taravosh mikonad yeky ast?(in halate tabiee hast?)

DK: fekr mikonam manzooretAn clitoris bAshad, bale tabiyee ast.
kheir erzA shodan rabty be bekArat nadArad.
halate tabiyee ast, in mAye dar ebtedAye tahrik ejensi be manzoore lubricatione tabiyee majrA tarashoh mishavad va bA tarashohAte mahbeli ke dar hengAme erzA tarashoh mishavad motefAvet ast.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#127

Az : Boy/M/Mj/21
S : SalAm Dr.
Alat e man dArAyeh enhenA(khameedegee be samt e pAyeen) ast va kamee ham be samt e chap (albateh hengamee ke bozorg meeshavad). Az bachegee hameen tor boodeh. Khastam bebeenam aya een moshkel e khasee bad az ezdevaj barayam eejad meekonad?
Az rAh andAzeeyeh een site besyar mamnoonam.

DK: agar mani bedoone moshkel khArej mishavad, kheir moshkeli nakhAhid dAsht.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#126

Az : Dariush/M/MT/29
S : salam. sepas az een site khoob.
enzale man kheyli sari ast va mamoola nemitavanam hamsaram ra erza konam. che rahi pishnahad mikoonid?! moteshakeram.

DK: az Gezlocaine estefAde konid.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#125

Az : Stone/M/Mj/17
S : dar morede inke mainiyam dir be dir miyad sene man 17 ast .che varzeshhayi khob ast

DK: bA tavajjoh be sennetAn tabiyee ast.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#124

Az : Dumbo/M/MT/24
S : vagti be zanam nazdiki mikonam mani sari kharej mishavad va lezate kamal nemibaram .chikar konam

DK: az Gezlocaine estefAde konid.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#123

Az : Navid/M/Mj/20
S : mikhaham bedanam ke eyds az tarighe bozaghe dahan montaghel mishavad ya na,va kollan az che rah hayee enteghal miabad.

DK: be safheye HIV / AIDS morAjee konid.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#122

Az : Ensan/Z/Mj/22
S : salam
ba tashakor az pasokhgooe shoma man chand soal daram:
1- man baed az doran period tarashohat zeadi daram beh modat 1 hafteh beh torii keh besyar zead ast va azab dahandeh, ehteaj ast beh pezeshk morajeeh konam ya khear.
2- man hamisheh khodam ra ba aam nesbattan garm mishoooram, eshkali nadarad.
3- man aslan beh sex ghabl az ezdevaj eteghad nadaram va mokhalefam ama baezi vaght ha na khod agah tahrik mishavam, ama kar khasi nemikonam, in masaaleh baed ha moshkeli injad nemikonad.
mamnoon az pasokhgooe tan.

DK: 1- kheir , pas az ezdevAj kamtar khAhad shod.
2- agAr Ab bAese soozeshe dast nashavad, eshkAli nadArad.
3- kheir moshkeli ijAd nemikonad.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#121

Az : P.h/M/Mj/17
S : man ba ye zan rabetehye jensi dashteh am ,va be nazar zaneh salemi mi amad va baa`d az amizesh ham alamateh HIV ro moshahedeh nakardam(ala emeso midonam)hala che tori mi tonam motma en shavam ke HIV nadaram?
man beyzeh ye samte chapam balatar az rasti ye hast ,az nazareh shoma moshkeli nadareh? va man bayad che kar konam?

DK: tanhA pas az gozashte hadde Aqal 6 mAh az zamAne Amizesh vA tanhA az tariqe AzmAyeshe khoon mitavAn az naqel naboodane viruse HIV motmaen shod! barAye etminAn bAyad teste HIV anjAm dahid.
motefAvet boodane beizehA tabiyee ast.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#120

Az : Daryoosh/M/MT/23
S : man aghd karde am va mikhaham aroosi konam va hamsaram bakere ast. aya avvalin bar nazdiki kheili baraye oo dard avar ast? baraye behtar anjam gereftane in kar che konim?
ba tashakkor.

DK: inke AyA nazdiki barAye hamsare shomA dard Avar khAhad bood yA kheir bAz migardAd be sharAyete fizikie vey. barAye behtar anjAm gereftAne in kAr az mavvade charb konande estefAde konid va agar be hengAme dokhool hamsaretAn dar zir qarAr migirad bAsane vey rA bAlAtar az bAdan qarar dahid tA qose khafifi dar badan ijAd shavad.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#119

Az : Reza/M/MT/25
S : aya dar asare moqarebat emkan darad eids tolid shavad ya faghat dar soorate aloodeh boodane yeki az tarafein enteghal miabad?

DK: agar har do taraf Aloode be viruse HIV nabashand, in virus be hich vajh dar asare nazdiki dar badane AnhA tolid nemishavad.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#118

Az : Mansoor/M/MT/21
S : man ta hala chand bar darooye nezafat gerefteh am amma asari rooye moohaye zaed nadasht va faghat baese sookhtane poost shod. aya in be ellate in ast ke man moohayam zebr va koloft ast? pas man che konam?
soaale digaram in ast ke darooye nezafat chegoone moo ra az bein mibarad? aya az rishe mikanad ya na? dar moghayese ba tigh bishtar moo ra zayel mikonad ya kamtar?

DK: pish az estefAde bAyad moze hatman khoshk bAshad dar qeire in soorAt natanhA moohA rA bartarf nemikonad balke momken ast be poost niz Asib beresAnad.
dArooye nezAfat bA hal kardAne seloolhAye moo dar khod bAese bartaraf shodAne moohAye zAed mishavad va be piAze moo Asibi nemiresAnad. maziAte An nesbAt be tiq Anast ke khatare boridegi nadArad, poost rA narmo latif mikonAd.

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#117

Az : Daryoosh/M/MT/25
S : behtarin halat haye moqarebat che hastand? be soorati ke kamtarin feshar be tarafein vared shavad.

DK: bastegi be khode tarafein dArad va inke be che soorAt erzA mishavand, ammA be tore kolli hAlAti ke be rAhem feshAr vAred nakonand.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#116

Az : Ali/M/Mj/24
S : salam !
lotfan beh soAle man javAb bedahid. hodode do mAh ast keh rang mani-e man ghahvehei rang shodeh ast.ghablan sAbegheh nadAshteh ast. hich noa' soozeh yA dard ham nadAram.be nazareh shoma moshkel chist.darzen bakasi ham rabeteh nadaram.masturbtion ham mahi 3 tA 4 dafeh ast.lotfan man ra rAhnamaei konid.
motashakkeram.

DK: meqdAre 1 litr Ab benooshid, pas az yek sAat edrAr konid va massAneye khod rA kAmelAn khAli konid, sepas bA estefAde az masturbation vaziate mani rA barresi konid, inkAr rA hadde aqal do bAr dar yek rooz anjAm dahid. agar mani hamchenAn qahveyee rang bood emkAne ofoonAte majrAy esperm vojood dArad.albatte be rejime qazAyee khod dar in 2 mAh niz deqqat konid, AyA taqiri nesbAt be qabl dAshte yA kheir? .ammA agar pas az in marhale AzmAyesh mani range tabiyee dAsht dar marhAleye dovvome AzmAyesh bAz ham hamAn meqdAr Ab rA benooshid va pas az gozashte 1 saat agar pas az masturbation inbAr mani qahveyee bood be ehtemAle ziAd prostAte shomA eshkAl dArad.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#115

Az : Meysam/M/Mj/21
S : ba arze salam.
moohaye atrafe alate man kheili koloft va seft hastand va man ba anha moshkel daram. agar kootah nakonam pas az moddati be sheddat misoozad va agar kootah konam(man ba tiq in kar ra anjam midaham) rooze baad ke mooha javaneh mizanand chon zebr va sikhi hastand dar badanam foroo miravand va mara azar midahand. lotfan be man komak konid chegoone az daste in soozesh rahat shavam. chera ke majbooram moze ra bekharanam va dar hozoore digaran in kar momken nist va baese azabe man mishavad.ghablan az javabetan motshakkeram.

DK: az dArooye nezAfat estefAde konid tA ham az zebrie moohA kaste shavad va ham moze dochAre khAresh nashavad.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#114

Az : Alborz/M/Mj/21
S : ba arze salam, modate 2 hafte mishavad ke dar zir,vasat alat man yek tovam be vojood amade be andazeye dorosht.nazare shoma ciye mamnoon misham

DK: bAyad tavassote pezesh moAyene shavad, agar tavarom cherki va dardnAk nist va moshkele khAsi nadArad 2 hafte sabr konid chenAnche behbood nayAft be pezeshk morAjee konid.

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#113

Az : Senjed/Z/Mj/20
S : mikhastam dar morede pardeyee dakhele majrayee tanasoly bishtar bedanam

DK: be pAsokhe soAle #30 morAjee konid.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#112

Az : BAT/M/Mj/19
S : dr aziz salam dar sen va sal man zan nemishavad gereft jalaqham ke besyar zarar darad mikhastam bedanam chetory mitavanam az afrady ke be tor tasadofy ba anha nazdiki mikonam rajebe bimary motmaen basham ya bar farz inke natavanam motmaen basham chetormitavanam az brooz an jelogiry konam che az tarigh alat va che dahan va gheireh khososan hiv
mamnoon

DK: dar morede HIV be hich vajh nemitavAnid motmaen shavid, sAyere bimArihA bazi dArAye Avareze peidAyee hastan ke emkAne tashkhise AnhA tA haddi moyAssar ast be safheye marboot be bimArihAye moqArebati morAjee konid.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#111

Az : Majid/M/Mj/25
S : salam.
mikhastam bedonam behtarin rah baraye jologiri az hamele shodan zan dar zamane nazdiki chist.(enja be kandom kheili alaghei nist va kheili ha masrafe ghorse zede bardari ra tarjih midahand,aya estefade az en ghorsa
avarez nadarad?va aslan en ghorsa tafavoti ba ham darand ya na?)

DK: be tore kolli nemitavAn goft behtarin rAh chist, shAyad motmaen tarin rAh dar hAle hAzer vAzektomi bAshad. estefAde az qorshAye zedde bardAri bArAye senine bAlAye 30 sAl tosie nemishavad zirA dArAye Avarezi az qabile pookie ostokhAn ast. in no qorshA chandAn tafAvoti bA yekdigar nadArand.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#110

Az : Alfered Khan/M/Mj/20
S : ba tashakor az zahamate shoma man ye moshkel daram va oonam ine ke man ba yebar ke abam myad erza nemysham va bayad 2.3bar inkaro konam va az roghan ham baraye jalagh estefade mykonam.va dovom inke darhale amalyat hich ehsasy nadaram yany aslan hal nemykonam aya be kandom rabt dare va bedoone oon behtare.darzemn hamsaram sennan balast momkene be in rabt dashte bashe.mamnoon az zahamate shoma.va soale sevom aya gay baraye erza bade?..montazere javabetoon hastam.

DK: ham be condom rabt dArad va ham be senne hamsaretAn. hamjensbAzi zemne dAshtAne avAqebi ke qablan barAye Anal sex zekr shod mitavAnad bAese anvAe bimArihAye ravAni niz beshavad.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#109

Az : Meysam/M/Mj/21
S : ba arze salam va tashakkor az shoma be khatere zahamate qabele taghdiretan.
man har vaght ke tahrik mishavam alatam ba in ke bozorg mishavad amma bar khalafe halate tabiee roo be paeen ast na roo be bala. hamchenin sefti va estehkam nadarad va dar asar vared kardane feshar be sare an be rahati kham mishavad va manande shilang narm ast. aya in masale eshkali dar moqarebat barayam ijad khahad kard? baraye rafe in moshkel che bayad bokonam? dar zemn bayad begooyam ke az koodaki adat be pooshidane shorte tang dashteh am va alatam ra roo be paeen negah midashteh am(alan ham ingooneh ast va agar dar halati ke bozorg ast an ra bala biavaram be sheddat dard migirad).khaheshmandam man ra rahnamaee konid chera ke negaran hastam va mitarsam ezdevag konam.ba tashakkore faravan az shoma.

DK: ehtemAlan be noyee vAris mobtAlA hastid , hatman be pezeshk morAjee konid zirA be ehtemAle ziAd bAd az ezdevAj bA moshkel movAjeh khAhid shod.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#108

Az : P-a/Z/Mj/21
S : ba arze salam
man yek dokhtare 21 sale hastam modati pish hengamike dashtam khod ra mishostam,khastam kami abe dagh baz konam keh dastam rooye shire ab charkhid va ab beh shedat baz shod.alate man kheili sookht va ghesmati az an mesle taval zadegi varam kard.bad az chand rooz didam keh yeki az pardehaye dakheli alatam bozorgtar az an yeki shode.mikhastam bedoonam keh in baese moshkeli mishavad ya na?soale dige inke hodoode 5-6 sale pish mobtala be amale jalagh shodam va in kar ta 3-4 sal edame yaft.ta inkeh dar ketabi etelaati raje be jalagh khandam va taze be amale khod pey bordam.kheili say kardak keh tarkash konam va balakhare movafagh shodam.2 sal ast keh an ra tark kardam.mikhastam bebinam keh an dar ayande va vaghti keh ezdevag kardam barayam moshkel be vojood miyavarad ya na .besyar sepasgozaram

DK: jense parde az mokhAt ast vA ehtemAlAn Abe dAq bAese tavarrome An shode, masAleye hAddi nist, be hich vajh be An dast nazanid vA roozi yekbAr Alate khod rA bA Abe sard beshooyeed, pas az moddAti behbood khAhad yAft.
dar morede jalq ham chenanche be pardeye bekArat Asibi naresAnde bAshid vA yA bA estefAde az vasAyele nAmonAseb be mahbel Asibi naresAnde bAshid, pas az ezdevAj moshkeli nakhAhid dAsht.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#107

Az : Kamran/M/Mj/30
S : ba salam
lotfan begoed ke man chegoneh metavanam modat zaman nazdeky khodra tolany konam. man besyar zood erza meshavam

DK: mitAvAnid az spray ha yA cream hAye bihess konande az qabile gezlocaoin estefAde konid.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#106

Az : Smg/M/Mj/24
S : ba salam doctor jan.chand vaghti bood vaghti tahrik mishidam maye birangi az alatam kharej mishod.leza be doctor moraje kardam.doctor goft yek masale adi ast vali ba didan alatam goft be varis darage sevom mobtala hastam ke madarzadi ast.aya in bimari mard ra aghim mikonad? ba tashakor

DK: kheili kam in emkAn vojood dArad. dar har soorat behtar ast nesbat be darmAne An eqdAm konid.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#105

Az : Omid™/M/Mj/19
S : ba salam va tashakor az site khoobetoon mikhastam beporsam baraye ijad e tamayol be sex baraye ye dokhtar az che daroohayee mitavan estefade kard va mikhastam bedoonam ghorshaye estrojen ro bedoone dastoor e pezeshk ham midan ya na albate man carte daneshjooyee ye reshte ye pezeshki ro daram va fekr mikonam bedoone dastoore pezesh ba oon cart behem ghors ro bedan,dar har soorat mikhastam komakam konid
mamnoon

DK: az Viagream mitAvan estefAde kard.
dar morede dAdane qors be shomA etelAyee nadAram. mamoolan in qors bA noskheye pezeshk dAde mishavad.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#104

Az : Mohan/M/Mj/21
S : baray por shodane kamar che bayad khord.

DK: estefAdeye ziAd az mAyeAt, mokhammere Abe jo, qazAhAye garm.

Dr. Kahrobayi

#103

Az : Amirali/M/Mj/21
S : ba arze tashakor be khater in khedmate bozorge ensani. aghaye doktor man ghablan taghriban har hafte 2 bar estemna mikardam.va dar hodoode 6 sale pish motovageh shodam ke bad as edrar va taharat meghdare kami edrar as man khareg mishavad va ta hodoode 5 daghigheh bad as edrar ehsase mikonam hanooz dar mejra edrar baghi mande va gahan niz chand ghatre khareg mishavad fekr kardam shayad be khatere estemna bashad be hamin khater 7 mahe pish be yarie khoda tavanestam in adat ra tark konam valy hanooz ham in halat dar man vogood darad lotfan mara rahnamayee konid(albate yek sonagraphy ham anjam dadam ke dar an hich moshkeli vojood nadasht)
Ba tashakor,
amir

DK: pas az edrAr be komake angoshte eshAre va shast, chand bar az entehA tA ebtedAye Alat bekeshid. be hengAme edrAr, kami motemAyel be jolo bAshid, hadde aqal yek rob dar rooz qesmate bAlAye Alat va rooye massAne rA massAj dahid. be varzeshe shenA dar Abe sard eqdAm konid.

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#102

Az : Stone/M/Mj/?
S : salam
che ghazahayi baraye dastgah tanasoli khob ast mani man be sourat tabiei dir be dir miayad.che konam?

DK: albatet senn-e khod rA zekr nakardid, shAyad in masAle be senn-e shomA ertebAt dAshte bAshad. az mAyeAt ziAd estefAde konid. qazAhAye garm bekhorid.

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#101

Az : M2002/M/Mj/21
S : ba salam khedmate shoma va besyar besyar mamnon az in tarhe zibaton ke be fekr mardom iran hastid .man shenide boodam ke baraye afzayeshe toole alate mard bazy az doctorhaye darohaye giahy tosie be estefade az shire olagh(khar) mikardand ke 8 cm be toole alat miafzayad aya sehat daray ya kheir ...

DK: kheir in matlab janbeye elmi nadArad.

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