The actual program
There are a few things that are required from you as well as from me. Here is what is required from you:
1) You must participate in the program in order to continue in it, this will be explained in detail in a few minutes.
2) There will be times when you will need a phone card, I call all my members on scheduled intervals. This is a small cost on any given time as you can usually find calling cards fairly inexpensive.
3) If I feel the need to talk to you on the computer you will need to arrange a time when you will be available.
4) There may be times when I require you to write me essays. These are simple and will not take long to do. If I ask you to do this it is probably something we have either discussed or it is something that I would like to
know about you before proceeding in the program.
5) You will work toward the face to face sessions and work toward achieving whatever goals we have set for you. There is no pretending that you do something or are not behaving in a respectful way in order to be punished/disciplined. There will be plenty to come.
6) After you reach goals I will put you in a maintenance program, (this will be explained later) You can always add more goals or different goals, and I will deal with things as they come up. (for instance if you get a speeding
ticket, I will deal with that)
7) You need to be clean and respectful when we have face to face sessions. (I never used to put this in my requirements before but due to experience I now need to do so.)
As for what is required of me:
1) To be your disciplinarian, I will be there to deal with whatever situations come up as they come up from this point on or until one of us decides the program is not working.
2) I will provide you with fast and true answers to whatever questions you ask me.
3) I will keep in touch with you on a normal and regular basis. This will include emails on a regular basis, phone calls when scheduled, and whatever other contact we will or have decided on.
4) In a face to face session I will be your disciplinarian; I will stick to the program and deal with your bottom in the exact way I have explained. I do not give information on how I will punish you until we are in the
situation for you to be punished however you will know and understand the choices etc. before any sessions take place.
5) I will be fair and sane when disciplining you. I will choose whatever way best to deal with your actions however, you will be treated as a human being and not as a slave etc. You are not my slave, you are a human being that needs structure in his/her life that I am giving you.
6) I will be understanding to your lifes responsibilities, accept it if you are unable to fulfill your part of the program IF you have reasons and are willing to explain to me.
7) I will be available to you if you need to discuss your situation. Or for any other questions, etc..
8) I will care for you, love you, be there for you, and treat you with respect.
9) I will be what you need from me, If that is a best friend or just a disciplinarian, that is what I will become for you. I care deeply for the bottoms in my program, as people and want them to succeed so I will become
whatever I feel they need. If you need something from me let me know.. and we will see where to go.
10) As other issues come up I will add other requirements. Please if you find anything you wish to suggest please do so. I am always open to suggestions.
I mentioned earlier that you would need to have a phone card, When you are accepted into the program, (we both agree you need this program etc.) then you will have 2 weeks to get me the first phone card. You can give me this
in one of two ways and there is one way that you can skip getting one. You can either snail mail the card to me, (if this is what you would like please ask for address) or you can email me the numbers needed to use the card. If
you wish not to buy a card you can have me call you collect but in myexperience this tends to be very expensive however some people do have 800 numbers if they have the right long distance, and I have used those. These
phone conversations will consist of many different things, we will discuss your behavior, we will discuss when and where your next face to face meeting will be, and what ever else needs attention, (including possibly your
bottom) I will keep notes on these phone conversations and if I feel it is necessary to deal with something then I will do so in the next face to face meeting. The ultimate goal, and what makes this program work for so many is
the face to face sessions. Now I realize that some of you live a great distance from me and face to face sessions are not possible on a frequent time frame, however you will work toward having this session happen. Everything we do and/or say will work toward that goal. For those of you that live close enough, my program works best if we meet at least every month, some I meet more often if it is possible, however every month is a sufficient amount of meetings to make this work. I expect you clean and presentable during these face to face sessions. I will warn you, if I find that you are not clean or presentable, I will take this into my own hands and bathe you. I do not like to do this however I also do not tolerate uncleanness. If this happens I will punish you for it so please avoid this
situation and make sure your presentable. I also have what I call programs inside my program. Many different people require many different programs. I have tried to meet everyone's needs and desires in making this program as helpful as I could. Following you will find the different programs within my program.
1) Strictly discipline-main contact is only when you feel you need my firm hand, whether it is in a spanking or a lecture, etc.
2) Disciplinary friend-I am there to talk too as a friend but will take care of any and all misbehaviors.
3) Authority figure-Where I am in complete control of what you do. In other words other than work or school you would need permission to go and do anything
4) A mother figure-Where you are treated as my child. I do whatever a mother would do with her son or daughter..
5) Maintenance program-Where on a regular basis, we will discuss your past discipline and you possibly will be spanked as a reminder of the behavior we have corrected in the past. This is also to remind you that I am in charge of your discipline and will continue to punish you when you may need it These sessions are usually on a weekly basis, or on a biweekly basis, and are carried out on the same day of the week, and are done regardless of
behavior and are above all needed punishments for misbehaviors.
Now I will explain what to expect during a spanking,For most of my programs there is a safe word that will be decided upon before we meet the first time. However, there should really only be one reason this word is ever used. That is if you feel you need to use the restroom during a spanking, (as I will NOT tolerate you
urinating on me) if you do use the safe word don't be surprised if I follow you to the bathroom and wait for you to use it. If you feel you need to use the safe word for any other reason, one of these 3 things will happen.
1) The session will be over and you will be dropped from the program.
2) After discussing the problem you agree to a added hand spanking after your lesson, I will warn you if this happens the hand spanking will be VERY VERY severe.
3) You will be given 5 min in the corner to relax and then the session will continue where we left off.
The first thing that will happen in any session is you will spend some time in the corner, This time will depend on the offense we are dealing with at that time.
So first we have:
1)Corner time-usually at least 15 min, but unsure of how long until situation occurs. Then after the corner it is time for your warm up so we have the warm up:
2)Warm up-this will be done usually on your underware/boxers, it is usually with my hand and the amount of swats will vary depending on your tolerance. After the warm up we have the actual lesson, so we have the lesson:
3)Lesson-This will vary with each spanking administered. It will always be on your bare bottom, almost always with an implement of my choosing. Sometimes I will use more than one implement. This is the longest step in
the session. Sometimes I will scold, and lecture at the same time, sometimes I will have you count your spanks, or I will have you thank me for them etc. This part of the session will continue until I feel you have been punished
sufficiently for your wrong doings. After the lesson you will either go back to the corner or get your conditioning spanking, Since the corner is pretty self explanatory I will describe the conditioning. So we then have the
conditioning:
4)Conditioning-I will have you over my lap,(most the time anyway) I will set a timer for a certin amount of time, this time will be at least 2 minutes and up to 45 (I have never done longer but I could if I needed to or if I
think it is necessary. I will be rubbing your bottom gently and then suddenly begin to hand spank your bottom, 5 swats on each cheek alternating from cheek to cheek until the timer goes off. When the timer goes off I will
sometimes then give between 10-30 hard swats all over your bottom. I will then ask you my post spanking questions. I will then let you up off my lap and send you to the corner to think, sometimes at this time I will make you write an apology or a thank you letter depending on what you have/haven't done. Etc.
After your spanking, I will comfort you by hugging you and telling you you are cared for, we will talk softly.
At times in a session I will not allow you to get redressed through the night, I do this so that your bottom is submitted to me at all times without having to undress it again. This way if you need a swat or two your bottom
is ready and a willing participant sort of speaks. I do not add behaviors together in one spanking, In other words if you are told that you have 3 issues we are going to deal with you can plan on being punished 3 times. Etc...
I hope you will accept this program and want to receive the help it is intended to give. Following you will find a sample of the consent form you will be required to sign before having a face to face session due to a legal
matter I need to add this into my program.
I _____________________ understand that Mistress Karol has many different forms of her program, I also understand during her sessions I may be spanked along with other forms of discipline/punishments. In doing so I understand and accept that there may be some bruising and/or welts left on my bottom. I also understand that all our session are to be kept private unless agreed upon between Mistress Karol and myself. I have read and understand this consent form. I can pull myself from this program at any time as well as Mistress Karol can end my program at any time. If either shall happen I understand we will have no contact what so ever. This consent is good for one Calendar year from the date signed, and will be initialed and redated with every spanking I receive between today and one year from today. I give my permission to punish me in whatever way Mistress Karol sees fit and needed to fulfill her program.
Thank you
X_____________________________________________
Dated this day__________ on this date_____ in the month of________of_______.
