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| Dear Crazy, Oh! I can SO relate to you on this one. I LOVE romance books and I can totally understand how you feel. I applaud you for even evaluating it this far. Some people read the romance books and automatically expect the same excitement in ever relationship they have and don't even realize the cause of it all. Now, I can't speak from personal experience, but I feel that all relationships are exciting. They might not be as dramatic and breath taking as the ones in the romance books, but they ARE exciting. But one thing to watch is what you've already pointed out: don't judge a romance just because it isn't exciting enough. When you read the books and watch the movies, remember that the relationships in there are usually exaggerated to make it more exciting. Your relationships aren't going to be like that and hopefully they aren't. Relationships like that aren't based on the foundations they SHOULD be based on, but are rushed and fantasized about. I'm not saying that relationships are boring, but they will have their own element of excitement that separates them from the ones we read about. Just remember to be able to tell the difference and don't mix the two. Miss Weird |
| Miss Weird, I read alot of romance novels and watch alot of romance movies. I feel that every story should have love in it. Well, you see, since I read and watch these erotic books and movies, i fell that love should be as exciting and fun as the love couplesin the novels I read should be. I know that it can't be like that, but I feel this urge over me that a relationship isn't good enough without the fun and excitement in the novels I read. What should I do? Crazy over Romance |