This describes how angry I am with my sister. Don't get me wrong I know that I have wrote about her and how grateful I am that she took my daughter in. But and that is a big but I am aggravated because of things that has changed regarding my daughter.  My daughter has turned her back on God and is goth and believes in vampires and all that kind of dark stuff, she has become and chain smoker just like my sister and the biggest fight I have to solve is the fight over the cigarettes.  So now my sister I believe has figured out a way to solve the fight over cigarettes and that is making my daughter the maid of the house and cleaning up after everybody and to me that is not fair.  Her own children are getting to the age that they can start taking more responsiblity around the house.  But another thing it makes me wonder is what is my sister doing that she cant get up and wash a dish herself.  I know that she has back problems like I do but when my house is a mess and I am tired of the boys not doing there chores it might take me a long time to do them but I get up and clean.  I dont make anyone my maid.  My sister is always complaining about money and not having enough well maybe if her and my daughter would give up the cigarettes then she might save some every week to get her that SUV that she is wanting.