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#1: You have to learn to live with this condition.
TRUTH: You do NOT have to "learn to live" with this condition because there is a complete process, tools and methods to remove this from your life once and for all. Yes there is a sure way past this and it works! Myth #2: These feelings will always return...setbacks are inevitable. TRUTH: This is NOT true! Once you begin moving forward the symptoms will shrink down to manageable size until they no longer matter and dissipate all together. There are always "bumps in the road" in life but when you slow down, remember your skills and tools, you will be able to negotiate anything. Remember, slowing down, and keep going forward and moving ahead. You can never turn back! Myth #3: "I am worse than anyone else!" Truth: This is a normal feeling when looking at your anxiety symptoms and most people go through a period of thinking this thought. The truth of the matter is that no matter how you were stressed into this condition, most people have very similar symptoms. All these symptoms are adrenaline based and therefore limited and there's a set way of moving past them. You may think you feel worse than others but this is not true. When you go through this the "right way" you will move past this is a relatively easy and quick fashion. Myth #4: "I'm too "young" "old" "busy" "scared" or "whatever" to get past this." Truth: Age has no significance to getting past this condition. It is not a factor. Neither is anything else as long as you follow the formula...the process. There is a way out and anyone can do it. There is a "right way" to go through this and if a person uses these skills, being in total control again is completely attainable.....and in a relatively short time! Myth #5: "I need a "safe" person with me for support." Truth:
Support is a wonderful thing to have and it feels wonderful, BUT it feels
more wonderful to rely on YOURSELF! Once you learn how to move past the
symptoms and go forward with strength and control you will understand
the feeling of depending on YOU. Myth #6: "The places I want to go are too "noisy", "smoky", "bright" or "crowded" for me to feel comfortable." Truth: It's not the places.....It's what you are saying to yourself in these places. That's why you feel safe when you get home.....you tell yourself you are and your body responds favorably. It doesn't matter if you are in the middle of Times Square on New Year's Eve if you know what to do. It's all in how you define where you are and the way you think.....your body reactions just naturally follow. Myth #7: "My friends or family don't understand and this makes it harder for me!" Truth: This has to do with you regaining your life and it doesn't matter who else is on the peripheral. This is between you and yourself. Once you start gaining control you will see things that USED to bother you will now roll off your back. When you are less vulnerable, things won't stick any more. You'll be treated differently because you will be acting differently. You'll be stronger, more secure and it will SHOW. You will see relationships improve because you won't let "minor" incidents bother you and you'll feel better about yourself. It follows suit that everything else around you will naturally improve! Myth #8: "Maybe there's something seriously wrong with me that's been overlooked!" Truth:
Naturally after you've been checked by your physician and been diagnosed
with the anxiety condition you will feel some relief. You know it's anxiety
symptoms and you feel relieved it's nothing physical. Then why do you
still feel those symptoms??? The reason is that your body is still very
sensitized from weeks, months or years of fueling the feelings by thinking
the wrong way. Once you begin to do it the right way and the symptoms
stop mattering you will realize even though the "first fear"
flares from time to time, that it will dissipate if you just stop feeding
it and fueling it with your fears. These symptoms are the effects of adrenaline
and although they feel uncomfortable, they are merely trivial. Myth #9: "I must do ANYTHING to avoid these feelings.....they could hurt me!" Truth:
Avoiding is what built up the fear that keeps you sensitized and in this
condition. Myth #10: Drugs are the only answer. Sometimes you need a quick fix. NOT!!! Truth: Some medications do take the edge off, there's no denying that. Some drugs also sedate and have side effects too. This is purely a personal choice between you and your health care provider. It is a choice though We work with people taking medications and those without medications too. We have seen people, with their physicians approval SLOWLY go off their medications. We also feel whether you're on medications or not, it's invaluable to know how to go through this with skills, methods and tools you have learned and can carry along with you wherever you go! Myth #11: You've tried everything and Nothing works.....you're stuck for life. Truth:
You have not really gone through it the "right way".....You
have given in to your fears and ignored your power. You own the strength
to go through this the correct way.
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