My Experience at an Inipi Ceremony

� 1998 by Mareth SummerWind

In December 1998, I had the privilege of being able to take part in an inipi ceremony, hosted by a group who follow the religious traditions of the Lakota Sioux. Since I have been curious about Native American religion, but had never had an opportunity to observe any of its rituals firsthand, I eagerly accepted the invitation extended by my friend and coworker, Jill. This ceremony, which is also known as the sweat lodge ceremony, is an important part of the Lakota tradition. Its purpose is purification of mind and body as well as being a time to pray and give thanks.

The ceremony took place in rural central Ohio on 13 December 1998 at 1:00 p.m. It was a beautiful day, quite chilly but sunny. I am not sure whether the group had taken into consideration the astrological correspondences when planning the date and time to do this purification and prayer ritual, but I found it to be perfectly appropriate. It was held during the last quarter of the Moon (a time of banishing and cleansing) while the Moon was in the sign of Libra (which increases self-awareness and is a good time for interaction with others). It was also good timing on a personal level, since my menstrual cycle was coming to an end.

The ceremony took place in a small lodge, constructed in the traditional Lakota way. Its frame was made of bent saplings, lashed together to make a dome roughly 15 feet in diameter. This frame was covered with several heavy layers of canvas and weighted down with stones. The lodge had only one entrance, which faced West. About a yard to the west of the lodge, positioned directly in front of the door, stood a large, flat-topped stone that served as an altar. This was used as a place to leave objects for purification. Tradition dictates that gifts--usually tobacco or herbs--be brought to the people serving as fire-tender and water-dipper during the ceremony and these were also left on the altar. Rick invited me to place anything I would like on the altar stone, telling me that it was not mandatory.

I have a long history of serious menstrual problems that, for many years, has caused me to look upon my Moon time with great fear and dread. To overcome that, I started wearing the conch shell, a sacred Goddess fertility symbol, to remind me of the power which flows through me at this time of the month and to honor the Goddess who made me with the power to bring forth life. I removed my conch shell necklace left it to be purified during the ceremony.

Looking still westward, approximately a yard away from the altar was a large fire pit, in which rocks are heated for use inside the lodge. Rick, our host, knowing that I had never participated in an inipi ceremony before, took time to explain to me that the area between the lodge and the fire pit was called the Spirit Path because the Spirits would be traveling back and forth along it during the ritual. He also explained that the staff positioned atop the altar was to invoke both Bear and Hawk energy into the lodge, since those are the two animal totems with which he works most often.

Before the ritual actually began, two of the men took a pipe, which is called a chanupa, into the lodge. Jill explained to me later that the chanupa is extremely sacred to the Lakota. It is considered a great honor to be allowed to smoke from a chanupa, especially if it is made of pipestone like the one we used in the inipi ceremony. This pipe is stored in two pieces, wrapped in red felt and placed in a pouch where it is kept out of sight unless being used in a Lakota ritual. When the bowl and pipe are connected, it is considered to be a symbol of the union of the male and female principles.

John and Fred packed the bowl of the pipe full of herbs, including lungwort, mullein, and tobacco while offering prayers to Wankan Tanka. Most often addressed as Grandfather, Wankan Tanka is the Great Spirit in Sioux tradition. In their prayers, the men explained that our intent was both purification and healing and asking for His blessing upon the ritual. Once the prayers were finished and the pipe was ready, it was placed upon the altar to act as a channel, allowing Wankan Tanka to easily hear all that we would be doing in the sweat lodge.

At this point, Rick smoldered a purifying blend of cedar and sage to smudge all of us, then we were invited to go inside the lodge. Rick entered first, getting down on his hands and knees to crawl. At the door to the lodge, he lowered his head to the earth for a moment, saying, "Mitauke oyasin," a Lakota Sioux phrase used to show respect, which means, "all my relations" or "we are all related," before crossing the threshold. At the time, I was not sure exactly why he lowered his head to the ground before entering the lodge. I assumed that it was in reverence of Mother Earth, since going through an inipi ceremony was likened to returning to the womb. Jill later verified this. Once inside, Rick crawled sun-wise around the lodge until he reached the door, where he sat and beckoned us to come inside.

He had requested that we enter in a specific order, with Fred--the man who had packed the chanupa--behind him. Kamalika, Fred's half-side (or mate), Jill, and I crawled inside next. The rest of the men filed in behind us, with John, who was to fulfill the duties of fire-tender, bringing up the rear. I was curious to find out if Rick's seating arrangement was traditional. Jill told me that, other than having the water-dipper and fire-tender by the door, there is no rule about seating the participants. Rick likes to have as much of a male-female balance of energy within the lodge as is possible. In our particular ceremony, we were almost completely balanced, with 3 women and 5 men.

Once we were all seated on water-proof mats, Rick explained that he had planned to have me sit directly across from the entrance to the lodge because I was the newcomer to the group. This is considered the seat of honor because this position is at the end of the Spirit Trail and the Spirits entering the lodge reach the person sitting there before anyone else. To be honest--although I was flattered to be placed there--I would have much preferred to be right beside the door.

I had been warned that some people cannot take the intensity of the ritual, both physically because of the heat and spiritually due to the heavy workings conducted within the lodge. Rick assured me that, if it became necessary for me to leave the lodge, no one would think badly of it and that I would be allowed to re-enter at the conclusion of the round in which I had left, so that I could participate in the next one.

When everyone was comfortable--as comfortable as one can get sitting on damp mats atop the freezing cold earth while barefoot and half-naked--Rick called for the first seven rocks to be brought into the lodge. These stones represented the seven elements of the Sioux tradition: the four cardinal directions, Mother Earth, Father Sky, and Wankan Tanka. He requested total silence to show respect for these Grandfathers as John brought them in from the fire.

A leather pouch of cedar was passed clockwise around the lodge to Jill, who sprinkled some of the herb on each of the stones to purify them as they were placed in the pit. John then brought in the remaining 21 stones and returned to his position by the door. Rick pulled the door to the lodge closed then. It was completely dark, except for the bright red glow of the super-heated rocks. They didn't give off enough light for me to even be able make out the shapes of the people within the structure--and shapes would have been all I could have seen, even under the best of circumstances, because I had left my glasses outside.

Normally, being in the pitch black, unable to see even if there had been light, surrounded by people that I didn't know very well, would make me very apprehensive. The energy both inside the lodge and within the group was so strong and so positive, however, that I was totally at ease. After a moment of silence, one of the men began to drum a slow, rhythmic heartbeat and everyone began to chant in the language of the Lakota Sioux.

Even though I was unable to understand the words being sung, it was obvious that it was an invocation. The hair on my arms and on the back of my neck stood on end and I got goose-bumps. I felt a great rush of cool wind, despite the intense heat generated by the rocks, as the structure filled with the incredible, pulsing, vital energy that could only mean that we were not alone in the lodge.

Rick poured a dipper of water on the rocks, creating a thick cloud of herb-scented steam. The heat was more intense than anything I had ever experienced, burning my nose as I breathed, even with my face covered by a towel. Remembering Rick's advice to "get out of [my] head and into [my] heart" if the heat seemed unbearable, I grounded and centered my energies and began to pray for the strength and endurance to get through at least the first round of the ceremony.)

I struggled for a few moments, but eventually got control of myself enough to begin to enjoy the heat as I felt all of the negativity within myself flow outward and leave the lodge, carried away along the Spirit Path. My endurance was just about at an end when Rick announced that we were done with the first round. He opened the door and, while the light hurt my eyes, the cool air was very welcome.

After a short break, the door was closed again and we began the second round of the ceremony. Again, everyone--except me--chanted as Jim drummed. From the explanation that Rick had given me about the purpose of each round, I knew that the chants were prayers to Wankan Tanka. Since I couldn't follow the meaning of the chants, I silently said my own prayers, hoping that I was remotely close to what everyone was singing. Following the chanting, everyone offered English-language prayers. The order in which we prayed was determined by position, as was everything else in the inipi ceremony. John, the water-dipper began, since he was directly to the left of Rick, who was leading the ceremony. As we went sun-wise around the circle, everyone was silent except for the person who was praying. I quickly noticed that all of the participants would begin their petitions with the words, "I am a pitiful two-leg," or something similar to stress that they were humble before the spirits. Most of the prayers were for the health and well-being of others as opposed to requests for help for themselves. At the end of each petition, the speaker would say, "Mitauke oyasin," to indicate that he was finished.

When the last person had spoken, the second round was declared completed and the lodge door was opened. More water was brought into the lodge and Rick offered a drink of water to each of us, passing the dipper clock-wise around the circle. Fred, to Rick's right, was offered the first drink and he poured the last few drops of water onto the earth in offering before handing the dipper back to Rick. The water was passed again, moving clockwise all the way around the circle until it reached Kamalika, on Fred's right. It was in this manner that each of us drank while the others shared stories about their experiences on the "Red Road," a term commonly used to indicate that a person follows Native American religious beliefs.

Fred was especially talkative, explaining to me the significance of each aspect of the ceremony. The inipi ceremony is broken down into four rounds (also called doors): 1) invocation of Spirit and offerings, 2) prayer, 3) the pipe ceremony, and 4) thanksgiving and the departure of the spirits. There is a short break between rounds when the lodge door is opened, allowing fresh, cool air to circulate throughout the lodge.

Fred told me that in this particular ritual, we were performing four of the seven Great Rites of the Lakota Sioux religion: purification (in the first round), the sundance--or prayer--(in the second round), the pipe ceremony (which would take place in the third round), and the making of friends and relatives (throughout the ceremony, just by virtue of being together in the lodge, seated in a circle--which brought our "life hoops" into contact with the hoops of everyone else participating. In other words, it was what many Pagans call web-weaving).

Once Fred had finished educating me, the chanupa was brought in, carried reverently from its place on the altar. Signifying the beginning of the third round, Rick closed the lodge door once again and Fred lit the pipe. As he did this, Rick explained that, by smoking the pipe, we were helping our prayers--in the form of smoke sent spiraling toward the heavens--to reach the ears of Wankan Tanka. He reminded everyone that this did not guarantee that we would have our petitions answered in the manner we wished, but that they would be heard. After considering the requests, the Great Spirit would aid us in whatever manner He deemed best for us, since we were truly incapable of deciding this for ourselves. Fred explained that, since I do not smoke, I was not required to actually smoke the pipe, but could simply touch it reverently to my left shoulder instead. Unlike the previous rounds, when levity was permitted, the smoking of the pipe was done in total and complete silence.

This round was concluded more quickly than the others and we moved on to the final portion of the ritual. Again using Lakota chants and drumming, everyone sang songs of thanksgiving and bid farewell to the spirits who had joined us in the lodge. At the end of this final round, we all crawled sun-wise to the door of the lodge. Everyone touched their foreheads to the ground at the exit, murmuring, "Mitauke oyasin," before entering once again into the mundane world. Despite the deep chill in the air, I stayed warm for a long time, exhilarated by the experience, and filled with a glow of well-being and peace. Everyone reclaimed the objects left on the altar and returned to the house for a feast worthy of any Wiccan gathering I have ever attended.) My conch shell necklace felt absolutely wonderful when I put it back on. It hummed with a light, peaceful energy unlike any that I have ever felt before when I cleansed it on my own. Ten days later, I still feel its happy pulsing when I walk past where it hangs when I am not bleeding.

It took me almost half an hour to "come down" enough to be able to even think about eating. According to the others who participated, the more you attend the rituals, the more you get out of it and it becomes more spiritually fulfilling. I can understand this, since the heat takes some getting used to and I did notice myself struggling to remain above the mundane from time to time because of the physical discomfort. I felt that all my worries had been lifted from my mind, carried to the heavens to be dealt with by Spirit. I cannot wait to go back for my second inipi ceremony.

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