I, like every other human I know, am a sexual being. Religions that teach that sex is "dirty" or "sinful" are right out with me. I will never be somone to seek a life of privation. Sex just feels good damnit, and I'm on a quest to make it feel better for both me, and the person I'm doing it with. A noble goal if I ever heard one.

Of course, this discussion of what and who I like to do should really start with my sexual orientation. Unlike what you may be assuming, simply because it's the norm, I am Bi-Sexual. What does that really mean? And what do I mean when I say it?

For most people, Bi-Sexual means that the person in question finds both women and men attractive. This is rarely a true 50/50 split, and I'm certainly not so balanced. I find women more attractive then men on the average, but I wonder how much that is affected by the media and society constantly bombarding me with the message that it's undesireable to be a homosexual male. I think lots of men are attractive, and someday I'm going to find a cute boy and explore exactly how much fun that can be. My main reason for not having done so yet is the simple fact that it's such a taboo in our society. I'd rather not start a fight by asking a guy out, so I want to be sure that he's open to the idea before I ask. In case you're curious, this is a long and difficult process that I'm chosing to take slowly. Nobody said I had to be gung ho about it. Trust me, I'll get there eventualy.

As for women, I've had 10 partners so far. Some of these relationships were purely sexual. Some were fun and enjoyable romantic relationships that ended well. Some ended in complete disaster. I've learned a lot from all of them, both about myself, and about other people. I can derive a great deal of pleasure from giving someone else the time of their life, though I'm also unlikely to stop them from doing things that feel good to me.

I find myself wanting to collect experiances, both good and bad. The fact that I actualy want to experiance bad things, such as being cheated on, is a bit strange even to me. I guess I'm just an experiance junkie. I'll never know what it's really like unless I do it once right? And a good writer needs as many experiances as possible to be able to really make the imaginations of his readers come afire. More importantly, the more sex and the more varied sex I have the better I am in bed. So far I've been told that I'm pretty good. Assuming it's true, that's terrific. I'd still rather be better. If you're going to do something as wonderful and fulfilling as sex, why not be world class? It may be the only thing I could truely attain such a title in, though obviously no one is going to hold a competition.

Preferances: My Type (Women)

This is going to sound cheesy and false, but I truely base my most important assesment of how attractive someone is on how much I like them as a person. People I don't like become ugly in my eyes. I once remember being very attracted to a woman that I later considered rather homely becasue she was such a repugnant person in the way she delt with people. Above all, people I find attractive must treat me well. It helps for them to treat the people around them well. They should at least be able to respect, if not enjoy, my intrests. They should be intellegent. I can't abide talking to someone who's too much less intellegent than I am. Sounds arrogant but then this part is all about me isn't it?

Physicaly, I go mad over red hair. Red hair and green eyes are a goddess's combination in my opinion. I also like dark hair. Blondes need not apply. If gentlemen prefer blondes then I'll be twirling my villin's mustache in the back of the saloon. I consider blonde hair to actualy be slightly ugly. This gets worse as I get older. Longer hair is better. I like women to be shorter than me, though I'm very flexible on this point. "Goth" girls, are a fascination, as are asian or latino women. However, I'm flexible on this point again. I don't have too much of a preferance as to the amount of bodyfat the person carries. Once again, the most important part is thier personality. I'm not saying being built like Jessica Alba (of Dark Angel) is a bad thing, but I'd rather date a nice person than someone who's built like Aphrodite. I'm fascinated with breasts. Women with large and or well shaped breasts always catch my eye. I don't like women who are skinny to the point of looking unhealthy, and I very much wish American media would stop promoting that sort of look. Give me Mia Hamm over Kate Moss any day.

As far as things that are complete turn offs... my one big one is smoking. No smokers need apply. I hate smoking with a fairly amazing passion,and belive me, I have my reasons. I will never smoke as long as I live and neither will any man or woman I date.

Preferances: My Type (Men)

I'm a little more picky over men, probably because I've been bombarded by media telling me over and over that I shouldn't be attracted to them. Or, considering Occams Razor, I could just like women better. Who knows? The fact remains that I am attracted to some men, and the two basic types that I like are described below.

The first kind of guy I like are the pretty boys. You know who they are. Thin, high cheekbones, could be very pretty women in drag. They're a lot of fun to look at, and if they dress in dark colors and have pale skin that's just a huge bonus. Femme boys are yummy.

The second type I like are big dark hunky types. David Boreanas of the TV show Angel? Wow, he's a hottie. Like the Demonic Lounge singer says on that show, it's all about the coat. Though actualy it's not. It's all about his eyes, he has great eyes. So I like guys with expressive faces, hunky body... who can pull off the tall dark and slightly dangerous thing. Oh yes, you know the type.

As with women, no smoking. No "macho" guys either, I've known some guys who were macho without trying, my father being one of them. Pretenders are just silly, no matter what they might think.

Preferances: What I like.

Did I mention breasts before? Ah yes, I did. Obessessed with those. I like to play around with sex, variety is the spice of life. Bondage, role playing, even a little Domination Submission play, sex in various interesting places... these are all things I like. In case you're wondering, none of the names of my partners are ever going to be pasted up here. I've got a long hitlist of things I haven't done yet, that I want to do, and I'm working on shortening it. Want any more info? email me, but I don't promise to answer ANY question you'd have.