The Ideals and Universal Truths of Realism

Why are people attracted to one another? What makes two individuals stay together, or go astray and find affections elsewhere? Through careful logical thought and observations of my life and the lives of all those around me I believe I may have been able to fit a few of the puzzle pieces together. While no one will ever quite understand this subject entirely, I believe through my rationalizations that I just may just have gotten a handle on this. I call my idea Realism. No, not art work or anything of that sort. This is Romantic and Sexual Realism.

I was talking with one of my fellow Mikist officersa while ago. Yes, I do have officers...not imaginary dolls I speak to as some of you skeptics may have orignally thought. He was saying to me that "everyone is beautiful" and that "beauty is on the inside". He also remarked that there is "someone for everyone". I respect his ideas, and I wish I could second them. I cannot. My fellow officer is what I like to call a Radical Idealist. Of course that is the way things should be, and the way we would like them to be. However, it is clearly not the way things actually are with minimal exception.

Of course the first step in any relationship is the initial attraction, which is almost entirely based upon outward appearance. Once one person is attracted to the other that person may consider attempting communication. If the other party agrees to engage in the conversation, the man and woman will get to know each other a bit better. This is called post-initial attraction, or the attraction to another person after getting to know them slightly or getting to know something about them (pictures, stories from friends, and so on). Below is a pie chart illustrating the varying factors of post-initial attraction for high school girls to high school boys:

Forget the Idealistic Bombardment of Gibberish You've Been Told Your Whole Life, and Enter the World of Realism.

Perhaps you have heard the song entitled "Girls and Boys" by Good Charlotte. One of the main lines in that song is "Girls Don't Like Boys, Girls Like Cars and Money". That is only a partially true statement, girls do indeed like boys, but not for the reasons that Idealists believe. Idealists believe that girls are attracted to boys on the basis of personality. Not true. When is the last time someone heard a girl remark, "Wow, look at the kindess of him."? Very rarely indeed. Girls are attracted to three things from the ages of 15-25: Physical Appearence, Social Skills, and a positive Monetary Situation. Personality onlt comes into play well into a relationship.

Let's say you have, oh, 0% of this pie chart. Does that mean you won't get anyone? From the ages of 15-25, I would say most definitly. If you have that nice 1% personality I would go as far as saying you have a chance, with someone desperate. The pie chart works as follows: If you have 99% of it you have a 99% chance of finding a girl interested in you, and if you have 1%you have a 1% chance of finding a girl interested in you. Fairly simple.

So what's the point in all this Realism? The point is to alert oneself to the actual situation that he is in, and then to make the best of it. If you're an unattractive man without a lot to offer there is simply no point in going after an attractive girl. Why? Beacause when an attractive girl sees that someone she has no interest in likes her, she will use him for money, favors, and any other personal amusement she can think up. That's simply the way girls are, they grab hold of their own personal Realism and use it to their advantage. Trust me, I know. I think all men know this already, but I feel that it's a good idea to refresh everyone's memory.