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How to Please Your Man Orally

Remembering back to the first time I had oral sex performed on me sure brings back some fond memories. Very fond! <G> I had never thought anything could feel quite THAT good. She was kinda surprised too when I ejaculated. She wasn't prepared for the amount of pressure that I had built up. We were both young and dumb, but knew pleasure what pleasure was for sure.
So, what would a woman need to know about sucking a penis the first time?
Some women refuse to do it. Some refuse to suck one to completion. Some spit and some swallow.
For a woman to perform oral sex the best, she would have to really want to first. Putting too much pressure on her to perform oral sex (or anything as far as that goes) would only cause resentment and not have the results you want.
I'm certainly not an expert on sucking a penis, but I do know what I like having done on me and know what women have told me about performing oral sex. I am an expert on receiving! <G>
Is position important? Maybe! <G>
If I'm standing, there is the danger of my knees buckling! <G> The first time I ever had oral sex done on me standing was out of this world! There's just something about me standing with a naked woman kneeled before me sucking me! And you have free access to everything he owns as he stands there!
Sitting is nice with her kneeled before you! You will not have much access from this position depending on his position, but what the heck? <G>
Me laying on my back is fine and dandy especially when she throws my legs on her shoulders for access to everything!
Laying on your side works great too! Access to everything is readily available although movement is limited to some extent.
With you laying on your back and him above you works great too although YOU won't have as much control which is most of the fun!
And there is always the straddle with you sitting on his face (69), but that's another post! <G>
Oh, last but not least, the car! While this is NOT recommended due to the safety aspect of having a head on collision, (which is NOT the kind of head you want <G>), it is very erotic! If you do this while moving though, do be very careful! We do want you to live long enough to do it again! :)
I'm not for sure where the term blowjob came from, but blowing sure as heck isn't the key! <G>
Sucking IS the key, though. AND the tongue!
When she starts the journey down, is it ever exciting! Sometimes I get so worked up before she gets to my penis that I think I'm going to erupt before she gets there. One thing that works best for me is when she starts at the neck working down and NOT touching my penis at all during the journey. Can you spell ANTICIPATION? <G>
When she stops and sucks in my nipples, WHOA! I never dreamed that sucking a male's nipples would feel like that! When she's sucking my nipples, my penis is mighty proud of the fact and if it is not all ready hard, this will do the trick. She'll suck and nibble on one, then lick across to the other... whoa! <G>
The journey then travels over the tummy where she seems to circle every hair on the way down with her tongue. WOW! When she slips her tongue in my navel, look out! <G> I know the ACT is coming up shortly and it's hard for me to sit still!
When she FINALLY works her way down to my pubic hair, trust me, I'm ready! My penis has been so neglected by this time it is WANTING attention! What does she do? Does she go right for the head and suck it in? No! ACK! She licks right down beside it with my penis brushing the side of her face! By this time my penis is throbbing and hard as a rock and wanting SOMETHING, ANYTHING to relieve the pressure! <G>
So when she gets down close to the testicles, I'm thinking, well, this is it! The BIG one, but NO, she doesn't lick my testicles, she licks right on past licking up and down between my testicles and anus every once in a while brushing across the anus! Talking about jumping up, that will do it.
Then, FINALLY, she'll move up licking at the base of the sac moving up until she finally gently sucks in a testicle and does my penis ever start twitching then. You should be careful when sucking a testicle in though because if you suck too hard, it can be painful unless painful is what you want, that is! <G> The she'll suck in the other testicle and does my penis EVER feel neglected then! <G> It's wanting attention BAD!
AND then finally, the moment my penis has been waiting for, her tongue FINALLY reaches the base of my penis and do things ever heat up then!
She'll lick up the vein slowly and if I'm being still at this time, I must be passed out! <G> My penis will be twitching and you'd think there was an earthquake inside trying to get out (actually, more like a volcano <G>). Her tongue will brush across the head and then slowly make the trip back down to the base of my penis. All my penis has wanted is attention! It wants to be covered with something wet AND hot! <G> Does it happen? NO! She's teasing me some more! <G> My penis is SCREAMING for attention NOW! <G> Just something wrapped around it! Shoot, wrap a hand around it or something! Speaking of the something, when she wraps her hair around it and moves up and down as she gently licks the head, my MY! <G> This teasing is driving me wild! Look mom, no hands brings on an all new meaning! For a little added thrill for him, circle his anus and even slip your tongue in him if you want to! You WILL love the results! <G>
When she reaches the head of the penis this time, FINALLY her lips will part and she slowly takes the head in circling it with her tongue as the suction and her tongue make me feel like I've died and gone to heaven! <G>
Different women suck on penises differently too! Do you have to deep throat? NO! I went MANY years before I was deep throated! The entire penis does not have to be sucked. Sure, it feels GREAT, and if you are comfortable with it and won't gag, GO FOR IT! <G>
At this point in time, it doesn't matter what you do, just don't stop if your intentions are making him ejaculate! <G>
Once she finally gets my penis in her mouth, and starts working up and down the shaft, things really get heated up. Her fingers will be lightly brushing and fondling my testicles and the area between my testicles and my anus with both hands as her mouth works over my extremely excited penis! <G> I can remember the first time a finger brushed across my anus too! WOW! Talk about jumping! <G> The first time a finger was inserted in my anus as I was about to orgasm, did I ever have a SUPER orgasm!
Sometimes she'll grasp my penis at the base a lick it like a lollipop after she really gets me going slipping her lips over the head and then licking some more. Ain't nothing wrong with that! <G>
But when it gets down to the serious time and she's now ready to give me my orgasm, I like it to be steady! Teasing is over with! <G> She does it several ways too! Sometimes she'll grasp my penis and pump it at the same time her mouth moves up and down the shaft. Sometimes she'll just suck on it. The key to orgasm for me is for her to NOT stop what she is doing!
When it comes to ejaculating, what do you do? Do you pull out and masturbate him? Do you hold it in your mouth and spit it out when he's finished? Do you swallow it? If you've done all the above, it doesn't matter to me! <G>
Of course swallowing is the best! I love to lay there in sexual gratification as she "milks" every last drop! That's my favorite of course!
I have also had women that would masturbate me when it got to that time and while it's not my favorite, the release is! <G> I have had a few that preferred the ejaculation to go onto their face or body and they rub it in! That's a turnon!
If she doesn't swallow and spits it out, hopping up and running to the bathroom is a bit of a turn off! I like to share those special moments after orgasm! <G> If you are prepared for and have a towel handy to spit in, then it's not as bad and you don't lose that physical closeness after the fact! You don't break the bond.
Did I miss anything??? <G>
Have HAPPY oral SEX!!!!