Feeling safe in your relationship? That's good. But how and why do you feel safe? Do you feel financially secure? Do you feel safe because of their physical strength? Do you feel safe that they will not cheat on you?
Are they financially secure? And you feel safe? ~.^ I think you know what the suspiscion may be. Are you constantly suspected for this? Is it because your other spoils you with gifts and others think you are asking for them and constantly bugging for them? Maybe you should tell them to lay off the spoils? It is nice to recieve presents, but they should not feel obligated to achieve your appreciation. Tell them that you do not like how they feel that they must achieve your appreciation throgh presents and expenses; simple words and actions can grant that. (I suggest using more slang than my intricit words, sorry.. lol) If they cannot understand this, refuse, and continue to buy you presents; then they are being selfish and foolish (although it is not likely they will do so, money is money). If they get angered by this and feel hurt or think that they have offended you somehow by trying so hard, explain that you appreciate the attention and attempts to gain your appreciation, although not so much effort is required.
If you feel safe because of their physical appearance (and this is not common) then it may be that you are simply physically attracted to them. Do you know if they believe in God? Where were they born? What is their middle name? What is their fathers name? What is their favorite color? Did you not know the answer to any of those? If so, then you may not know them so well and it is simply a physical relationship (which is common), feeling safe about it, however, is something that should be reconsidered. Do you feel safe because they are strong and very protective? Yet, do you think that they know the true you? If physical relationships is something you want, then that's fine, but do not expect commitment, and make sure they do not either. Make it clear what it is, if there is any problems that erupt. Now, why do you feel that you must only have a physical relationship? Have you been hurt recently and need to be with someone? Are you simply horny? Are you in need of help? Do you want someone to be there for you? Then maybe you should find someone who truly cares for you, and not for your tits or cock.
You feel that they will not cheat on you? This is very good. It is trust. Trust is something that is sadly hard to aquire sometimes. Do not let little things question your trust, for giving trust is something that you should give out in order to recieve it. Although, do not let your trust blind you and absorb their abuse or disrespect. Do not let anyone be reckless with you while you trust them, for this would mean that you care much for them, and cannot believe that they would do something mean to you; you do not want that to happen and are trying to make it go away, but it may just be inevitable.
Feeling safe is good however; it means there are no worries on your mind and you are feeling happy. Do not let anything I said here lead you to weary thoughts that may cause paranoia; I'm just looking at options and offering advice that may apply. Otherwise, you should be feeling great! GOOD! YAY! :^D
