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| Dear Miserable, To me, you sound like you are miserable because you didn't tell your friend earlier you were going to have sexual relations with the guy she liked. That's part of the problem, but I think the main problem is something that you don't see yet. You were essentially naked with this boy and kissing him, something that should be saved for marriage. Yes, you didn't SLEEP with the boy, but you still committed a sin. You are no longer sexually pure. Yo usaid that it felt so perfect. Well, if you were going against God, it wasn't. Satan makes things like that feel good, perfect, but they aren't. I'd get out of that house and move in somewhere else. I would not stay in a house with that boy. First of all, he doesn't respect your body. He initiated the physical contact!! Of course, that doesn't leave him all the blame. You didn't resist. You are to be blamed as well. But God is a forgiving God. As for forgiveness and you WILL be forgiven. Stay away from other situations where that same thing could happen. Those types of action should be saved for your husband. About your friend...you are right. You should have told her before that you liked each other. I would apologize and explain how the relationship came about. But again, even though that relationship occured, it doesn't give you ANY reason to practically sleep with the guy. I am sorry I am being frank here, but I think that you need to see the reality of your actions. If you want to discuss this further, email me. Miss Weird |
| Dear Miss Weird, My best friend is dating a guy that I live in the same house with. We're not related, but my house is getting renovated. I'm staying at his place, and the rest of my family is staying at my sister's best friend's place. His sister invited me to stay their guest room. Well, so she's dating this guy, and I've kind of got a crush on him. Lately, we've been fooling around together. You know, going to the make-out floor of a night club and doing our stuff there. Well, I haven't told her yet. Because I feel so guilty that I've stabbed my best friend's back. But I know that if I don't tell her soon, she's going to find out some way or another. Well, I was going into the kitchen one day, getting a snack(My best friend was coming over) and I was home alone with "him". then he grabbed my hand and pulled me upstairs with him. We went to his room, and he locked his door. He pushed me and I fell on his bed. He then started take off his shirt. I was so shocked I didn't know what to do or think.He then stripped my shirt off and my bra. He took off his pants and then he took of mine. Afterwards, we started kissing like crazy. I couldn't control myself. Kissing him felt so perfect. I didn't hear a car come on the driveway. Well ,to tell you this, his room is right in front of the house. So, the window was open, and my friend saw us on his bed lying there and kissing! I heard a loud gasp and broke off the kiss. There, was the most terrifying scene ever. My best bud was standing on the driveway, and was bursting in tears. Then, she ran to her car and drove off. I felt so bad for her. I kept on thinking I should have told her before, and why didn't I? What's wrong with me? I feel so dejected now that I went behind her back. She won't look at me in class, she won't eat lunch with me, she won't even accept my apologies. She's not even talking to me. I need a place to stay away from "him". I can't even look him in the eye anymore! I just feel so ashamed and helpless. I want to go to back to my life I had before. But how can I? Miserable |