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Idealists, as a
temperament, are passionately concerned with personal growth and development.
Idealists strive to discover who they are and how they can become their best
possible self -- always this quest for self-knowledge and self-improvement
drives their imagination. And they want to help others make the journey.
Idealists are naturally drawn to working with people, and whether in education
or counseling, in social services or personnel work, in journalism or the
ministry, they are gifted at helping others find their way in life, often
inspiring them to grow as individuals and to fulfill their potentials.
Idealists are
sure that friendly cooperation is the best way for people to achieve their
goals. Conflict and confrontation upset them because they seem to put up angry
barriers between people. Idealists dream of creating harmonious, even caring
personal relations, and they have a unique talent for helping people get along
with each other and work together for the good of all. Such interpersonal
harmony might be a romantic ideal, but then Idealists are incurable romantics
who prefer to focus on what might be, rather than what is. The real, practical
world is only a starting place for Idealists; they believe that life is filled
with possibilities waiting to be realized, rich with meanings calling out to be
understood. This idea of a mystical or spiritual dimension to life, the
"not visible" or the "not yet" that can only be known
through intuition or by a leap of faith, is far more important to Idealists
than the world of material things.
Highly ethical
in their actions, Idealists hold themselves to a strict standard of personal
integrity. They must be true to themselves and to others, and they can be quite
hard on themselves when they are dishonest, or when they are false or
insincere. More often, however, Idealists are the very soul of kindness.
Particularly in their personal relationships, Idealists are without question
filled with love and good will. They believe in giving of themselves to help
others; they cherish a few warm, sensitive friendships; they strive for a
special rapport with their children; and in marriage they wish to find a
"soulmate," someone with whom they can bond emotionally and
spiritually, sharing their deepest feelings and their complex inner worlds.
Idealists are
rare, making up between 25 and 30 percent of the population. But their ability
to inspire people with their enthusiasm and their idealism has given them
influence far beyond their numbers.
The Four types
of Idealists are:
Healers (INFP) | Counselors
(INFJ) | Champions (ENFP) | Teachers (ENFJ)