| My dream mate? Ha! God forgot to make one! I like a man with REAL substance. Sad thing too is: most women got all the real substance when we came popping out of mans side. Sorry guys, facts is facts ... your heart dribbled out in that process. Now, you can't help but need us, just to remind you of all that you long for. For the sake of answering the Dream Mate question here... I will jog my heart momentarily and give my most honest responses. Hummm.... My dream mate ... Now, I know why they say, dream... Okay, here goes ... A man who hungers to be one with his queen A man who loves to play A man who knows how to demonstrate love regardless of circumstance A man who isn't afraid to sing aloud no matter whose listening A man who admires the sheer beauty of my womanhood A man who looks ahead and not at the past A man who doesn't have to be in control of anyone but himself A man who leads his family gently A man who is careful with my heart - because I put it in his hand A man who is so free that he would dance anytime, anywhere A man who has a skip in his step even in the rain A man who is happy with himself because he is honest A man who makes love as a way of life A man who is committed to serving others above himself A man who craves lone time and experiments A man who doesn't always have to be doing something (home is fun too) A man who is prone to change (meaning: he is not still a teenager) A man who has goals and means for a future where nothing lacks A man who treats his home like a safe haven from a brutal world A man who thrives on living in peace A man who is not driven by material gain but by love A man who loves to eat all kinds of foods A man who notices when someone needs help A man who appreciates culture and is not predjudice A man who is alive spiritually and in tune A man who is not afraid to try new things and adapts easily A man who loves to drive with the windows down A man who uses his spontenaity creatively A man who loves to get wet at any given moment A man who is compassionate and sensative A man who knows that a tear falling is manly, yet not being a cry baby A man who wants to experience travel to foreign lands A man who is not pushy or demanding of his own way A man who has Faith and admits it is something OUTSIDE himself A man who does not know what arrogance is but stands confident A man who is transparent before me, and trusts me to see who he is A man who takes care of himself without vainity A man who allows his lover the freedom to grow in spirit A man who wants his mate to experience friendships A man who speaks with healing in his voice A man who is unashamed to visit his knees if he needs to pray A man who gets stronger in the face of adversity A man who is honored to have me beside him A man who I am honored to have next to me A man who is thoughtful and thought provoking A man who is educated and evolved A man who knows there is more to this life then living and dying A man that I have chemistry with and am attracted to in body, soul, and spirit See?... Told you God forgot to make one... |
| I get some of the most thought provoking letters. Not long ago when asked, "Mary, why aren't you married? What are you looking for in a man?" I got to thinking, it is because not many men can handle me. Nor would I subject them to my fanciful ideals and passions. Then I realized that I just look for way too much in a man, and rather then put all my expectations on 'em ... better to just keep things the way they are. Anyway, when asked, "What is your dream mate to be like"? This is what I answered: |
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