Name : Ben Haynes
Age : 31
Gender : Male
Orientation : Hetrosexuel
Country : United States of America
Location : Chico, CAlifornia
Height : 5 Ft. 9 In.
Body Type : Adverage, Muscular
Weight : 152 Lbs.
Hair Color : Brown
Eye Color : Hazel, Two Tone
Education : Some College
Occupation : General Contractor / Builder
Income : Talk about this one later
Ethnicity : White / Caucasion
Religion : Christian / Presbyterian
Smoking : No Smoking
Drinking : Socially
Has Children : Yes, one beautiful daughter
Living with me : Part of the time.
Want Children : I can go both ways
Astrological Sign : I'm not really a believer in
    this sort of thing.  Scorpio I think
Language : Engilsh
Looking to meet a : Woman
Relationship Desired : Serious relationship
    with marriage potential, but no pressure
Here are some pix of me in the past and as you can see I like to change me appear-
ance every now and then.  Top-picture of me in more of a casuel style. Side-picture of me in Alaska by my wood stack.  There you go for now.
Here is a picture of me in Mexico working on a home.  This trip was a missions trip to help people that were less fortunate than we are.  The house was not much but for the family it was really neat.
I started to build a home for myself in Alaska but I was never able to finish.  My mail-
box was the only structure that I was able to build on the property.  I often wish I could start a project like this one agian.  Maybe one day.
Here is Ben at one of my old job's.  You can see how hard my work is building a home in the sunny weather on a blue sky day at about 77 degrees.  I'm catching a few rays on my white skin here.  Need a little sun every now and then. 
Here are some pix that I took just the other day.  So basicly this is what I look like rigtht now.  Hair is short because it's easy to manage.  I'm a healthy weight right not as well.  The way I feel drasticly affects my weight.  Man, these to guys look like brothers.  If you have any suggestions on the way I should do my hair just drop me a note.
What's important to me about a future woman in my life?
Well let's talk about a few of those things that I would like to see in another woman.  Idealy she would be between the ages of 27 and 33.  I would love someone that is attracted to me and I to them.  Physical charistics may include not being overweight and easy on the eyes.  Someone that is Christian or understands that I am Christian.  Those are some good building blocks to start a relationship with.
Personality characteristics of my partner may included some of these.
-She tends to be caring, compassionate, and sensitive towards the needs of others.
-Easy for her to connect with people.
-Her friends concider her to be someone who can be trusted, and relied apon.
-She generally does her best to be honest in all situations, but we are not perfect.
-She has a good sence of right and wrong, and tries to be the best person she can be.
-She generally avoids being pessimistic about things.
Here are some personality traits that describe me very well and what I look for.
Relaxed - I prefer a partner that is able to forget about money and focus on the improtant parts of life.
Tolarant - I prefer a partner that is able to hear and appreciate different view points.
Passionate - We can talk about this one a little later.  One on one is a little better setting than the internet here.
Parenting Style - I prefer someone who shares my views on how to raise children.
Loyal - I prefer someone I can count on to always support me and I her, when times are rough.
Adaptability - I prefer a partner who is able to adabt to lifes suprises.
Affectionate - I prefer someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection.
Kindness - I prefer someone who is gentle and kind.
Patience - I prefer someone who can handle life's frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady demeanor.  This word describes me very well.
Here is a list of things that help me to be comfortable in life.  You might say they are needs but I think of them more as guidelines.
- Time to adjust to change
- Reassureance
- Time and opportunity to weigh the pros and cons of decisions
- Security and safety around the house and car
- Better planing for change in the future
- An enviornment free from conflict or hostility
- Peace and harmoney
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