ray_law2001: hi
mary_magdalicious: hi
ray_law2001: can i know u pls?
mary_magdalicious: know me?  that's an odd question.
ray_law2001: ok can i meet u?
mary_magdalicious: meet me? like in person?
ray_law2001: on line pls
mary_magdalicious: aren't we already doing that?
ray_law2001: i'm a man from nigeria and u?
mary_magdalicious: american woman... 
ray_law2001: why r u answering me as if we r quarelling?
mary_magdalicious: i'm not.
ray_law2001: r u married?
mary_magdalicious: yep.
mary_magdalicious: yourself
mary_magdalicious: ?
ray_law2001: yes 
ray_law2001: what do u do 4 a living?
mary_magdalicious: bookeeper
ray_law2001: where is that?
mary_magdalicious: where is what?
mary_magdalicious: it's not a place.. it's my job.
mary_magdalicious: i punch numbers into a computer for an oil company.
ray_law2001: ok
mary_magdalicious: you?
ray_law2001: a computer analyst
mary_magdalicious: do you like your job?
ray_law2001: r u a xtian?
mary_magdalicious: nope.
ray_law2001: what's ur religion then?
mary_magdalicious: don't have one.
ray_law2001: but why?
ray_law2001: even ur huby?
mary_magdalicious: why should i if i don't have one that i believe in?
mary_magdalicious: he's christian.
ray_law2001: have not heard about Islam b4?
mary_magdalicious: yes. i have.
ray_law2001: what can u say about it?
mary_magdalicious: i can't really say much about it, since i am not islamic.
ray_law2001: may be i should educate u more on it
mary_magdalicious: no. i've been educated.
mary_magdalicious: i choose not to speak of it, because it's not for me.
ray_law2001: Mary, why not listen?
ray_law2001: perhaps it'll help u
mary_magdalicious: i don't need help.
ray_law2001: even from ur creator?
mary_magdalicious: you can give me help from the creator?
ray_law2001: did i say that?
mary_magdalicious: no.. but i am asking?
ray_law2001: i can not
mary_magdalicious: ok .
ray_law2001: ur age pls, mine is 42
mary_magdalicious: 
mary_magdalicious: 23
ray_law2001: such a young lady?
mary_magdalicious: yep.
ray_law2001: now can i continue?
mary_magdalicious: continue on what?
ray_law2001: islam
ray_law2001: yes or no?
mary_magdalicious: like i've said, i have heard about it before, it's not for me.
ray_law2001: so i should go away
mary_magdalicious: no.
mary_magdalicious: unless, islam is all you chat about.
ray_law2001: how many children have u?
mary_magdalicious: 2
ray_law2001: m/f?
mary_magdalicious: one boy, one girl
ray_law2001: good, and there ages?
ray_law2001: their
mary_magdalicious: 3 and on
mary_magdalicious: one
ray_law2001: do u have any question for me?
mary_magdalicious: ok.. what hobbies do you have?
ray_law2001: i love readind, meeting peoleand helping them
ray_law2001: reading
mary_magdalicious: do you have any kids?
ray_law2001: i have 6 beautiful daughters
mary_magdalicious: congrats :)
ray_law2001: thank u dear
mary_magdalicious: what kind of books do you prefer?
ray_law2001: Glorious Qur'an first them any educating book next
mary_magdalicious: cool.
ray_law2001: what of u?
mary_magdalicious: i like science thrillers... greg bear is one of my favorite authors.. anything by carl sagan... 
ray_law2001: but u r in accounting line
mary_magdalicious: yep.
mary_magdalicious: by need, not by choice.
ray_law2001: ok
ray_law2001: what of ur huby?
mary_magdalicious: he likes fantasy books.  dragon lance and such.
ray_law2001: how does he feel when he's going to church without u?
mary_magdalicious: he doesn't go to church.
mary_magdalicious: he's an at home christian.
ray_law2001: and when he is praying what will u be doing?
mary_magdalicious: i leave him be.
mary_magdalicious: he doesn't spend mass amounts of time, needing silence to pray.
mary_magdalicious: i suppose his praying consists of quiet "thank you's" .
ray_law2001: may be i should dwell into ur privacy, I'm i allowed?
mary_magdalicious: my privacy?
ray_law2001: yes
mary_magdalicious: i don't know what you mean by my privacy.
mary_magdalicious: is it crude?
ray_law2001: and what is crude?
mary_magdalicious: distasteful.
ray_law2001: let us forget about it
mary_magdalicious: ok.
ray_law2001: nice chatting with u
mary_magdalicious: ok.
ray_law2001: had it been u r single i would have asked for ur hand in friendship
mary_magdalicious: aren't you married?
ray_law2001: of course iam
mary_magdalicious: i guess i don't understand...
mary_magdalicious: how my marital status and yours cannot allow friendship.
ray_law2001: it can not
mary_magdalicious: but.. if i were single.. we could be friends?
mary_magdalicious: even though you are married?
ray_law2001: yes and the worst to happen is to marry u
mary_magdalicious: sorry?
mary_magdalicious: i don't understand.
mary_magdalicious: so ... you can be friends with single ladies, even though you yourself are married.. but not with other married ladies? 
mary_magdalicious: simple friendship is wrong then?
ray_law2001: i give total devotion 2 anything i'm doing
mary_magdalicious: still not understanding...
mary_magdalicious: cant be friends with married ladies.. but can be friends with single ladies..
ray_law2001: would ur husband like it?
mary_magdalicious: is your wife ok with your being friends with single ladies?
mary_magdalicious: but choosing not to be friends with married ladies?
mary_magdalicious: why would my husband have a problem with me having conversations with men?
mary_magdalicious: he trusts me.
ray_law2001: that u can not do what?
mary_magdalicious: sorry?
mary_magdalicious: that i cannot do what?
ray_law2001: yes
mary_magdalicious: do what?
mary_magdalicious: you lost me..
ray_law2001: u said he trusts u
mary_magdalicious: yes. and i trust him.
ray_law2001: he trusts u that u can not have friend and have fun?
mary_magdalicious: have fun?
mary_magdalicious: what do you mean by "fun"?
ray_law2001: yes, with ur male friends
mary_magdalicious: what kind of fun?
ray_law2001: sex
mary_magdalicious: do you assume your wife will have sex with men?
mary_magdalicious: i can have fun, and not have anything sexual ...
mary_magdalicious: i have male friends.. we talk.. we like the same music...like the same kind of books and conversations.
mary_magdalicious: we don't touch.. 
ray_law2001: and mine is not like that
mary_magdalicious: why do you assume that i am like that?
ray_law2001: like what?
mary_magdalicious: why would you think that my husband wouldn't trust me?
mary_magdalicious: is your wife ok with you being friends with single ladies?
mary_magdalicious: you haven't really answered any of my questions directed at you.
ray_law2001: what r the questions?
mary_magdalicious: is your wife ok with you being friends with single ladies.. but not with married ladies?
mary_magdalicious: do you not let your wife be friends with males?
ray_law2001: in the first instance Islam forbids man from friending married woman
mary_magdalicious: but a married man can be friends with single ladies?
ray_law2001: it allows man to friend single and marry her
mary_magdalicious: but a married man can befriend single ladies?
ray_law2001: yes and marry her
mary_magdalicious: so a married man can have many wives.
ray_law2001: not many but at most 4, if he has the power
mary_magdalicious: ahhh.. so women are treated like a property.. the more a man has.. the more wealth and power.
ray_law2001: may be i should educate u more
mary_magdalicious: no.. i think that right there is one of my big problems with islam.
mary_magdalicious: women are expected to be faithful to one man...
mary_magdalicious: one.
mary_magdalicious: men can take many
ray_law2001: u know the ratio of women compared to men now is greater
ray_law2001: i'm i right?
mary_magdalicious: i believe by 2% greater.
mary_magdalicious: women have longer life spans.
ray_law2001: good, even though it about 4 women to 1 man
mary_magdalicious: not really.
mary_magdalicious: maybe in your country.
mary_magdalicious: not in mine.
ray_law2001: that is the reality
ray_law2001: any how just listen to me
mary_magdalicious: listen to you about what... how women must be faithful to one man.. yet a man can have many wives..per islam.
ray_law2001: allow me 2 say something now
mary_magdalicious: go ahead...
ray_law2001: u know in U.S today we have a lot of divorced women , can u tell me the reason?
ray_law2001: hello, it is a question directed 2 u
mary_magdalicious: lot of divorced men too.
mary_magdalicious: could be for a variety of reasons..
mary_magdalicious: disagreements.. abuse.. infidelity.
mary_magdalicious: etc
ray_law2001: good , all caused by men having xtra marital affairs not so?
mary_magdalicious: not so.
mary_magdalicious: where do you get your statistics on american divorce?
ray_law2001: on net through chatting
mary_magdalicious: ahhh.  well.. people lie on line...
mary_magdalicious: perhaps... desperate person looking for sympathy?
ray_law2001: u think so?
mary_magdalicious: perhaps.
mary_magdalicious: i know people.. i know it all doesn't stem from infidelity.
mary_magdalicious: some.. yes.. others.. no.
ray_law2001: just thank ur God for ur man
mary_magdalicious: why's that?
mary_magdalicious: i'm lucky.
mary_magdalicious: i made a good decision.. i married my best friend.
mary_magdalicious: i don't need to thank anyone for that.
ray_law2001: just pray he is not molested by the free ladies there
mary_magdalicious: please.. explain to me.. how it is fair.. to a woman to have to be faithful to one man.. when her husband can take many?
mary_magdalicious: he's a big boy.. he can take care of himself.
ray_law2001: may be till next time because u r not ready 2 listen
ray_law2001: u r biased
mary_magdalicious: not really.
mary_magdalicious: i don't agree with it.
mary_magdalicious: i shouldn't have to agree with it.
mary_magdalicious: just wondering.. how is it fair?
ray_law2001: God who created us knows how He made us
mary_magdalicious: ok...
ray_law2001: take the male beasts for example how they pursue the females
mary_magdalicious: men aren't any higher than beasts in their sexual drive?
ray_law2001: hi
mary_magdalicious: yep. hi.
ray_law2001: that is the only difference
mary_magdalicious: you didn't give me a difference.
ray_law2001: the difference is the brain given 2 man to be able to think
mary_magdalicious: animals can think.
ray_law2001: the urge is d same
ray_law2001: u r married now and a lot of ladies r outside looking 4 men
mary_magdalicious: i like to put men on a higher scale than the common dog.  i'm sorry that you have such a low opinion on humans.
ray_law2001: what will u say about the pornographic humans what r the differences between them and the dogs?
mary_magdalicious: i don't know any pornographic humans.
ray_law2001: those who r ready to show every part of their body 2 any one willing 2 look at
mary_magdalicious: i don't see the human body as negative. a naked picture is not dirty. people who let naked pictures rule their lives need help.
mary_magdalicious: what is wrong in flesh?  
mary_magdalicious: what is evil and impure about the human body?
ray_law2001: what is d difference between them and the animals?
mary_magdalicious: they are not animals ... they are humans.
ray_law2001: having sex where people will be watching?
mary_magdalicious: as long as they aren't hurting any body.. and those there are willing participants.. how is it any of anyone else's business?
mary_magdalicious: you can walk away.. if it offends you. you don't have to look at porn.. support it.. be around people you find "pornographic"
ray_law2001: don't forget men's body is not a wood
mary_magdalicious: is not a wood?
ray_law2001: yes, the body must move upon siting woman's nakedness
mary_magdalicious: not all women, i'm sure.
mary_magdalicious: women show signs of arousal too...
mary_magdalicious: what's the big deal?
ray_law2001: unless old woman or minor girls
mary_magdalicious: without sex.. none of us would be here...
mary_magdalicious: why do you find it so dirty.. but find having more than one wife ok?
ray_law2001: listen now
mary_magdalicious: i am listening.. you don't answer my questions..
ray_law2001: where we have about 5 ladies to 3 men
mary_magdalicious: i thought it was 4 to one?
ray_law2001: each man picked the ladies leaving 2 behind
ray_law2001: what do u think will happen 2 d remaining two
mary_magdalicious: they stay alone..
mary_magdalicious: so what?
ray_law2001: they r also pretty
mary_magdalicious: aww... so the men also want to fuck them
ray_law2001: they stay alone till eternity?
mary_magdalicious: how unfortunate.. so they must take more than one wife.. out of the goodness of their hardon.. i mean heart.
ray_law2001: be sincere , if u were 2 be among the left outs , how will u feel?
mary_magdalicious: it would suck.. but life's not fair.
mary_magdalicious: not all men get wives, i'm sure.
ray_law2001: how many times in a week do u have sex with ur hubby?
mary_magdalicious: curious question.. isn't that not a nice thing for a gentleman to ask a lady.. a married woman at that?
ray_law2001: no ihave a point i want to make