Entry 598

Wednesday (4 PM)

1-5-00

            Okay it’s official I am one of the most pathetic people in the world.  I didn’t go to school today, although I somewhat wish I had.  Right now I really need to get out of here because I am having really bad problems with my parents.  It is just one of those times when I need to escape more than you can believe.  I used to have someone I could call and let me crash at their house, but it’s all changed now.  So now I need to really get out of this house, and away from parents, and who to I have to call and ask….no one.  No escape, no nothing.  Maybe I should just run away, only this time not get caught.  Every time I look around my room I think of the one person who I held dear, not only is there a memory everywhere I look, but something there that reminds me of him.  And as always he just as everyone else has abandoned me.  Now I am sitting here crying my eyes out, wanting to get out of this horrid place.  Not a living being to help dry them, or to take me away for the night.  Gee, the way I describe it, it sounds like I am asking for a prince charming.  That’s not what I really want right now, just a close friend.  I thought I had that at first with at least 3 different people, but I guess not anymore since I can’t call them and ask the one favor I need practically more than anything at the moment.  I didn’t go to school today, yet for whatever reason I wish I had.  I probably will tomorrow.  Won’t that be fun?  I am trying really hard to act like I am okay, and it couldn’t get better, but it seems utterly impossible because I am continuously feeling myself being torn up inside causing me to be weaker and even more pitiful. Right when I begin to think that there may be a tiny piece of hope that things may actually be looking up for me they go downhill completely, and once again all hope is lost.  My God, are things ever going to start to improve for me??  I am 15 and I have spent the past three days in bed because of my being so sick.  I use to think what Sam and I had was something so strong, deep, and meaningful that it was worth fighting for, and wasn’t anywhere near worth giving up on.  I think that may be one of the reasons I am taking such a depressing fall right now because our love and relationship was one of the main things I put my faith and my belief in, one of the only things I honestly believed I could rely on and that would always be there no matter how bad things got.  Now I have lost that and I don’t know which way to go, and the worst part of all is I no longer know how to pick up the pieces and move on, or at least not by myself.  Nobody probably even noticed I wasn’t at school today.  The one thing that seems to be so scary is what if I never find anyone else.  I gotta get out of here!! Only now I am seeing it isn’t just this house it is also this town.  No one cares for me anymore and they wouldn’t even miss me, so I might as well just leave. 

 

Entry 599

Wednesday (9:08 PM)

1-5-00

            Okay, well Sam called me and I just got off the phone with him a few minutes ago.  I was hoping he would, but pushed the idea out of my head because I never really expected him too.  So therefore when he actually did I was somewhat surprised. Why is it just talking to him puts me in a good mood?  I mean I really don’t want to feel that way about him anymore, especially since he already has someone that has taken my place.  I feel myself changing tremendously only problem is, I don’t know if it is for the better or worse and I am afraid some of my friends won’t accept me as this new person I am becoming.  My main goal is to get my life back together and try to figure out what I want to accomplish.  Sam was the only person who called to see where I was today, but I guess that’s good considering I never really expected him to call in the first place.  Believe it or not I am actually looking forward to going to school tomorrow.  I am pretty positive my Mom doesn’t really want me to, though.  Yet I don’t want to lie around all day doing absolutely nothing.  I am still a little sick, but very weak, only I think I will be able to handle it, at least I hope so.  I guess it’s good to know Sam was concerned.  You know for some reason I am becoming suspicious of my Mom because lately she seems to be knowing things.  Things I only write in here.  Like with Sam, she asked if it was Jason, and why would she say that when I haven’t even mentioned Jason around her in who know how long?  That’s not the only thing; when I had just gotten off the phone with Sam, she came in here for a second time and said something along the lines of, “I’m surprised he wasn’t talking to his new girlfriend.”  Then she went on to ask if he had one, and I just shrugged my shoulders.  Once again, I haven’t even said Sam’s name around her since around the time I found out he had a girlfriend, therefore I know for a fact I haven’t and more than likely wouldn’t tell her about that.  Just too many coincidences which cause me not to take them as that.  Only I know she couldn’t of read in this within the past two days since I have been in here majority of that time.  My only solution seems to be to keep you with me 24/7 until I figure something else out, or until I find out whether she’s been reading this or not.  My only problem now is making sure no one at school gets their hands on this considering all that’s in here some of my personal and inner thoughts.  Hey no big deal, right??  Yeh, I wish.  I will just have to be careful.  I did find out I have 3rd, period with Sam which also means I have lunch with him.  Of course, perfect…right when we break up we finally get a class together, how ironic.  I am kind of baffled why I am so full sarcasm, which sometimes has anger behind it, but most of the time it just seems to come naturally.  I know being a smart ass has been a common thing for me every now and then, but now I am just much more cynical for whatever reason.  Right now I’m just hoping I’ll be okay.

 

Entry 600

Thursday

1-6-00

            Oh my God!!  I can’t believe this, I think I have a crush on Max.  Of all people him!!  I can’t believe myself anymore.  It is just nearly every time I see him I find myself staring at him a lot, he’s such a pervert sometimes, but that’s normal for me to like guys like that.  No matter how hard I try to force myself to not steal a glance his way, I always end up doing it.  I realize he has a lot of qualities that I wouldn’t be able to handle, but he has many nice ones too.  He seems to be looking toward me and at me a lot also.  I just don’t think there’s enough potential there for a relationship, just because of how complex we are compared to each other.  I honestly don’t see there being much “Chemistry”.  Besides it’s just a little crush, I will eventually get over it.  Well, I doubt my life is actually starting to turn up.  Everything seems to of gotten worse since I have been at school.  I feel so sick and personally all I want to do at the moment is melt in my sorrow and cry while curled up in a corner.  Actually I’m not really sure I like Max.  You know I thought having a class with Sam would be good, especially since it’s the one we have lunch in.  Now I see it’s not good at all because I get to sit there and watch him flirt with Leann and hear him talk about his girlfriend, Julie.  Nobody wants me anymore.  I thought I was over most of the pain from my broken heart and had put it behind me, but as soon as I saw him it all came back.  The pain is just so much and highly overbearing that all I want is to disappear into another world and forget it all.  I want someone to pick me up in their arms and hold me until all the pain and tears go away.  The main thing I need right now is someone to hold me just be there and listen to me while I cry it all away.  I am so miserable and I don’t know why.  I just really need some comfort in my life right now.  My Mom just started screaming at me telling me how selfish and inconsiderate I am.  I don’t know why.  My dad is a lot worse by doing certain things I don’t even want to get into right now.  School just bought another huge stress in my life.  I hate all my classes pretty much.  I don’t want to go back there, but I don’t want to be here either, but I don’t really want to be alone.  I need someone I can call right now.  I just really need to hear some comforting words and just have a shoulder to cry on at the moment.  I don’t wanna be miserable or cry anymore, the pain just hurts so bad it scares me!

 

Entry 601

Friday

1-7-00

            Okay how stupid and vulnerable can I let myself get??  Every time I start to think, “Hey I may actually be happy today,” I somehow am always wrong.  I feel so sick and my head is about to split open.  Sam tends to ignore and cut me off every time I attempt to start a conversation, even if it’s not in particularly with him.  That is one of the things that is slowly making me hate and dread lunch and 3rd period.  I don’t know why he does that, he may not even realize it, but I wish he’d stop.  I have a really bad headache and I just want to disappear from the world at the moment.  I was in a good mood, but now I am full of anger and more or less I hate myself, and life, but no surprise there, huh?  I cried for so long last night over him again.  I don’t know why I can’t just forget.  He obviously already has considering every day at lunch he talks about Julia and flirts with Leann, or at least applies all his attention to her.  Then hear him sit there and talk about what he was doing with her and Julia this weekend.  Yes, Sam that makes me feel wonderful something I always look forward to hearing about.  Especially since majority of the time he mentions her name or whatever it brings tears to my eyes just because it still hurts so bad.  I had a very spiritual moment today though.  Like in Spanish our teacher had us try this meditating thing.  Like we started out with our eyes closed and in our minds standing in front of a mountain and we walk around and there is a cave.  I entered the cave and as I walk through it the colors change and there are pebbles on the floor and each one holds a special memory.  The things is, at about this point I was somewhat hypnotized.  It felt so strange.  I continue to walk through the cave and while it’s blue I feel a breeze and hear water running I follow the breeze and the sound.  Then it turns purple and I am at the end of the cave standing in front of a small waterfall.  I take a cup that’s white and smooth and get some water and rest for awhile.  Then I start to head out and I come to the yellow part where I can hear the birds outside faintly hear the breeze rustle the leaves in the trees and feel the breeze across my face.  In this yellow spot I pick up the pebble that has my most happy moment.  That moment was the last time I was with Sam, nearly two months ago.  Not only did it make me happy and feel much comfort, but for some reason it was like al the heartbreak and pain just hit me for the first time.  And the tears couldn’t help but rush out.  But whenever I need to get away I can go back to the yellow where I haven’t completely left, but maybe about halfway.  I mean normally I wouldn’t let it get to me, but that was my subconscious talking.  The teacher said, “Put the pebble in your pocket and keep it with you, carry it around with you.  Now whenever you need comfort, you can look back on this moment because no one can ever take that memory away from you.”  It just brought back so much, a lot of things I forgot I had.  I’ve never had an experience like that before.  I didn’t even realize it was possible for me.  I don’t know how I really feel right now.  The teacher said that we would do that same thing occasionally.  I think I would like that a lot.  It was highly amazing though.  I do have much more pain to deal with now since it brought back a lot I guess I thought I had buried and put it all aside.  I know I will definitely try that again, possibly on my own.  My teacher said she could tell I had something going on that was causing a lot of pain just by the way my face was looking.  At least now I have found another way to escape.  This time some good might actually come out of it.  I think now I have finally found a way to find myself again.

 

Entry 602

Sunday (9:43 PM)

1-9-00

            I am on a complete emotional rollercoaster.  We’re in the middle of a tornado watch or warning or whatever.  I am really not that concerned about it though.  Only because they say that kind of stuff all the time and majority of the time nothing ever happens.  Today I slept until 1:30 in the afternoon.  I was really surprised because I figured it was like 9 or something.  I somewhat find the taps of the raindrops on the windows and the roof very soothing and relaxing.  I am hoping it will last until I am ready to go to sleep because it will help me fall asleep much easier.  I have been trying to figure out how I feel for Sam.  It is really hard to have someone practically be your life for over a year and then all of a sudden we are nothing more than acquaintances.  At least that’s the impression I have now.  I see him in the hall as he walks right past me as if I am not even there, literally.  For whatever reason I am slowly beginning to feel like I am invisible to him now.  He probably never thinks about me anymore.  I wonder if he still listens to my tape I gave him for Christmas.  There are so many things that have occurred to me and happened to me that I so badly want to tell him, but we barely have a word pass between us, because to him right now I apparently don’t exist.  I am thinking tomorrow I am going to spend lunch in the bathroom.  I just don’t want to have to sit through it all again.  Having to hear Sam talk about his girlfriend and flirting with Leann.  You know I didn’t want to admit it at first, but the truth is, I envy Leann.  Her and Sam are like good friends if not best.  Something I so desperately wanted to have with him after our break up.  God know I tried so hard maintain some sort of friendship, I worked my butt for 2 weeks trying to do that.  I guess right when you think you have succeeded for once, you turn out to be one of the biggest failures in the world.  I don’t know what else to do.  In my eyes I have done all I can, he just never made a complete effort back.  I really don’t want him to end up being just a memory in my life, which I fear so much he will be.  I have come to realize that I am no longer an independent person.  I am very dependent.  Once Sam came along I began to rely on him and go to him when things got really rough.  Now, that he’s gone, I have gotten pretty accustomed to having someone to  rely on.  I now feel I can’t go on living without having anyone.  I am trying so hard to come to grips with reality.  Yet I can not seem to do it without a person guiding me and helping.  I really need a helping hand and I want more than anything for it to be Sam.  Right now it honestly seems like no one is looking out for me, which really sucks because I need that and so many other things at the current moment.  It seems like I am the only person in this world who feels this depressed, or has ever been this devastated from a heartbreak.  I think I need a relationship, but I don’t want one.  I need one because I am at the point where I need someone there to support me, and I just need someone there.  I don’t want one because if I get into a relationship I know I will get attached and I don’t need to do that right now.  Besides how can I expect someone to get to know me, when I don’t even know myself anymore.  If I get into a relationship I have to be the one in control, I have to be the one that sets the stages, therefore lessoning my chances of getting hurt again.  The problem: I am not quite strong enough to be in the control and if I am not in that position then I can’t handle a relationship.  I can’t sit there waiting around wondering what’s going to happen next, or whether today will be the day I lose him, just as I did with Sam.  I can’t do this on my own; going through life, which causes a big conflict.  That’s why I am continuously asking for a friend, but that friend has yet to show up.  I still hold on to the hope and wish that that friend will be Sam, but that seems to be more doubtful than ever right now.  Hey, I doubt he will even notice I am not at lunch tomorrow.  I don’t necessarily know how I am going to pull off staying there the whole time without no one finding out.  I am not doing it just because of reasons already mentioned.  Also because all the people I sit with aren’t really my friends.  There’s no one else in that lunch that I really know to sit with.  So I guess basically the only reason I sit there is because of Sam.  My life is just totally spiraling out of control.  I really have no earthly idea how to get it back in order.  I know I can’t do it on my own, I really need to talk to somebody so bad.  For whatever reason I just feel like no one is really willing to listen.  There are so many things that I haven’t mentioned in here, that I should have, many other things about my parents and what goes on at school.  I feel very hopeless and I have no idea what to do.  I just want somebody to listen.

 

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