over the past week, we've been bombarded with the sordid details of the latest high profile political "dummy" to be "busted out" with his disgusting self. Everyone is questioning why "that wife" has stood beside him at his press conferences, welllll... ? ... look at her, isn't it obvious? She's looked disheveled and lost at each appearance, which I'm sure mentally and emotionally ... she is. But that's exactly why I believe one should always maintain one's own identity, that way, God forbid, if something like this should happen... you wouldn't have lost your dignity. See, ol' girl is a very smart and successful woman, in her own right, but if doesn't matter what you've brought to the table in a case like this, "it" is what "it" is... he's NASSSTTYYY,... and that's that. She's a bigger woman than I am, and it's her business if she chose to remain at his side. I'm just honest when I say, ... it wouldn't have been ya' girl here, 'cause the first thing out'a my mouth would have been... "You were not thinking about me while you were doin' it", and it appears he had been "doin' it" for some time.

My issue though, is with the media, and anybody else - who want to put the "escort / call girl / hooker / prostitute / whoreable person" ... whatever she wants to be known as, "out there" as the "woman who brought him down". ... NO, SHE did not. So, please stop saying that. That man did this to himself, and he should be held responsible for it, and all you "psychologists" need to stop telling women that they are "why men cheat". People cheat because they want to, and because they can! That's it, that's all. Furthermore, the "escort / call-girl / hooker / prostitute / whoreable person" ... wasn't married ... HE WAS!!! She didn't owe anybody "respect" or "commitment". If she has no more self worth than a "slug" and wants to put her "girlfriend" up for sale, it's her "stuff" and she can absolutely do with it what she pleases. (here is where I pray no one takes me out of context, as I in no way approve of prostitution...)

God gave each and everyone of us "free will", and there's no sense in looking for a place to lay blame in the case of marital infidelity, other than on the person who crosses the line and commits the offense. Before it becomes an "act", it is conceived as a "thought". That "thought" in itself is wrong, and every married person has the ability to extinguish such a thought if the love for his or her spouse is "real". Ultimately, even though people know that eventually things will come out in the open, they continue because "that feeling" is more 'pleasurable' and important than "consequences". They don't care about anyone else, and really believe they can deal with it all when the time comes. I agree. They should. By themselves. Just as they engaged in such conduct, living as a "single, married person" - (haven't we all known one or two of them?) That person alone should have their reputation and dignity drug through the mud. The "Mrs." needs to make a hair appointment, get a good night's sleep, and get her things packed for a nice long trip. It will all work itself out for her, and her children. He, on the other hand has quite a legacy to reflect back on, but as they say ... people who live in glass houses, shouldn't throw stones... oh, wellll ...! copyright pending 2007