| BDSM Partner Checklist |
Below is a list of D/s activities that you may find helpful in guiding your erotic activities. It is meant to be filled out by a submissive for the Dominant's use.
The list should be used as follows:
 | - Answer YES or NO next to each item to
indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
| - Indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity
by rating it on a scale of 0 to 5 or as a NO. NO
means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances. A
zero indicates you have no desire to do that activity (in fact, may loath
it) but you are willing to do it to please the Dominant. 5 means the
activity is a wild turn-on, with the other numbers indicating some level
in between those two. | |
| Activity | Yes | No | 0-5 | Activity | Yes | No | 0-5 |
| Abrasion | Anal sex | ||||||
| Arm & leg sleeves | Asphyxiation | ||||||
| Bestiality | Beating soft | ||||||
| Beating hard | Being Blindfolded | ||||||
| Being gagged | Being serviced (sex) | ||||||
| Biting | Breast bondage | ||||||
| Branding | Boot worship | ||||||
| Bondage - light | Bondage - heavy | ||||||
| Breast whipping | Brown showers | ||||||
| Caning | Catheterization | ||||||
| Chauffeuring | Choking | ||||||
| Chosen food for | Chosen clothing for | ||||||
| Clothespins | Cock worship | ||||||
| Collars (wearing) | Corsets (wearing) | ||||||
| Cuffs (metal) | Cutting | ||||||
| Dilation | Double penetration | ||||||
| Electricity | Enemas | ||||||
| Examinations (physical) | Exhibitionism | ||||||
| Face slapping | Fantasy rape | ||||||
| Fantasy gang rape | Fisting | ||||||
| Following orders | Foot worship | ||||||
| Forced dressing | Forced homosexuality | ||||||
| Forced masturbation | Forced nudity | ||||||
| Forced servitude | Full head hoods | ||||||
| Genital sex | Given away | ||||||
| Golden showers | Hairbrushes | ||||||
| Hair pulling | Hand jobs - getting | ||||||
| Hand jobs - giving | Harnessing | ||||||
| Head - giving | Head - getting | ||||||
| High heel worship | Homage with tongue | ||||||
| Hot waxing | Housework | ||||||
| Human puppy dog | Humiliation in private | ||||||
| Humiliation in public | Ice cubes | ||||||
| Including others | Infantilism | ||||||
| Injections | Intricate rope bondage | ||||||
| Interrogations | Kidnapping | ||||||
| Kneeling | Leather restraints | ||||||
| Lecturing | Licking | ||||||
| Massage - getting | Massage - giving | ||||||
| Medical scenes | Mouth bits | ||||||
| Nipple clamps | Nipple weights | ||||||
| Oral/anal play | Over-the-knee spanking | ||||||
| Orgasm denial | Orgasm control | ||||||
| Phone sex | Piercing (temp) | ||||||
| Piercing (perm) | Pussy whipping | ||||||
| Pussy worship | Riding crops | ||||||
| Religious scenes | Saran wrapping | ||||||
| Scratching - getting | Scratching - giving | ||||||
| Serving as a pony | Serving as a maid | ||||||
| Sensory deprivation | Serving | ||||||
| Serving as ashtray | Serving as furniture | ||||||
| Serving orally | Sexual deprivation | ||||||
| Shaving | Spanking | ||||||
| Speculums (Anal) | Speculums (vaginal) | ||||||
| Spreader bars | Stocks | ||||||
| Straight jackets | Strap-on-dildos | ||||||
| Strapping - full body | Suspension | ||||||
| Supplying victims | Suspension (inverted) | ||||||
| Swapping | Swinging | ||||||
| Tape gags | Tattooing | ||||||
| Teasing | Tickling | ||||||
| Triple penetration | Uniforms | ||||||
| Verbal humiliation | Videoed scenes | ||||||
| Voyeurism | Whipping | ||||||
| Wrestling |