dndutch (4/13/03 8:33:32 AM): firstly friend to be a good christian is a process which continues through out the life. Secondly to answer ur question, with no intention of hurting, Bible clearly says in I Corinthians 7:10 onwards.. clearly says about those seperated and divorced. Its not me but Bible says...but if a husband leaves his wife because she has put her faith in Christ then she is free to get married to someone who is a beleiver! I Cor.7:11-15 . besides every person has desires a beautiful wife or husband.. take for instance wouldnt u desire the same. dndutch (4/13/03 8:34:59 AM): There is nothing called chrisitan here !dndutch (4/13/03 8:36:08 AM): its not the concept that u can use to say oh friend since you are a christan that you should try to marry a girl who might not be beautiful in ur sight.. BUT the looks only doesnt matter in Christian life! i dont know about ur religion! dndutch (4/13/03 8:37:19 AM): the fact of thematter is for most of the people in the world ...who considers themselves Christians ... dndutch (4/13/03 8:41:14 AM): Christianity is a relgion ! for them... no wonder that leaves a lot of hurt and i have seen most of the pagans or who dont beleive in God are actually carryng a lot of hurt on account of some people ! dndutch (4/13/03 8:43:07 AM): now its upto u to decide that would u "give a crap about Jesus" or whatever.... and at the end of the day All have to give an account.. whether someone likes it or not...! Maddonna or Kylie Minogue or Saddam or Bush or Pope or Billy Graham alll. including me and you friend dndutch (4/13/03 8:43:10 AM): PEACE!dndutch (4/13/03 8:46:55 AM): <>now i have answered Your question! dndutch (4/13/03 8:49:22 AM): think some day about the life besides the next maybe 50-75 years.... think hard else friend u got no one else to blame.. in the end dndutch (4/13/03 8:51:59 AM): there always is a rough weather for everyone , so yesterday it was for me! but my God knows how to make me right again , n cheerful again in His Presence , ... dndutch (4/13/03 8:52:18 AM): God Bless! and God saves!!!!