| Dear Braless Babe, Okay, before I start this letter I want to stress these two things. First, you should go and talk to an adult about your situation. Someone you respect and trust and someone who is a Christian. Be honest and talk with them. Also, I am not certified for this job so if there is something I say that you do not agree with, don't take it as a professional opinion. First issue: You were drunk. I strongly believe against drinking. To avoid future situations like this, I highly suggest that you stop drinking. No matter how fun it is. It is detrimental to your health! Drinking has been proven to cause the loss of brain cells, something that we need! So...the first step is to stop drinking. You are more susceptible to sleeping with someone if you are drunk. Not good. And God tells us in the Bible to not drink! Specifically! In Galatians 5:19-21, He says, "The actsof the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkeness, orgies and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God." Some people think that drunkeness or sex is not in the Bible, but it is! In those three verses, both are listed. Second issue: Losing your virginity. You obviously know that this is a sin. And it was wrong. I suggest that you talk to someone about this, as i said above. This is a serious issue. First of all, I'd dump your boyfriend. A guy who doesn't respect your body and value your virginity is not worth staying with. Also, if he is stealing your bras (i do NOT want to know he accomplished that) he obviously has a sick mind. Why should you stay with him? But all is not lost. God is a forgiving god and what you did is not unforgivable! God is waiting for you to repent and say you are sorry. It says in 2 Peter 3:9, "The Lord isn't really being slow about his promise to return, as some people thing. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to perish, so he is giving more time for everyone to repent." It means in that verse that God is giving us time before the Rapture because He doesn't want ANYONE to go to hell. He wants EVERYONE to repent, including you. Tell God you are sorry for your sin. Also, you can also have secondary virginity. I'm sure you've heard about it. If you realized that you've messed up and want to start clean, you can take up secondary virginity and promise to be pure from here on out. Save your body for your husband and respect your body. Don't give it away willining. It is special and should be valued as one of the greatest creations of God. If you wish to know more, email me. I couldn't put down all of my thoughts due to space. I'm praying for you. |
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| Dear Miss Weird, This guy i've been dating I lately I think is stealing my bras. One night, I got drunk at a party. He brought me to his apartment and said, " I love it when you're not wearing a bra." (I did not know how he knew that) Since we were both drunk, I slept with him. I could not help myself! I could not believe it! I was giving myself away to him. I lost my virginity right there. When I woke up, I went to the bathroom, and saw my bras hanging all over the place! Could you give me a bible verse to help me cope with this? Signed, braless babe |