In December 1998, on the 10th anniversary of Roy's passing, Roy's widow Barbara gave an interview to Johnny Walker on BBC Radio 2. Here is a transcript of that interview.
JW
Even Bruce Springsteen said that his ambition was to sing like the
Big O and to coincide with the 10th Anniversary of Roy's
passing, Barbara Orbison, Roy's German born Widow has been
paying a visit to the UK. And I asked her what made Roy so
special.Was it his voice, his songs or something else?
BO
I think it was a combination of all of those- the songs, the voice,
but mainly I think it was because Roy was just Roy, you know,
He just wrote a song that he FELT and he sang it always like he
sang it for the first time. You know he had an incredible voice,
but lots of people have really incredible voices, but he had a
really rare gift that was he could put the note or the voice to an
emotion, you know, and each song he sang it was the same voice
but his style was so different. His approach because he came from
that feeling side.
JW So how did you come to meet Roy?
BO I met him in Leeds up the Road in Yorkshire
JW I thought you met him in Germany or somewhere
BO
We met in a called the InTime. Roy had played a show
and came
to the club and I happened to be at the club. Roy saw me and
wanted to meet me.
JW And did you know anything about him?
BO
I knew the song Pretty Woman and It's Over that's
all. We said
hello and didn’t really say goodbye again until 21 years later. We
fell in love.
JW
'cos I've heard it said that you were both confirmed bachelors as
it were.
BO
I was 17 I don't Know if you are confirmed anything
at that age
(she laughs) you know, and Roy,I don’t know how you can call
someone who was widowed 2 years before with 3 kids a confirmed
bachelor.
JW Yeah
BO
So I don’t know We were bachelors but he was a widow, and I
was really young.
JW Did he make you happy?
BO
I think I made him happy, I think he made me happy. I don’t
think you stick together 21 years if something doesn’t work.
# She Wears My Ring Plays
JW
Do you have a fondest memory of Roy, of your time together.
Is there anything in particular?
BO
Well you know when I think about Roy he was so different,
you
know. He was so different in raising his sons, you know, he was
such a constant influence and he tried to be so open with them.
Whether it was in talks or showing them his fears, and his
feelings, and he always called them his Broncs, bronco's you know,
and he always called them his young lads too. And so lots of times,
of course now, when I remember Roy in a private way is around
my kids.
JW He had to face a lot of tragedy in his life
BO Yeah
JW
How did he deal with that, I mean you have been around him
some of those awful moments: Claudette was killed, there was a
house fire, which killed two of his sons.
BO
He lost two of his sons indeed in 1968 -He was touring
here in
England, and his house inTennessee caught fire and it takes 3
minutes for a wooden house to burn and it was a huge house.
And it burned in three minutes and it took the lives of 2 sons, the
lives of 2 of his kids, putting his parents and youngest son Wesley
out into the street. You know Roy was always a man of Faith and
he was very quiet in the way he absorbed his feelings. But he did
talk about it and he said 'It makes you wonder when you first
follow 1 hearse with 1 coffin and 2 years later 2 hearse in front
of
you.' but he never felt singled out. He expected life to have ups
and downs. He was raised in West Texas and lots of his early
memories are of America in wartime. There were comings and
goings and people actually dying and he was a man of all seasons.
He sort of said you dont reach the peaks of mountains without
going through valleys. and he said God has given me lots of high
tops on mountains and I have had my valleys, you know, and he
said that he never felt singled out.
# Only the Lonely plays
JW
I mean it was so sad that he died 10 years ago when his career
had definitely gone into a new phase...
BO
Yeah... Roy had decided in 1984 - he started writing
with a young
lad Will Jennings. You know he just had that Celine hit, and he
wrote "Up Where We Belong" and "Higher Love" with Stevie
Winwood. And he wrote a song "Wild Hearts Run Out Of Time"
for a British director Nick Rook and then all of a sudden he
started working with Jeff Lynne. And we moved to Malibu,
California where Roy decided in '85 that he was 1 year shy of
being fifty. You know he was born in 1936 and '86 would have
been his fiftieth birthday and he said he really wanted to chart
another record He really wanted to have a run of the charts just
one more time. So he started Writing Mystery Girl.
JW
And it all started happening again, were you with Roy when he
died
BO
No I wasn't physically with Roy, Roy was of course
in Nashville
Tennessee it was before Christmas and he had flown there on
business matters and to see his mother and our oldest son Wesley.
I was in Germany and I had said goodbye to him in England
JW and what happened
BO
You know he died it was all of a sudden I talked
with him maybe
one hour before he died no sickness, nothing you know there is a
wonderful saying that says Man makes plans and God smiles...
# California Blue Plays
JW what is your favorite Roy Orbison song
BO
It changes from moment to moment it really does I
have been
listening lots to Blue Bayou lately because we had to get it ready,
its in a new Adam Sandler movie Waterboy where Henry Winkler
talks to Adam about going against all odds. Living your dreams,
because Adam is just a waterboy and he wants to play football,
you know he has to give the water to the football players, and
Henry says that his biggest dream as a kid was to have a Roy
OrbisonTattoo but his mum never allowed him so he says watch
me and he drops his pants and guess where he has a Huge Roy
OrbisonTattoo Everyone is talking about it it has just opened in
America -so Blue Bayou is a favourite lately.
# Blue Bayou plays
JW
Listen when he was in bed with you and you were having a cuddle
and a nice hug and everything was feeling good he'd have his
glasses off then would he?
BO
yes sometimes - No I'm just joking - actually he
could drive
without his glasses and so lots of times we would go out at night
driving with his specs on when he would pull them off.
JW Now the Dark Glasses I am talking about
BO Yeah He would pull off the Dark glasses
JW At night? When he was driving would that be a good idea?
BO Yeah
JW Were his eyes affected or was it just a trademark
BO
He was Far-sighted, you know, whatever that means.
He could
drive without the glasses, he could see trains, he could see me like
ten feet away but he couldn’t read up close so that’s why he wore
those glasses.
JW Did Roy ever say how he would like to be remembered?
BO
He actually did, erm, in the last interview that
he did with Rolling
Stone he was asked the same question. He said I just would like to
be remembered
JW Aah then Barbara good to see you
BO Nice talking with you
# I'd be a Legend in my time plays
JW
Roy Orbison He'll be a legend for ever and don’t forget the Roy
Orbison Special with John Peel on Saturday.