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One of our most frequently asked questions is....HOW?
How do I kiss him/her for the first time?
How will I know how to kiss?
How do I know when to open my mouth?
Well, rest assured, you'll know. It's not the best answer, but it's
the most truthful one.
We're still going to give you some tips and hints for making that
kiss a good experience for both of you.
 Are
we ready to kiss?
There's a flow of energy between two people that is usually easy
to read. Do you like each other? Have you had a good time? Do you want
to kiss him/her? If you do, chances are he/she does too.
There are ways to make sure. Lean in a bit...get closer. If the
other person doesn't pull away and especially if they lean in, they are
likely feeling the same way.
How
do I kiss him/her for the first time?
Softly and slowly. You don't want to bump faces on your first time
out. A sweet brush of lips feels good whether it's your first time or your
hundred and first time.
Remember that a kiss is a very sensory act. You'll be close enough
to breath the person in, to feel their skin against yours.
Relax!
Be aware of your partner. Is he/she leaning in or holding back waiting
for you to move? If they're leaning in, you can gently lay one hand against
their cheek and lean to meet their lips.
Begin with your lips closed. Keep it soft and light.
How
do I know when to open my mouth?
When french kissing...part your lips slowly against the other persons
lips. Make sure they're also parting their lips. A kiss is a partnership
and it's important that you only go as far as the other person is comfortable
with. Remember that the slower and softer the kiss begins, the sweeter
the memory it will leave.
This is a time to go slowly. You're exploring each other for the
first time and there's no finish line. It's not a race to see who can get
the most tongue in. You can begin by tracing the other persons lips as
they part against yours. This is a dance...you can pull your tongue back
to see if the other person follows. You can brush the tip of your tongue
across the tip of theirs.
This is a good time to pull back gently and look at the other person.
A good kiss is full of new beginnings....lips pulling away and brushing
back feels good and it lets you both decide whether you want to keep the
kiss going.
A kiss should linger. There's a soft tingle and a flutter of excitement
that you can't miss if a kiss is good.
Not so good kisses:
 Bumpy
rides
these kisses are more like a collision of faces than a sharing experience.
Don't go too fast.
Wet Wet
Wet
too much mouth and tongue before the kiss even begins leave you
with a bad taste in your mouth.
Don't go too fast.
Peckish
kisses
You're not a chicken. Better just a brush of lips against each other
than a peck.
Try it against your own hand... peck and then brush and see which
one feels better.
Habit
forming or habit sharing?
Make sure your teeth are brushed and you smell good
This isn't the time to have someone hooking the gum out of your
mouth with their tongue or pulling back because all they can taste is cigarettes.
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