When you meet a woman you’re attracted to, at all times you should be attempting to reach "attraction points", points where her interest in you is at a peak. Getting into a fun role-play with her would be an attraction point. But the attraction point will at some point wind down (for example you can’t keep a role-play up forever), and you need to keep things lively. Fluff talk is a way to keep the conversation animated between attraction points. It allows you to hold a woman’s attention and interest until you find a window of opportunity to use an attraction technique or theme.

Keep your fluff talk FUN! Don’t get bogged down into boring, interview-type conversation: Where did you grow up, what do you do, where did you go to high school, blah blah blah. These questions are BLAH! Every other guy will ask her these kinds of boring, unoriginal questions that bog down the fun atmosphere. You must impress upon her that you are FUN and that she should keep talking to you, so avoid "DEATH topics".

If it’s not appropriate to be "fun", at least be emotionally engaging. Women see the world through their emotions, and will rarely pass up an opportunity to discuss emotions, especially relating to men & women, and dating.

If you absolutely MUST ask common questions, try and put a C&F spin on them:

"What's the story behind that?" (good for anything from a necklace to an interesting purse, etc) Ask sort of suspiciously, as if she doesn’t know whether you approve of it or disapprove.

"What do you do?" (before she can answer) "Let me guess…You’re a lion tamer aren't you? Do you stick your head all the way in the lion’s mouth? That must be pretty dangerous work."

"What part of town are you from?" (answer) "Oh, you’re one of THOSE girls?" (when she asks "what do you mean??" avoid answering and change the subject)

"So what do you do for fun?" Makes her think you might be a "fun guy" to be around, while at the same time gives you your answer as to whether she is taken or not. If she’s in a serious relationship, most of the time she will mention the bf when talking about what she likes to do. You can even ask this in a mischievous way and add "Aside from the obvious stuff I mean" if the girl seems that type.

"Do you like ice cream?" (Yes) "On which part of your body do you like it best? Kidding!" Most women like ice cream and will respond to the first part of the question in the affirmative. This is also a test question to see if she’s the type who’d get a kick out of GM style/sexually overt C&F.

Now, if she’s asking interview-type questions about you, she’s interested in you and trying to build rapport. Quit the C&F after a couple questions and just answer them from then on, and ask them back, LIKE NORMAL.

(What do you do?) "I do a lot of things." (scoff) "What, like you mean you want me to tell you where I work? Do you want to stalk me or something? What do YOU do? Other than stalking guys at their jobs, I mean?" (blah blah, later asks again) "Guess". (Are you a X?) "Don't insult me like that! Guess again." (Second guess) "Don't insult me like that either!"

(What do you do?) "I'm a pimp, wanna be one of my hoes?" (whatever answer) "Well I couldn’t take you anyway, I have a special clientele of Japanese business men who pay by the pound…so I only have really fat girls working for me. Your ass is too skinny and you wouldn't bring in enough cash."

(What do you do?) "I’m an ass model." (If she laughs stick out your ass at her, and have her hit or feel your ass to see how hard it is) "Do you dare doubt THIS ass?"

(What do you do?) "I work for a male escort agency…We specialize in G-spot orgasms. Our market research showed that women aren’t having enough quality orgasms."

(What do you do?) "I’m a painter". (houses, artwork?) "FORGERIES. Van Gogh’s mostly, sometimes a Picasso."

(What do you do?) "I’m one of those guys who goes around seducing rich women out of their money. Are you rich??"

(What’s your name?) "Guess." ("Robert" or whatever) "Are you serious?? Do I LOOK like a Robert to you?? That’s such a geeky name! That’s it, there’s NO WAY I’m letting you name our future kids!"

She asks you what you did today: "I went to get some things at the drugstore. You know, NEEDLES to feed my heroin habit...I was running low. But the worst part was I ran into my PIMP on the way back. He told me I wasn't bringing in enough cash, so I'd have to pull a double tomorrow night. So there goes my sleep again."

If she looks bored, here’s your emergency first-aid to re-inject fun in the encounter: "You look BORED! The last time I saw a woman this excited, she was in a COMA!" (confirms she's bored) "Medic! We need 50mg of adrenaline over here, STAT!" [Place your hands apart and say] "So you're pretty sure you don't feel *this* excited yet?" (no) [Bring your hands closer] "Maybe you're feeling *this* excited?" (No, not really.) [Hold up in one hand a very small gap between your thumb and forefinger and, smiling but seriously]: "Could you possibly be at the very least *this* excited?" If she's not smiling by now, she's a lost case. If she IS, then say "See? You're smiling, you're starting to have fun now! So what do you do for fun when you're bored?"

If she says she's stressed: "I'll help you relax with an ancient Indian relaxation technique." (Start gently rubbing her ear lobe and pulling her hair back firmly, which of course only gets her all hot and flustered!)

If you're getting clingy vibes from her, or she seems to keep bringing up relationships: "I think that people get into relationships too fast. I think that two people should wait a MINIMUM of a few months before they even think about it. I have to know someone before I'm running around calling them my girlfriend. Most of the problems happen because people get involved too fast." Engages her in an emotional conversation, as you discuss this.

If she says she's angry about something, or it shows when she's talking about it: "Are you angry?" (a bit) "I don't believe you. I think you're FAKING anger!" (If she denies it) "Ok then, PROVE you're mad! Come on now! Show me your angriest face... GRRRRRRRRR [make a GRRRRR face] Come on, you can do it!!!" (the best part is when they TRY to put on an angry face but cant keep it) "That's a terrible mad face! I don't see a future for you in professional wrestling." This can also be used successfully as a turnaround if she’s a little angry at you for whatever.

"If you really like a guy, how many times do you let the phone ring before you pick it up? If you only "sorta" like the guy? What if you hate the guy? Voicemail?" This can open up an interesting discussion on games she plays with guys who call her (and can even you an insight on whether she’s flaky or not). It also gives material to bust on her later if she answers right away ("You answered after two rings! You must really like me.") Last but not least, you can use the whole discussion about calling to set up a number close.

If she says she has to leave, even for a minute: "Don't tell me you were scared off by my stunning good looks and sex appeal!" This parting C&F jab will have her leave on a good note, and she’ll be more inclined to come back to talk to you some more.

(Discussing some activity) "We should do that together one day…IF you

BEHAVE well enough til then"

"I BET you have a nice smile..." Right after you say that, YOU smile and wait for her reaction. "Ah! See? I knew it."

"When I find my feminine side, I won't be able to stop touching it."

"My horoscope told me I should make new friends today." (what else) "It also told me finances would be a big part of my day. Are you RICH by any chance?"

Use games as a last resort if the conversation seems to be stalling too often. Ideally you should be able to carry on a conversation for hours, and keep it interesting using the material found in this program.

Soul Gazing: "Have you ever heard of soul gazing?" (yes or no) "Really? It's something they teach in Tantra. It's where two lovers stare deeply into each others eyes to really become in touch with each other. Wanna try it?" (follow with eye contact with bedroom eyes for as long as possible, if she starts to giggle then move in and kiss her)

"Let’s play the Lying Game: I ask you a question, and you have to come up with the biggest, worst LIE to answer it. The more outrageous the better! You can’t just say "yes" when the answer is "no". Then you ask me a question and so on."

(For 3 sets) Use a mini cold-read by saying one is the leader, one is the shy girl that’s really the bad one and one is too nice to be with the other two. If there’s four, point to the fourth and say "And you, I haven’t quite figured out yet." This one is good to use on your target.

(For 2 sets) Tyler Durden came up with the idea of the "Best Friends Test", and in his words, it’s CHICK CRACK. They love it. Get talking with a 2-set. At a certain point say, "I’m going to test you to see if you two are close friends" (say BEST friends if they appear to be so). The girls will take you up on the challenge, and you say "Which shampoo do you use?" The two girls will ALWAYS look at each other before answering, and before they can answer you say "STOP. I don’t need to hear your answer, I already know that you two are close/best friends." (How?) "Well, the first thing you did when I asked the question was, you looked at each other before answering. If you two weren’t close, one or both of you would’ve just looked straight at me and answered right away." (In case she’s joined by a male companion) "Hey, I was just asking her opinion on something and maybe both of you guys can help me on this..." Use an opinion opener. Then do a cold read on both of them. Tell the guy that he seems like he’d rather be sipping a beer, sitting on the beach somewhere, just kicking back.

"So how do you all like me so far?" "You know what…I LOVE you guys…you guys are the best…I'm adopting you guys…you guys rock" (patronizing comment that can be applied to the whole group) Adopt them as your rock band groupies "When I’m dirty and sweaty after a rock show, and my hair smells like smoke, you guys are gonna have to scrub me down in the shower. It’s what groupies do." "What I really need is a chick who will support me…You know, a rich girl. Are any of you rich? Do you know anyone who’s rich?" (they’ll name someone) "NICE... I’ll be her boytoy…and then I can have affairs with you guys on the side…"

If there’s a guy in the group, tease them about being lesbians and having a guy hang out with them just to have a cover. They’ll laugh and insist they’re not lesbians. "Too bad, cause you know that’s men's #1 fantasy... What do you think women's #1 fantasy is?" (If they don’t know) "I can't really tell you, I have to show you so you can experience it (move in very close to the one closest to you). It’s to have adventure and danger with someone strong and powerful and it feels like THIS" (reach your hand up behind the closest girl’s head and pull her hair).

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