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Unconditional love can be never disappointed and love which was disappointed was not unconditionally.
Unconditional love loves a man with his faults. Because it looks into the inside of the man, therefore it doesn't identify this man with his faults.
The less lovable the behavior, the louder the cry for love.
If we idealize the partner we don't want to look, how he really is but love as he shall be by the own ideas. Since the partner however cannot fulfil the ideal his faults must either be made unseen or a new partner has to be found.
It is the heaviest on the world to have to be alone. It is the most beautiful on the world to be able to be alone.
Exaggerated jealousy arises from the thought: "I am not enough for my partner". This thought manifests himself sooner or later and the partner will think: "My partner isn't enough for me". So exaggerated jealousy makes itself a justification.
The cause of our trouble about others doesn't lie the other but in our inability to love.
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