True Dominance comes from maturity,grace, and wisdom. Thirty years in the lifestyle has brought me to a place in my life where I can be effortlessly in charge and uninhibited and exuberant in play. I've been a switch most of that time and understand the psychology of what we do from both sides of the whip. Compassion and sadism work in tandem for me - the contrast enhances the experience. Do not let the mention of compassion fool you, though. I can be strict, stern - even cruel - I may hurt you, but NEVER harm you.
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