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| Dear Hopelessly Devoted, You say you are in love. But how do you know? Today, society lots of times defines love as just "more than like" or an "infatuation." I believe true love, real love, is something really different. You may want to define what real love is to you before you state that you are in love with someone. But back to your main problem, what should you do. I was in a similar situation before, and I know how it feels! (In fact, it was even with MY guyfriend...wow) You want to know...and so badly! You want to go up to the guy and ask him straight out! But, after personal experiences, I think that it would be best if you just be patient. I personally think that the guy should be the initiator and th girl be the responder. You should just be a good friend to your guyfriend. Be there for him and hang out with him with other friends. Get to know him better! Don't express your feelings just straight out. It often scares the guy off, and he closes up. The best way to know if he truly likes you is to get a response from him with you doing anything. If he does, it shows he's interested. I suggest reading "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris. Do not be decieved by the title. It is an excellent book on this topic and can help you more than I can. But overall, remember that God should be the center of our attention. I know...boys are distracting! But God should be the one we love and should get our attention too. Because He's the one who we can say TRULY loves us. |
| Miss Weird, I am SO in love with my guy friend. He's super nice and super hot. When he sees me, eve with his friends, he stops talking and says hi to me. Sometimes he gives me a high-five, too. He's completely the total-package guy! We're not super-close like insererable buddies, but I never have seen him act like this with any other girl, or I'm just too blind to notice. I want to tell him, but I want to keep our friendship. We have been friends for half of last year and until now. During the summer, we would talk online about what's going on with our summer vacation. He's such a great guy; I want to hang out with him 24-7, but I don't want to linger so much as to be a bother. Plus, he's always with his friends. I can't just go, "I like you". I want to tell him, but he might tell his friends, and I'll be the laughing stalk of the school! Then he'll never be my friend anymore. I hope he likes me, but there's a slim chance of that. Please help! xoxo-Hopelessly Devoted |