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| Dear Confused, First of all, answer this question to yourself. How do you feel? I understand you don't just want to be a person she talks to when she's just been dumped. You want to be her friend all the time, correct? But she's just a good friend. You don't like her. I'm trying to dicipher your message. You were vague on how you feel. I'd like to say I admire your caring for this girl. The world needs more guys who see girls as friends too and not just property or potential girlfriends. I think that if you just care for her as a friend, you'll be showing her that you care for her. To show her you don't like her, don't show much physical attention. A short hug, a pat on the back, a smile. Don't hold hands, put your arm around her shoulders, or stuff like that. It might give her the wrong impression. As for how she deals with guys, try to help her. Give her advice on how to not end of up with the wrong type of guys. Tell her to wait to find out what type of guy she is dealing with before going out with him. Remind her that she is special and that God made her. Tell her that she deserves better because of that. Your intentions are good. I admire you for that. Miss Weird |
| Miss Weird, I have a friend who is always ending up with guys who treat her poorly and don't give her enough attention. She complains to me about it but she never does anything to fix her situation. It frustrates me greatly. Recently she was dumped and I was the guy that she went too for comfort. I think she has realized how good I am too her, but I definitely don't want to be used as a rebound guy. I care about her alot and I want her to be happy. How can I be a good friend without giving her the wrong idea about how I feel? ~Confused |