I was designed as a contraceptive. My purpose is to prevent unscheduled pregnancies as part of family planning when couples are not ready to raise a child. I was meant for sexual union with very little chance of conceiving. I serve well and have more than 90% success rate if used according to instructions. Thanks be to God who inspired the one who invented me! My service is only a one-time affair and I will be destroyed. As such I take pride only when I am engaged in rightful sexual intimacy. Other than this, it is greatly degrading and feel abused.
The changing world is ever changing (for the worse) the attitudes towards sexual relationships. The liberated and outrageous abuse condoms like me in every sexual encounters. Such activists encourage the use of condoms to help curb sexually transmitted diseases (STD) but it actually put their mind at ease more when they indulge in sex especially, the unnatural sex. They seize every opportunity to publicize the use of condom and educate everyone that the condom is a must-use the condoms for every safe sex although their focus is not quite same for those married couples. Rather, their efforts are extraordinarily strong & active with those unlawful & those unnatural sex encounters because this is the high risk group for STD, HIV & AIDS.
Unfortunately, those trying to curb the number of HIV or AIDS patients are not helping the situation. This misconception actually encourages more people to indulge in sexual pleasures, sometimes with multiple partners especially homosexuality. It is like a false a religion coming out of the commandment of the sinful man and then gaining support. This is a very sad situation and a dangerous one for those who believe that the condom can save them from the diseases. Infact, the liberated sex activists took advantage of the condoms and manipulated the function of condom to suit their sexual appetite.
Profit driven organizations are constantly inspired to expand the performance of condom, creating new marketing fields and new customer targets. Yes, there is really wider increase in the use of condom but it is also clearly accompanied by the increase of HIV and AID by many folds. But the truth is, condoms are not meant to curb spread of diseases like HIV or AIDS.
Condoms merely reduce the chances of pregnancies and it is not even 100% safe! Let's use an example :
Without using condoms, let us say the percentage exposed to HIV is 10%. So for 100 men, 10% is 10 HIV cases. With the assurance of condom, now we have 500 men willing to try. So, if 10%, it is 50 hits. Even if the percentage is reduced to 5%, the number of cases is 25 which is two & a half fold increase. This is because more men now dare the dare.
We have to be realistic about the increase in the principle number of men involved in promiscuous & irresponsible sex and also not to underestimate their protracted effect (their partners, partners of their partners ?etc). Ironically, it only reflects the little worry of these hardcore; their ease of mind of those who are hesitant and worth the risk-attitude for those who are vulnerable.
The root of the problem is sexual immorality - the culprit is the lustfulness in the man himself. At the same time, the solution to this problem is also the man himself because the human is the means of transmission sexual diseases. Thus, when the man himself exercise self-control against sexual immorality, to respect sex as an intimacy with own spouse only, there is no chance to be exposed to HIV through sex, with or without the condom.
Therefore, in reality wider usage of condom does not help curb the number of HIV but has raised the number of men put at risks, especially among the unnatural and unlawful sex partners . Also, do note that condom do not open doors to irresponsible sexual behaviour and definitely not a working tool for sex market. Really, condom like me is not capable of preventing spread of sexual diseases, whether AIDS or HIV. Don?t blame me if you are exposed to them. I am only a contraceptive; please get this right.
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By irene
