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Marriages Made In Heaven.So help to save it
.Tell us ur problem.we will try to solve it thru talks,thru counselling.dont go to court.Notices will hurt ur loved ones .tell them what is the problem.what prevents from living with him or her or him.Afterall they have lived with u for some days as ur beloved.so solve ur problem thru talks.Dont let ur relatives into this as they can discourage ur union for their own profit.so its u and ur beloved husband or wife who should talk and decide.Even if u r seperated for years try to approach them for ur own ,alone not with others.Once in 50 marriages r failing in india so help to stop this.If ur friend or relative is seperated from his wife or husband counsel him to live with them.
REASONS FOR SEPERATION: First step of seperation results due to complainng about ur husband or inlaws directly.Tell him about his good qualities and later his mistakes.This will make him please.He will feel u more close to him and so will accept his faults.wether he rectifies his mistakes or not but he will try to reduce his faults .So ur loving words are needed.Dont tell anything about ur husband or wife to ur parents or ur relatives.But others will make it big story .Then even if u want to live with her it will not be possible.so keep everything to ur self.
POSSESSIVENESS is the main cause for divorce:Men and women expect toomuch from them.So if ur husband or wife is quarelling toomuch imagine it as love and not fight.The possessive person
should remember that u want only ur husbands or wives love so tell this to them openly, dont let ur EGO to
overcome.Dont
doubt ur husband.Tell him what makes you doubt him plz dont doubt him. when he comes to home dont tell this harshly.Tell him that "i care for u ,so only iam telling u to cut that bad relationship." u r good person it will spoil u".But i wont leave u even after knowing this.Iam just telling for ur goodness.Tell like this.He will get pleased.He will gradually come out of that bad habbit.Bear all his mistakes.Nothing will b affected if u r more generous.
Men dont doubt ur wives..Believe
in them.If they dont do house work this is not big matter u can keep
servant maids 4 that.Plz 4 giv their mistakes.Women cannot live without
husbands embrace.So Men be generous and forgive ur wifes mistakesRemeber
that if ur sister does same mistake what will u do.u will pacify ur
brother-inlaw and convince him to live with her only,so think in the same
way for ur wife also. .If u leave her and marry second wife then she will also find another man becas mistake is in u.so rectify it.
NRI'S PROBLEMS:If
u r NRI & u cannot take ur wife with u tell her after marriage.All wives love only her husband not his money.But make her happy when u r here.Dont quarrel with her as u r going to leave her live happily ,do watever she tells.then she will allow u to go abroad.After u went to abroad send her loving words,she needs love not money.Come once in 3 or 5 months stay with her.Get children as quick as possible.Baby will connect u.Girls
dont quarrel with ur hubby 4 money r that he cannot take you to
foreign.Live with him happily when he is here.If u show true love he may
not leave you.When u r with him u will not know his love when seperated u cannot bear it.so girls dont leave ur husband for any reason. Only
women are affected by divorces in india , Divorced men can get a good girl ,good family,for second time also.But divorcee women will fall as a prey to cruel persons.For money or beauty only her remarriage will happen not for love.even if she gets love in second marriage she wont forget her husband.So this will spoil her Mental health.So Men should become more generous forgive ur wives faults and save her life.If u want u can sacrifice ur
anger, ego for poor women and stop divorces.
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one solution to solve ur problems is love ,Love ur hubby r wife.Even if
they hate u.Love them truely he r she will soon realise it.They will live
with u.*********************************
********Nowitself send greetings 2 ur seperated husbands or wives ,send mails,they will be convinced.************
Seperated couples goto "Shakthimutram" Kovil at Kumbagonam Dt ur
loved ones will LiveWith you
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