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- Very quiet. Unobtrusive. You would
never know that they were there
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- until the light fell on them.
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- A few cold, grey, dust-blanketed souvenirs
of a faraway time. A gnarled, broken, inarticulate pile of Memories
highlighted by a grinning skull, lying on its side, staring into
the dirt as if in shame, hiding its face. The sad apologetic
grin trying to excuse itself from bothering you.
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- Your immediate reaction is one of shock,
horror and a cold vice-like fear.
These poor old bones would never hurt you, neither would its
previous owner (may he rest in peace). Society has taught us
that these chiseled limbs of calcium are the epitome of evil,
a shameful secret that must be stuck in the ground and forgotten
about, when in reality they are their owner's final gift to us.
Not the gift of paperweights, but the gift of memories, emotion
and of a special spirit now gone. Cast your eyes down and let
them rest on that thigh bone. Listen. Can you hear it? A mother
is clapping as a toddler takes his first steps. Look at the hand,
it has a ring on it. Years ago he nervously knelt and asked for
the love of another. Look at his collarbone, shattered by a bullet
in a war long gone. Grandchildren sat on his knee and listened
in awe as he told tall tales of a glorious battle. You close
your eyes and listen as a flood of his memories are played before
you like the supreme theatrical drama. Childhood, first love,
first born, marriages, deaths, births, sadness, happiness, life
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- Silence. You open your eyes and look
down at the grinning skull.
It has changed from a demonic grin to a tired smile that seems
to say, "Thank you for understanding, and for taking the
time to listen."
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