Girl. Just because they made it in your size, does not mean you should wear it. Remember the retailers are in the business of making money... that doesn't obligate them to "make you over." You should have sense enough, and the desire to do that on your own, if you know you haven't done a "sit-up" or "crunch" in the past seven years. If you've got "rolls" in your front ... and back, and to top it off, all this "extra" you've managed to accumulate, has "stretchmarks" on it, Boo ... don't put "that" on.

Squeezin' all "that" into an item too small, too tight, or too dark will not make you appear slimmer, ... but in fact, it could be physically harmful ... to your internal organs as they are crammed up against each other, ... and to the person standing close to you that might be harmed when one of those zippers, belts, buttons or whatever is holding it all in, "Snaps" underneath all that pent up pressure.

See, it's warm now, and although we understand that, for some reason, people have a tendency to assume they can wear less clothing than they actually should...and many of "us" do not have the physique for some of the garments we put on our bodies... I don't care how new those spandex shorts are, they are no match for those 35 extra pounds around your midsection - so, don't even try it!!!

Don't be in such a hurry to throw on that "Cute Outfit", if you didn't stand in front of a "full length" mirror when you first purchased it ... but especially don't wear it if you haven't done the "maintenance" required - yes, ladies, it takes work... "not" everybody has "Good Genes", and "genes" don't amount to a "hill of beans," if you are constantly in the "drive-through" ordering your favorite combo and that "large diet drink?" ... (what's that about?)

Now for some real talk - leave something to the imagination ... PLEASE?! ... we complain a whole lot about the "disrespectful" and "lewd" comments made to us by the opposite sex, but truly, what do you expect when all your "Lady Business" is out ...there?! You've eliminated all the "preliminaries" (such as... the initial attraction, the approach, the exchange of name and number, the first dinner or date...) and taken him directly to "third base" by giving off a "Peep Show" - you set your own self up to be taken advantage of - so don't "trip", and that goes for all you "thong" wearin', no "slip" havin' on - oh, and let's not forget, "old enough to know better" females who insist on wearing thin, low cut, too short, see through dresses, skirts, pants and shorts... Don't get me wrong, it's not a matter of "hatin" on you at all, it's your perogative to do as you like, maybe, you are just "goin' through somethin' and until you come back to reality, you "do what you do" - just stop complaining that there are "no good men" out there, because that's not true, there are many good God fearing, family oriented, hard working men out there. And, there is "somebody for everybody", but when you are showing off "your body" to everybody, then ... you're... "not the one". Oh, and before folks get it twisted, the "DIVA" is still tryin' to hold hers down, ... just ask my "husband" ... HOLLA!