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| Dear Hopelessly in Love, First of all, I'm glad that you said you don't want to be the center of his life. I'm glad you said that! Too many times the girl/boy friend becomes the center of the other person's life when GOD is supposed to be the center of your life. I can understand why this is frustrating for you. But if your boyfriend isn't going to commit to the relationship, why stay in it?? If your boyfriend REALLY cared about you, he would make more of an effort to get together with you. Dating takes time and energy and committment and if both parties aren't willing to put into it what it requires, the relationship will go down the drain. You said that this is your first boyfriend. So chances are you are still young. As I said, relationships take time and energy and committment. You have school to put in most of your energy! so why put in energy into a relationship that, stastically, won't last very long. Chances are you aren't going to get married to this guy! Why don't you put your time and energy into something more important: your future. The time you are spending with your boyfriend may get in the way of your future. I'm not saying dating is bad, but you have to know how to use it and when to use it. I highly recommend reading "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" by Joshua Harris. It is an EXCELLENT book and will give you a new perspective on dating. Miss Weird |
| Miss Weird- My boyfriend and I have some problems. Well, he has no time for me and his world revolves around his friends, family, and homework. No me. I mean, I don't want to be the center of his life, but it would be nice to get noticed. I really ike him a lot, and it's the first boyfriend i've ever had, and he's really special. He said he'd "try to" make time, but I doubt that he will try at all. I'm trying to give it time, but it's really frusturating. Please help! Hopelessly In Love |