Eulogy for larry ronald jernigan By H. Gary Jernigan


larry ronald jernigan, my bro. He was an enigma, which according to the big dictionary he always used means a riddle inside a mystery. Yes, larry was an enigma, near genius level IQ with a PhD in psychology which he earned while married and working the entire period of time. He was the absent-minded professor, always losing his glasses, his keys, his billfold, and his checkbook. But he always told me they weren't lost he just could not remember where he put them and they would turn up. And sure enough they did, except the few times he had to call the locksmith to get his keys out of the trunk when they were actually not in the trunk! larry was an idealist, but he was a very down to earth, salt of the earth man. He was kind and generous to a fault, especially when it came to people, integrity and the treatment of humankind. larry's experiences from his childhood onward somehow created a person very different from the average or typical professional. larry was a lover of small children, old cars, and trails through the woods. He didn�t care much for fishing or hunting especially after surviving a grizzly bear attack. He never could watch Gentle Ben on TV. larry had a fall off a galloping horse and broke half the bones in his body. There was also a canoe experience down the Rio Grande River at flood stage, in which he almost drowned. That landed him with a broken leg. Then there was a mountain climbing experience, which found him on top of the mountain after dark in cold weather. larry was a very adventuresome soul. I can�t remember all of his injuries. larry struggled with being successful. He always felt he had more than his share of the world goods and was always trying to even the score. larry wasn�t into wearing suits; not interested in big cities and traffic, or the commercial world. He never passed a hitchhiker by; always picked them up and gave them money. larry was generous, never turned anyone down that asked him for money. Just going back and reminiscing, he once told me about how he had contributed to charities, not in a bragging kind of way, but just to say I have way more of the world resources than my share. Kind of the argument about America being so spoiled and selfish while the rest of the world was starving. He, on the one hand, tried scheme after scheme, and had good job after good job, but he could not tolerate the backbiting, hypocrisy, or lack of integrity that he saw in many of the organizations he was involved in. He hated attorneys, insurance companies that were dishonest, wearing suits, going to meetings, and politics (even the small scale university level politics and business politics). He was very much opposed to those concepts to the extent that he was willing to walk out and quit his job. larry was very practical. Hy-Top brands tasted just as good to him as any other kind. He would always tell me if I was going to pickup groceries, not to get him that high priced stuff. He bought his clothes at Wal-Mart on the high end and Goodwill was more the norm. Everyone gave him stuff. He had his old ragged torn up stuff that he liked to wear, coveralls with the knees out of them. He spent his first 18 years of life in a fairly normal manner. He was very much involved in the 4th Avenue Baptist Church 3 times a week, church camps, church choir, the whole nine yards. Then there was a little disruption in the family and we were into our rebellious teenage years and he kind of rebelled a little more than others. He was defiantly anti establishment and he liked to have fun. He just did things and got himself in trouble. larry was involved in a bad industrial accident that hurt him worse emotionally and mentally than physically. On the inside he was just really hurting. But he maintained an upbeat attitude on the outside. The final straw I guess was the injustice of having to deal with the healthcare system, workman�s comp, and attorneys to try to find some justice for the accident that had been perpetrated on him. Then he failed at that. The last two years or more have been a time of great closeness for my little bro and I. We spent just an awful lot of good times and a lot of tough times together. larry really struggled with a lot of issues, things he called the tar baby (a song of the south). However, I think he had some pleasure in these last two years. He would head off on his walks with earplugs singing at the top of his lungs. He loved to kid and joke. He would call my office and tell the receptionist he was Omar Gadafy or Bill Clinton. Always joking, it was because of that kid inside him. larry spent every morning from one half to an hour praying though he was not a church goer or a joiner. He was confused and uncertain about religion, but he had no doubts about who his savor was; and that savor was indeed a friend, someone very much involved in his life and responsible for many of the things he said, did, and believed in so fiercely. He loved to roam. He loved the outdoors. He liked to make trails. In fact that was something he did everywhere that he lived the best I can tell. I will miss him but I know he is far happier than he had been here on earth. In our own way we all tried to change larry to make him more like us... more acceptable to society... more materialistic and establishment. In the end we failed to change him...in his own way he changed us. He wanted to be there for us...he failed and we failed. We will never be the same...he will always be with us. I know the Lord has him in his bosom. I have no doubt whatsoever about that.


Eulogy for larry ronald jernigan By Blaine Jernigan


No one that knew Uncle larry would argue that he was an unconventional man. He had a lot of pain in his life and he caused some pain in those that loved him. He was pure in heart and free from hypocrisy; he never struggled with prejudice. He did not worry about tomorrow but allowed tomorrow to care for itself. larry treated people the same way he wanted to be treated. He was not haughty in mind but associated with the lowly. He gave freely to those in need and he loved with his whole heart. larry, like all of mankind, was a sinner. Thankfully, while we were yet sinners Christ died for us! The book of Romans tells us that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead you will be saved and larry did this. He was a lot of fun and brought joy and laughter to those around him. larry jernigan, not a perfect man but forgiven by the one who matters most!

John 15:12 This is my commandment, That ye love one another as I have loved you.

             

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