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Mistress Qualities
by the sub/slaves of the Mistress Domain
I am writing it while dressed in my
best black lingerie and Wolford stockings which I hope pleases you.
A good Mistress
(spelling it downwards with the qualities):
Mean - in the sense that She never gives disobedient sissies a second chance. Once should be enough.
Intimidating - Towering over a bound, gagged and kneeling slave to show She is in control.
Stylish - Dressed to punish in immaculate leather dom gear or sexy power suit.
Trusting - Able to rely on a cyberslave to carry out orders, also so a slave can confide his/her innermost thoughts and show their true devotion.
Regal - Pampered liked a queen by her submissive slaves.
Enterprising - Always testing her slaves with new and demanding tasks (a slave can help here with ideas).
Strict - Never giving an inch, nor taking no for an answer, able to control with the lifting of an
eyebrow.
Satisfied - A Mistress always deserves to be this. Not a problem so long as the slave carries out orders.
sissy katie
What I like about my Mistress (as She is a good Mistress in my eyes) is Her loving, caring and Understanding nature, She is also very supportive and tries very Hard to help me achieve difficult tasks and rewards me When I have done these.
Her ability to read my thoughts and needs at the time are remarkable and definitely help U/us to improve the relationship W/we have. Her ability to also hand out punishment is a great asset as at times, I do need to be punished and reminded of my tasking and such.
Mistress can very quickly turn and be harsh if that�s what I need and that in the long run helps me to improve myself for me and most importantly for Her.
The desire She shows me to want to watch over me and protect me and improve me only helps to strengthen the love Ii have for Her and no One will ever hold that place in my heart that She has.
I love Her and give myself to Her freely as She has shown me Her love for me and that She can give me what I need and crave as it is what She wants and needs too.
Dezs_pet_wolf
A good Mistress must treat her sub with in her powers, A Mistress will treat
her sub where they want to come back to her, by letting them have fun with
her Mistress. A good Mistress well let her slave be welcome with other
sub and slave. By doing this she well be able to make them well and fit to serve
sub suebi99
What is a good mistress i think that a good
mistress must to be very strict and demanding she must know, feel and use the power she have about her slaves and to punish severely about every misbehave that will keep the subs attention and will remind them always who
they are and what them place. a good mistress must to know what going inside her slaves and not because that them fantasy important to her just because that is the strong power to control and dominate if you know what going inside
the sub so you know what humiliate him what hurt him and what is the best way to punish him that give the mistress more power to play with her subs. i hope it ok and enough and it will be honor to me to keep all Your orders.
slave_tlv
I think the first and most
important requirements for a d/s relationship are truth and
honesty so i hope that any Mistress would be One who
deals honestly with me. i also hope that She
understands my need to submit and treats Me with care and
dignity. At the same time, however, i know that my
Mistress' pleasure, even Her whims, are what i must focus
on. my obedience is for Her to use in whatever way
She wishes, to please Her and i hope She enjoys Her
power over Me and finds my desperate worship of Her
pleasing. i look to her for guidance and strictness - i
would hope She would punish instantly when She thinks
it justified but reward me too if i please Her
enough. She would never negotiate with me, She would
decide and require my total obedience. She would respect
my limits while pushing them firmly if they were
ones which She felt to be restricting for
Her.
Sub Michael
Qualities that a Mistress should posses:
Compatability with Her submissive;
Knowledge of Dominance and submission;
Willingness to instruct and train;
A knowlege of Her own power.
Each Domme and each submissive posses their own path in life including
their past and future. For them to grow together they must have
compatible expectations.
The good Mistress is knowlegable of the art needed for Her craft. She
has invested the effort to acquire the knowledge needed to safely posses
Her submissive physically and mentally.
A good Dominant knows that each submissive can grow with training and
direction. She is willing to help the submissive grow from what they are
into their full potention, be it with a carrot, or a stick. *giggle*
A Domme is always aware of Her power. The submissive trusts the Domme
and gives herself to serve, learn and grow at the Domme's direction. The
good Domme respects this gift and wields power over her thoughtfully.
Humbly submitted,
suzi
I believe that a Good Mistress is One who is tough but lenient.
I think that She should expect her
orders to be carried out exactly and correctly but be understanding if her sub/slave cannot follow these same orders for very good reasons.IE the sub has been hurt or for psychological reasons.
I think that a Domme should always be
aware of her subs pain thresholds and look for signs that they are being reached.
I think that a Mistress should be generous th a sub that has followed
orders exactly . I dont mean always, just
occasionally.
Thank You for Your time.
mmadere1
A Mistress should command respect � this is not to be confused with �demand respect� (but a Mistress can also use that to great affect). The self-confidence is evident in everything she does. It is an honor for her sub that she spends time with him/her.
A Mistress is demanding. She expects obedience above all. She is firm when her sub falters but is quick to reward his/her success.
She is loving, caring, and nurturing.
A Mistress uses her sub for her pleasure but the deep emotional bond is always there. She takes pleasure in seeing her sub grow as she continues to test his limits. Because of the level of respect, trust and love; the sub is easily controlled by the Mistress. he/she will submit to her in ways others may not be able to understand.
Your humble toy
Dommestoy
To me, a great Domme is one who can conquer with personal power, stripping down any reluctance with Her
will, making one helpless to deny Her. She may use mental realignment to mold a sub to Her specifications.
She views some stated limits as weaknesses to be exploited. She is sexually selfish and She does not like to
have to repeat Her demands or have them questioned.
Servile 2000
A good Mistress to me is a lady who knows what she wants and knows how to get it.
She takes no shit, no quarter, and no hesitation from anyone - particularly her male slaves - one who is keeping her from what she wants.
In so doing she is....
Thoughtful - in planning her next move.
Devious - in doling out the unexpected.
Creative - in keeping her slave on his toes.
Harsh - when she needs to be.
Loving - when she wants to be.
Humbly submitted,
sparkytoy
I feel, and truly desire, the following qualities in a Mistress of my life;
1) That she, without any variance, should 24/7 controll my life WITHOUT ANY thought to my needs or desires.
2) That she be totally dependent on me both financially and materially and have her tastes run to ONLY the most luxurious and very finest in ALL things of her desire and whim.
3) That she sever all my contacts with past friends and family.
4) That when it comes to her treatment of me, that it be harsh, and without 'safe word'.
5) That she transfer all my previous christian worship over to herself.
6) That she be relentless in her demands of me as to personal, household, and culinary services to her.
7) That all thoughts of gentility, understanding, and pleasure be for her, and her only.
8) That she require, at the time of my collaring, that I sign (with witness/es), a legal document, committing myself and all that I possess to be transferred over into her control,
I am hoping that this is what you are requiring and that I have not again acted in error!
Submissively,
neeny (Janeen Marie)
A Mistress should command respect.
Must be very strict and demanding at times.
A Mistress uses her sub for her pleasure but an emotional bond is always there.
I believe that a Good Mistress is one who is tough but lenient and kind.
I think that a Mistress should be generous when a sub that has followed orders exactly. (Reward and Punishment)
Compatibility with Her submissive. (Makes sense)
Stylish - Dressed to punish in immaculate leather Dom gear or sexy power suit.
sub4sx
A mistress must be strong, firm, kind, gentle, patient and impatient willing to reward and determined to control the sub is her toy to do with as she wishes it may be nothing it may be slavery it may be punishment it my be torture or it may be banishment
utim1
I believe a quality Mistress should have the following attributes:
1) Self Control: in my humble opinion a Mistress needs to be in control at all times. I am sure there will be times when I will make a mistake. I am only hoping I will not be disciplined when She is angry as I will need my mistake to be explained to me so it will not be repeated.
2) Mercy: This quality is one I consider to be one associated with greatness. I believe Mercy is strength for it breeds kinship. A Mistress should know when to be merciful and any discipline should be thought out in advance I believe disciplines true goal is learning for the future and not to inflict harm.
3) Empathy: a Mistress should be able to understand how a sub or slave thinks. Most people confuse this with sympathy where you can feel sorrow for the other person. Empathy is being able to put oneself in another�s situation or predicament and just being able to understand how the thought process is going.
4) Respect: I may offend S/some with this quality but I believe that respect should flow from bottom to top as well as top to bottom. For the Mistress to have power (especially online) it must be relinquished by the sub or slave. Without the slave or sub there is no Mistress and vice versa. I believe the sub or slave who gives up all control and is completely submissive should be treasured by the One who owns him/her.
5) Love: I feel a Mistress should love who She is first and then should love Her submissive. I think this starts out as a mutual respect and deepens into love. I believe a sub that feels he is loved will do everything he can for his Mistress and will always put Her first. I think the sub that is loved will never do anything to dishonor his Mistress and will always put Her needs first. I know allot of P/people would say this is what he is supposed to do anyway but I think being loved intensifies it even more and makes it so there is nothing he wont do. Of course to E/each H/his/H/her own but it works for me.
little_one
1. Confidence: In Herself, Her abilities, a good Mistress knows what She wants and has the confidence that She will have it.
2. Self Esteem: goes along with confidence. A negative self-esteem can be a dangerous thing in O/our lifestyle.
3. Trust: the most essential element to O/our lifestyle.
4. Knowledge: Understanding of this lifestyle is essential to playing safely. A Mistress that does not read, talk to other Dommes and practice does not gain experience and can unknowingly do damage to a submissive.
5. Compassion: I know this may sound strange considering the lifestyle W/we have chosen but a good Mistress can bring Her submissive to tears with pain and then, without breaking character, kiss those tears away with all tenderness.
I welcome any comments or remarks regarding my list.
Thank You for this Opportunity to share with E/everyone.
Nectars_james
I believe in what I have learned and read in the relationship between a Mistress and her sub that it involves commitment and devotion. A Mistress that can help and aid a sub toward what he needs to learn in being pleasing and responsive and most of all respectful to her instructions that builds a rewarding pleasure to his Mistress. A Mistress that understands with passion and discipline in developing a subs knowledge and desire to be serving and fulfilling of expectations and proper servitude to his Mistress. To show power over her sub by methods of her desire that will strengthen and bond her subs needs of her control and to want with respect and honor to always obey and be considerate to his Mistress from the training, teaching and discipline she administers and that not only by punishment but ways of exercising her power to the betterment of obedience and compliance in her sub
sub2b