I'm having this problem......I can't seem to get my boyfriend to say I love you. He just won't. We have been in SO many situations where he could have seaid it. i'm starting to think he doesn't love me or wanna be with me at all?? Help!
From,
Sad Girl 17, USA
Dearest Sad Girl,
So....your beau won't say "I love you". Hmm yes I can see how that might be of some concern to you. However, your boyfriend might not be ready or comfortabe saying those words to you. That certainly doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. I think that when he's ready, the time will come and he will say those words. Until then enjoy each other's company...and hey 17-year-olds have better things to be thinking about!!
~ziGGy
ziGGy was born in Toronto Ontario, Canada. She grew up with four brothers and her father moved out when she was very young. She learned from a young age that things don't always go the way we want them to, so a person has to take the bad from each situation and make it good! In high school she was a "peer mediator". Their job was to help their peers at school when there was a conflict that her classmates were not able to resolve on their own. After three years of mediating ziGGy nailed herself a little job helping needy souls on the internet! (that's you!) Don't get upset if ziGGy isn't very compassionate. She's a tough cookie, so learn something from her! :)
Anyways what's up? I decided to ask a question.....even though I don't know and highly doubt you will answer me....whatever. here i go!!!!!!
me and my mum fight All of the time. She is always on my case about stuff. Help me out?
Jessie 15, Toronto Ontario
Dearest Jessie;
Ha ha I am answering your question...why wouldn't I? Have a little faith in me! :) Ok back to what you asked. If Your mom and yourself are constantly fighting it usually means a lack of communication somewhere. I know that sounds dumb but it's true. What I will also recommend is talking to your mom once in a while. Sometimes parents feel really stressed because their daughters(or sons) go out and they never hear what's going on. Now I don't mean you have to dish every single detail of when you went to the movies with your crush on Sat. night, but just tell her a few things about your day. She will feel more relaxed, feel better about herself(as a mom) and she will be on your case less. Give it a try!
~ziGGy
