Mommyfried's Caching Blog
A blog to report the good and the ugly of caching in Oklahoma!
Entry for November 3, 2006
Following was added a few days ago to Kashiree's profile again. I was going to ignore it and just chalk it up to more of her rantings until she added to her daughter Banshee's profile there for that is after her post below. So for the record I'm not having fun reposting her rants. I'm not trying to hurt you just point out when you are attacking or accosting to myself or others. I don't hate you but your actions are another story they have become rather notorious and others are just afraid to stand up to you. As a friend to those you have hurt I have decided to make not only my opinion known but thiers also when appropriate. I won't expose thier names unless they ask me to or they choose to do it themselves. Unlike myself, it seems you need to reafirm your support by posting it on your profile. I find it kind of funny how almost everytime you add to your profile someone else contacts me about it first. I'm not trying to make other cachers hate you just trying to let those who have not seen what you are capable of aware of your abilities and to let them know that they don't have to be alone or afraid of you. I'm not being childish just calling your actions to the carpet so to speak. If you don't like it simply stop making derogative and vindictive posts and control yourself.

As to what you posted about my son on Banshee's profile. If you read the previous blog I posted this was HIS choice, HE signs the log book, He makes his own log online. There is a considerable age difference between Banshee and my son. I believe it is about 6 years difference. That is huge when you are considering a toddler verses a grade schooler, a highschooler verses a elementry student. Further more if you bothered to notice my younger daughter isn't logging caches yet. While her penmenship is legible her grammar isn't, yet. She knows that she will not be able to log caches until she is capable of doing her own logging. She doesn't like it but it is teaching her responsibility and character. Furthermore, I won't allow them to go back and log caches that we have already done unless they revisit the cache and sign the log themselves and post the log on gc themselves. As of now my son has a whopping 5 cache finds and he is proud of each one of them. He even found one of your caches (which would have made 6) when he was with Darkmoon this last weekend. He was disappointed that he couldn't log it on line since you have chosen to make all almost of your caches members only but he did sign the log. I believe that is one of the reasons he is wanting to use his own allowance to get a premium membership once again that will be HIS choice. Even at that I won't let him log it until he has been able to refind it because that goes back to that character thing I was talking about. I want my children to learn to live by the rules, have integrity, high morals and respect for others. This is just one more way that I can instill that in them. As to the "*ITCH ABOUT" statement. Once again you are using foul language and even on your daughters profile. I have never complained about your daughter caching with you. Claiming caches that I know she wasn't at probably, but caching with you never. You are correct this is a family sport and I never said it wasn't.

In closing I do hope that Kashiree learns to control her anger managment issues and as I have said before I don't think there is a cacher out there that has a problem with her little girl. The problem is the mothers insistance on displaying innapropriat statements and behaviors.

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Kashiree's profile addition:


(ADDED 10-31-06) MOMMYFRIED I SURE HOPE YOU ARE HAVING FUN COPYING AND PASTING EVERYTHING FROM MY PROFILE. YOU ARE NOT HURTING ME OUR MAKING MORE CACHERS HATE ME SO GIVE IT UP YOU ARE THE ONE BEING CHILDISH NOW

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What Kashiree added to Banshee's profile.

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Mini~Me aka Banshee Q
Mini~Me aka Banshee Q. Of The 3 Q's


Member Since: Monday, March 06, 2006
Status: Premium Member
Last Visit: Thursday, November 02, 2006
Email Address: [email protected]
Occupation Daughter of Kashiree Q and Maxwell Q
Location: Texas I wish ,but stuck in Oklahoma But moving to Florida soon and we are counting the days til we leave Oklahoma and go to a state we are welcomed in
Forum Title: Premium Member
See the forum posts for this user

Profile Information:
(11-2-06) GO TO MY MOMMAS PROFILE AND READ MORE UPDATES, KIM YOU ARE HAVING FUN COPYING AND PASTING EVERYTHING FROM IT, NOW I SEE YOUR SON HAS BEEN OUT CACHING SO YOU DO NOT HAVE ANY THING TO *ITCH ABOUT. EVEN THOUGH HE IS A LITTLE OLDER IT SHOULD NOT MATTER. REMEMBER THIS IS A FAMILY GAME.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ LATE UPDATE ON (9-20-06) CONSTITUTION OF THE UNITED STATES Adopted by convention of States, September 17, 1787 Article I. Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

********************************************************************* TO KEEP UP ON THE DAILY UPDATES JUST GO TO MY MOMMA'S PROFILE PLEASE!!!! UPDATE FOR 9-19-06 PLEASE GO TO MY MOMMA'S GC PROFILE (KASHIREE Q), IS MY MOMMA!!!!!

********************************************************************* UPDATE 9-20-06 SINCE I COULD NOT FIT THIS ON MOMMA PROFILE I PUT IT ON MINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I SEE I HAVE UPSET AT LEAST ONE CACHER AND THAT CACHER TOOK IT TO THE CACHE PAGE SHE MADE FOR MY DAUGHTER AND STARTED TO SLANDER ME AND MY FAMILY. IN RETURN I LET R.J. KNOW OF THIS AND HE TOOK CARE OF THE PROBLEM, BUT I DID KEEP EVERYTHING SHE SAID ON THAT PAGE UNTIL OUR WONDERFUL REVIEWER MADE HER DELETE IT. THANKS R.J. AS I SAID EARLIER ON SEND WHAT YOU THINK IN A PERSONAL EMAIL AND NOT POST IT ON A CACHE PAGE. AS FAR AS I AM CONCERNED THIS IS FREEDOM OF SPEECH ON MY CACHE PROFILE. THAT IS ALL FOR NOW BUT I WILL KEEP EVERYONE UPDATE AS I SEE FIT. KQ,MQ, AND BQ

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********************************************************************* 8-31-06 UPDATE

ON WHAT IS HAS TRANSPIRED SINCE THE LAST UPDATE. SEE MY MOMS PROFILE FOR LATEST INFORMATION!!!!! *********************************************************************

THANK YOU TO ALL THE GAGA MEMBERS FOR THE SUPPORT & EVEN A FEW OF THE OKLAHOMA CACHERS FOR THEIR SUPPORT!!!!!











2006-11-03 17:34:21 GMT
Comments (7 total)
Author:Anonymous
Kim the fact that she REFUSES to stop comparing apples to oranges is the reason I haven't blogged about it lately. Apparently we're dealing with someone so dense it'll never get through. She's convinced that she's right no matter what. When someone acts the way she does, and continues to maintain that it's ok to act that way, is just not worth my time. She's continued to maintain that my beef has been about her logging caches. Never has been. It's been about lying, cheating and stealing. Not to mention bad mouthing everyone in Oklahoma. Here's what I don't get, If she hates Oklahoma and Oklahomans that much, why not just pack up and MOVE? Go to Texas where life is apparently dilusional peaches and cream. Go pull the same crap with GAGA that she's pulled here. See how big a reception she gets...
--Ron
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2006-11-03 22:58:56 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Hey, no problem Ron.(about not being worth your time) I don't think it will get through either but Mommyfried and I feel that there needs to be a sort of public record of the deeds, our responses and an area where anyone can reply if they wish. Too much was going to be private or lost to deleted logs and changed profiles. At least some truth gets out where others can see more than Kashiree Q's poor, pitiful, persecuted, point of view.
--Spearfox
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2006-11-04 08:32:50 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Ok, I get busy at work, rescue 2 horses from abuse and start taking care of them. Check with Brian and the BLOG, well I missed alot. Looks like the soap opera is still in full force. Or should I say the wanted pirty party (for kasharee that it is) is in still in full force, sure is nice that everyone see through the crap. Keep up the good work Kim.
--Icarii
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2006-11-06 05:10:08 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Kim,
Has Darkmoon even told you my illness? Well I will post it here and maybe those of you that might have the same illness you will understand the way I am. Kim, I am a have Major Depression, OCD disorder and I take things A LITTLE MORE SERIOUSLY THAN SOME of you normal cachers. If you have seen my GC profile as of yesterday it has changed.
--Kashiree Q
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2006-11-07 11:36:25 GMT
Author:Anonymous
To Kashiree. Illness, be it physical or mental, is neither excuse nor reason for treating people badly. Everyone is entitled to respect and you have failed to respect anyone. In my opinion you have dragged yourself and your husband down into the deepest muck and have burned any tenuous connections and severed yourself from any allies in the geocaching community which you may have had. It will take years for you to earn any respect or friendship back. Not only did you belittle members of the geocaching community, you also belittled the cities and the state in which those people live, work, and play. Believe me when I say even those you called friends tell a different tale when you are not around to bully them. I think that you owe the entire state of Oklahoma geocaching community a puble apology. If you are not currently undergoing medical treatment for your depression (I stongly suspect it is not depresion, but rather Borderline Personality Disorder) then please contact your doctor; there are treatment options available to you.

To Spearfox, Mommyfried, Icarii, OkcNightcrawler: Everyone is entitled to an opinion and yours are no less valid than mine. It is time to move on now. Stop feeding the fires.
--I want caching to be fun again.
2006-11-09 00:09:09 GMT
Author:Anonymous
To Anonymous above.

I agree that I want caching to be fun again. I appreciate you taking the time to post your concerns and I believe that you have stated what others have been wanting for a long time now.

I did my best not to fuel the fires for a long time and I still try to bite my tongue quite often. For the time being Kashiree is being civil. I have seen a couple of notes this evening where you could see her spite but at this time they are not being agresive. It has been the agresive notes that I have responded to. I also agree that she probably does need some serious treatment and I hope she does find it. I have dealt with mentally ill people for the last 15 or so years granted most has been a supporting role in the medical field but for the last 8 it has been on a more personal level with extended family. I have gone through 2 years of legal problems with the mentally ill. Therefor I hope that you understand where my limits have been reached. I won't be offensive with this blog but I will be defensive.

Once again thank you for posting your concerns.

Mommyfried
--Mommyfried
2006-11-09 06:45:46 GMT
Author:Anonymous
To the person above: I agree that caching should be fun. I have tried to stay out of all this stuff. After my initial post on keenpeople about my opion on the way they play the game and on the fact that rules were being broken, I tried to stay out of it. I tried to be polite and even agreed to disagree. I did not expect them to agree with me. I than stayed out of it until I found out I was being targeted. Normally I would not of cared but I was accused of stealing caches. So of course I had to defend myself. The other post were a vain attempt to get them to realize how bad this whole thing has gotten. Was some of those post mean? Well, yes! Being nice wasn't doing any good. So with that said, if any of my post hurt anyone, including the Q's, I am sorry. I am not sorry for my opions or for defending myself. I will not post any more about this subject as long as I am no longer targeted. Another words, keep me out of it and I will stay out of it. Frankelly, I have better things to do with my time. So, I wish everyone the best in life and lets go caching already. By the way Darkmoon's night cache is a great adventure.
--Icarii
2006-11-10 17:17:00 GMT


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