Inconsistency is the key to driving her desire up. Consistency only sends messages to her subconscious that you are a man she could RELY on, but that doesn't make her LUST after you. You can use an analogy of rides at an amusement park: Consistency and predictability is the Ferris wheel. Ho hum. Boring. You go up, and around, and back down ... and up.... Nothing fast. Nothing unknown. Just a tall view and look around the area. Nice, but NO thrills. Inconsistency - Surprise, danger, thrills - are found on the ROLLER COASTER. Get her in the front car and start her heart racing with the unknown. You have to get her on the right ride if you want to get where you want to go. Keep her off balance, so she doesn't know what's coming.

Being mysterious doesn’t mean faking that you work for the CIA and keep everything a secret. It simply means not being an open book. If you knew ahead of time how a movie ended, you probably wouldn’t be as interested in it. It’s the same thing with mystery; by maintaining an air of mystery about something, whether it be about yourself, an event, or your past, you invoke a woman’s curiosity and keep her interested.

Too much disclosure by YOU too early kills (MURDERS!) your chances for sleeping with a woman. Too much disclosure means you lack SELF-CONTROL, and that's one of the critical components of your self-confidence. It's better to err to the side of giving her too little information. It creates more mystery, which works in your favor (as long as you work to increase her attraction along with it). Telling her something negative about you can NEVER increase the positive feelings she has for you. It doesn't work like that. Don’t be a disclosure machine! Leave some questions unanswered. You can actually use bits of disclosure as a reward method when she does something you approve of.

She asks you what you did last Saturday: "That’s classified".

She asks you something about your past: "I’ll tell you when I know you better" (a challenge for her, because it gives her something to strive for—earn your trust/get the details)

She asks how many women you’ve slept with: "Wouldn’t YOU like to know that? Heheh"

She asks what you two are doing Friday night: "It’s a surprise".

Tell her "I have something for you". When she asks, don’t tell her no matter how hard she pushes. It can be something as simple as a kiss, but she won’t know that until you see her.

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