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Monday

11-8-99

            My life’s full of bullshit right now.  Sam’s Dad is such an asshole.  I can’t believe he went through all the letters I’ve written Sam.  Now his Dad knows all of my thoughts, secrets, and worries.  I’ll tell you one thing, I shall no longer write him letters, and since he told me last night he gets sick of me, then I might just stop talking to him altogether.  Doesn’t matter anyways because now he isn’t allowed to come over or do anything with me and my parents in general, since some of the stuff I wrote about involved my parents’ “issue”.  Now every time we want to spend time together has to be in the presence of his parents, or in public.  Isn’t that wonderful?!?!  What I don’t get is one minute Sam agrees with what his Dad’s saying, then the next he’s all pissed and totally hates his Dad because we weren’t able to spend any time alone yesterday when I was over at his house.  He told me tonight, “If times like yesterday is the only times we’re able to see each other, then I’m gonna have to do something about it.”  Then he said that his Dad wasn’t doing that for Sam’s safety, but doing it to break us up.  That is originally what I thought at first, but Sam was all like, “No, he’s in the right and blah blah.” I just don’t get it and don’t choose to say anything.  It was ridiculous on Saturday it was a waste of time because Sam and I wanted to see a movie, but his Dad swore up and down they had to get home and do some work right away.

 

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Tuesday

11-8-99

            I feel so worn out and tired, everybody I know seems so happy, I wonder what happened to me.  My throat is burning and has felt closed up since Saturday.  My friends can’t even tell I’m falling apart.  The one person I thought would catch me has given up.  I thought Sam knew me more than anyone, but he doesn’t.  I get the feeling he’s gonna break up with me later.  Earlier today something was wrong and he wouldn’t tell me what, so of course I go to the extreme and start to think it has to do with us and all this stuff.  I would like to write him a note to tell him how I feel and how much I love him, but I’m afraid to for fear of his Dad reading it.  So here I am once again closing myself up to everything but pen and paper, my only solace.  For the moment I guess I don’t really have any other option, but to just stay to myself.  I wish I could go back to Thursday while I was with Sam, when he was just holding me.  It felt nice to be in his arms and not actually just know he loves me, but feel it ya  know.  Now because of the way things are between us I am afraid that we will never have anymore of those moments.  My god, I love him so much, more than I ever thought capable.  I don’t know if he remembers certain things that he has said to me in the past, although cheesy and corny, quite comforting at the moments they were said.  It is just the way things are going and the way he is acting it is beginning to make me wonder.

 

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Thursday

11-11-99

             I guess a lot of stuff has just been completely diminished in my life.  Sam broke up with me because he claims his Dad made him or something, but whatever I dunno, it just seems not so truthful.  I’m hurting so much, I just can’t bring myself to stop crying I just wish all this would stop.  I’ve taken the worst plunge, I’m falling deeper and deeper and no one understands, not even Sam but it doesn’t matter because I’ve lost him anyways.  I still love him and I think he still loves me and I guess that is why this is killing me.  I feel like my heart’s being torn out of me slowly and just being stepped all over, does that make sense?  I’m terrified of what’s gonna happen to me, I hope Sam’s okay.  He thinks I am gonna stop loving him, but I don’t see that possible.  I was under the impression that we were still gonna be together, but just sneak around I guess…never mind I dunno what I thought.  I guess that’s why I was so upset…I also thought we weren’t actually over until Friday…but again I guess I was wrong.  I’m still gonna get him something for Christmas…or not…maybe I shouldn’t maybe I should just sever all ties.  If I do it will be something small, but with lots of meaning.  I would give almost anything to feel his touch again, to hear him say, “I love you.”  Okay I know this sounds cheesy, but ah well…ya know those little flag like things that are put outside of hersey kisses that say kiss on them, well awhile back Sam gave me two of those to use as a coupon for a kiss so I brought one to school today, since I was under the wrong impression that we weren’t officially broken up until Friday and I thought he’d be getting a ride home with me today, so I was going to give him one, and tell him I will be holding on to the other one for a day when/if we join back together, but obviously I couldn’t do that because I was under the wrong impression to begin with.  My GOD, I love him so very much it hurts right now!!

 

Entry 582

Thursday

12-16-99

            Sam and I are still apart…I love him still.  For Christmas I made him a tape of some songs and stuff…nothing all that big.  Joey called me at like 9:30 in the morning and I was still asleep, I could of killed him.  I miss Sam still as well.  But I’m exempting finals, so I’m out of the holidays so I probably won’t talk to or see him for about 2-3 weeks which might be a good thing, help me get past it ya know.  Although this is the first time since he’s entered my life that I won’t get to talk to or see him for this long.  It does somewhat scare and hurt me, ya know when you come to just expect that sort of thing.  I’ve been really down in the dumps too lately, my parents still do their “stuff”.  Even after Kathy and I had a long talk with my Mom about the whole issue.  It makes me so pissed maybe it’s more or less beginning to be because of me.  Like I’m no longer good enough for them ya know.  So maybe if I was a little bit better, or tried my hardest then they would quit….I don’t know.  Is that even normal??  I don’t even know who I am anymore.  I need to find that out and soon.  I want to find my heart, unfortunately I lost that and became very numb when Sam and I had to break up.  I guess because that emotional pain was too much to handle all at once.  So many thing that used to seem so clear now seem blurry.  I long to find my soul, my inspiration again.  I have no idea what’s keeping me going now; I feel like giving up.  I written Sam some letters about some of this since we’ve broken up, but much to my dismay he never responds, so what’s the point?  I have so much in life to figure out about myself, it terrifies me because I thought I knew who I was, but I was so utterly wrong.  I knew who I was when it was Liz and Sam, as stupid as this sound, just go with me here, now it’s just Liz.  Before Sam it was Elizabeth but once she met him it changed to Liz, but it was with Sam.  Now that it is just Liz, not Elizabeth, or anything attached to it, I just am at a loss for my own identity I guess.  I need time away to figure that out, to be able to find myself.  I have a feeling once I do that it will be easier to work out all my other issues, especially the thing with my parents.  I have actually been taking into consideration talking to my parents about going to stay with my Aunt Susan in Aiken, SC for a bit….I dunno it will give me a chance to just kind of start over and breathe.  I mean just to show people more of who I am, I mean a lot of people who knew me when I went by Elizabeth before I just started to say Liz since it was shorter easier, don’t realize that I was just a young naïve, vulnerable and gullible girl.  Therefore they seem to still believe I am that same person, bound to have my heart broken.  Well the problem is, I’m not I have actually matured a lot and my trust in people has decreased very much.  I feel like I have to put up a wall between them and me because as dumb as this sound I’m afraid if they found out what lies behind this wall they would push me away.  I don’t know what to do.  Everyone wants me to be this or that, but I’m not that person anymore, and no one seems to get it!!

 

Entry 583

Sunday

12-19-99

            I miss Sam, what else is new right??  I still have hope that we might get back together, as lame as that sounds, yet for all I know he could already be with someone new.  Okay another crazy thought that entered my insane head….I always thought that the first person I had sex with would my first everything…ya know….like did anything sexually with or loved or opened up to emotionally…all of that.  Sam was that person although the thought of us not being together did cross my mind, but the thought that he would not be my first didn’t…does that make sense??  I mean we did pretty much anything and everything but that.  I am afraid of other people finding out though.  It just feels odd thinking about having sex for the first time with someone else.  I guess I just always assumed he would be the first person that happened with.  He wasn’t the first person I kissed, but all the other stuff he was.  He’s supposed to call me today so we can talk about some of this stuff…I guess.  I sent him two emails Friday one was just incredibly long explaining how I felt about things in life at the moment.  The second was after a bunch of crap had happened between my parents and I because I couldn’t stop thinking about that and the whole “sex” issue.  So I got up and wrote an email that said I really needed and wanted to talk to him about some things so if possible whenever he got done reading it to call me.  He wrote me back and turns out he’s in Florida with his grandparents and is supposedly coming home today or tomorrow but hopefully today.  We attempted to chat online but his Dad wouldn’t let him or something, so he said he would just call me after he got back because he apparently has some stuff he needs to tell me as well.  I really hope he actually does call because I really wanna know what he has to say really.  I just can only hope it is something good and not something that’s gonna hurt me even more.  I can’t help but wonder if it has to do with the letter I wrote him along with the tape that I gave him for Christmas because in the letter I basically poured my heart out and told him I still loved him and wanted to be with him and my only Christmas wish was to hear him tell me he loves me and actually mean it once again or for us to be together again.  Then again maybe it has nothing to with that at all.  I am just really trying not to get my hopes up about anything regarding him.  It is so utterly hard though.   All I can hope for is that he will not be using his stupid logic while talking to me and just talk from his heart.  I also hope that whatever he has to say if it’s not good that it isn’t something that is going to break my heart even more.  I mean he may not even call, although I really want him to, I really am just trying not to sit around and wait.

 

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