David Blankenhorn, in his book Fatherless America, calls fatherlessness America=s most urgent social problem. Statistics bear this out. The
issue behind this issue is probably understood by only a handful of
people because it involves one of the best-kept secrets in
America, and that is the true agenda of the N.O.W. and radical
feminist organizations called NGOs, ie, Non-Government
Organizations at the UN sympathetic to it, which issue studies like
the one we are discussing on these boards. It
is beyond our scope to enter into the historical detail of the
origins of radical feminism but you may visit Erin Pizzey=s
site to get an idea of this (Erin Pizzey was the founder of the
first women=s
shelter in the world, in Chiswick England. Soon after the shelter
opened its doors, Pizzey took a poll and noted that of the first 100
women that came there, over 60% were more abusive than the men they
were fleeing. See http://telusplanet.net/public/sheep_/pizzey.htm). One
of the salient agendas of gender feminism (as defined by Christina
Hoff Sommers in Who Stole Feminism) is to attack the
so-called patriarchy. For the non-anthropologist, the
term patriarchy essentially refers to the system of marriage as
society=s
primary child care and rearing institution. Observers have pointed
out that the patriarchal system was coincident with the emergence of
civilization as we know it. Was this just a coincidence? A vast body
of highly visible empirical evidence suggests that it was not.
Consider that over the past thirty years as the traditional family
broke down in favor of the mother-child unit, there was a
parallel and essentially equivalent breakdown of the rest of
society, mirrored in spiraling crime, drug abuse, teen suicide, teen
pregnancy, failure in school, violence among young people and a
general inability of children and young people to cope with life. As
this deterioration process progressed certain groups, such as the
National Fatherhood Initiative under Wade Horn, were monitoring it
and issuing warnings about father absence and its effects on
society. These effects should have been noticed by everyone, but
many politicians and the public at large were busy enjoying our
prosperity and tilting at social windmills of far less importance to
the future of our children. At the same time other groups were busy
fomenting the social change that was causing these grave problems.
One was the National Organization for Women, which claimed to speak
for every American woman. Another that was later identified as
having an agenda consistent with the latter organization=s
was the American Psychologists Association, which is now headed by a
radical feminist. The N.O.W. pushed for a platform it broadly called
women=s rights, including abortion, even late-term abortion, which the
AMA said is never justified. It also pushed for the Violence Against
Women Act, of which it succeeded in passing the first part (VAWA I).
However, due perhaps in part to the growing public alienation of
this group, the second part has faced serious constitutional
challenges in the Supreme Court. Some feel that this legislation is
unfair because it urges special protection to only one group, while
the other, men (who are 2/3 of the victims of all violence, street
and domestic together) are left unprotected. There is also the
problem that this legislation, by specifically denying custody to
men accused of abuse, would enshrine in law the notion that it is
primarily men who abuse children (60% of child abuses are
perpetrated by women, acc to the publication AChild
Maltreatment 1996@
by the US Dept of Health and Human Services). Here the hidden agenda
is seen as keeping children away from fathers. The
other group, the APA, has also published two articles that clearly
identify its agenda as that of countering the patriarchal system and
hence, again, defeating fatherhood. It ran one article around Fathers
Day of 1999 entitled ADeconstructing Fatherhood@ which specifically attacked the patriarchal system and disclosed the
ideological nature of the study, which was intended to show that
fathers are not only unnecessary to child development but also
dangerous. This and another article in the APA Journal, which tried to
showBcontrary
to solid scientific researchBthat
day care at a tender age is harmless, were challenged by the
above-mentioned Wade Horn and as a result, the APA garnered a
public rebuke by the U.S. Congress. Now,
pay attention. At this critical juncture when the VAWA is challenged
for the first time in the Supreme Court, we find a study claiming that
2/3 of all women are Asomehow
abused@
worldwide. If
the VAWA passes constitutional muster it will make it even harder for
fathers to get custody of their children after divorce, even though
fathers now get custody only in cases so rare they tend to attract
media attention. In
a country where 40% of children live in homes with no father present,
where it is predicted that more than half the children will soon be
fatherless and where social ills have increased in direct proportion
to fatherlessness, and hence where the future of our children is by no
means assured, I ask you the people to decide whether legislation
aimed at taking even more fathers out of homes is a good
thing. And if not, how much credence should we lend to dubious studies by the groups traditionally seen as destructive to fatherhood, studies that, if taken seriously, would lead legislators and judges to deny even more fathers their God-given rights to parenthood.
Don Hank Director,
LYNCUP
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