| Domestic Violence |
| What is Domestic Violence? Domestic Violence is a form of abuse which results in the mistreatment of one person (female or male) by another. It's a pattern of control used to physically harm and/or induce fear. To prevent a person from doing what he/she wishes and/or force them to behave against their will. Domestic Violence is not only Physical harm, domestic absue can take many forms: Physical, Imotional, sexual. Even economic abuse. It can involve a spouse, ex-spouse, partner, household members, family members, your date, or ever friend. Statistic: Domestic Violence affects one out of every four women in their lifetime. It crosses all races, sexual orientations, religions, socio-economic groups and it happenign all over the world. Domestic Violence is a CRIME, no mater what kind of realtionship you have. It does not stop on its own, but only gets worse. The good news is, there is help available for both the abuser and the victim. (I don't like the work "victum") Help for abuser the person being victumized. Are YOU being Abused now or in the past? Have you ever been pushed, shoved, slapped, kicked, pinned down, kept from leaving, or threatened with a weapon (anything from a gun to a fist)? Forced to have sex, or perform sexual acts which were uncomfortable to you, talked about as a sex object by your partner, or accused of being unfaithful without reason? Taunted by your partner in the name of fun, ignored or had your feelings ignored, insulted pereatedly, threatened with violence for you, family members or ever pets, labeled as stupid, crazy or ugrly? Ever hear "The only way for me to get throuth to you is to hurt you?" Told you are worthless? Insulted in public, followed from place to place, isolated from friends and/or family? Refused money for food, meadications, or household needs, locked out of YOUR home, refused transportation, or have been the target of destroyed personal property by a loved one? These are just a few of the many examples of abusive behavior. If you or someone you love is experiencing abuse, YOU ARE NOT ALONG! |
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| You can help! If you think you know someone who is being abused, get involved. Domestic violence is NOT a private issue, it affects everyone. Victims of abuse are often isolated and don't know there is help available. You can help them by talking with them tabout your concerns, encouraging them to seek help, guiding them to communtiy services, providing emotional support, helping them develop safety plans, and letting them know that domestic violence is a crime. |
| Planning for Safety: |
| If you are planning to leave, determine the safest time to do so. Bring clothing, important papers, keys, medications, and money with you when you leave. You may want to pack these items before-hand and leave them with a trusted friend or neighbor and retrieve them after you leave. If you have been injured by abuse, seek medical attention and ask that the injuries be documented in your file. Keep any evidence of physical abuse like photos, torn clothing, etc. Know where you can go for help. Tell a trusted friend or relative what is happening to you. Keep phone numbers of domestic violence resources, friends and relatives with you. Plan with your children about safety. Let then know where to go for help if violence breaks out. Call 911 if you need help or feel you are in danger. |
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