(Hijab meaning covering body, hair and face except what is necessary.)
And
Their Obvious Weakness
by
Dr. Huwayda Ismaeel
Rendered into English from Al-Bayaan Magazine
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Get on the train of
repentance my sister, before it passes
by your station. Deeply
consider my sister,
what is happening today before
tomorrow comes. Think, my sister -
starting now. All praise is due to Allah ta'aala as
is deserved by His Majesty and Great Power. I send prayers and ask for
blessings upon His Noble Messenger who drew the path for us to the
pleasure of Allah and His Jannah. This path is a straight one that is
surrounded by virtue from all sides and attends to the best moral
characteristics which are increased by the clothing of purity,
concealment, and chastity. It is the path trod by the two halves of
human society, namely the man and the woman, toward harmonious
contentment and happiness in this life and the Hereafter. This is precisely why the Protector,
the blessed and above all imperfection, has made wearing hijaab (see
As-Sunnah Articles) an obligation upon the woman as a safeguard of
her chastity and protection of her honor and sign of her faith (Eemaan).
It is on account of this that societies (both Muslim and non-Muslim)
that have distanced themselves from the way of Allah and deviated from
His straight path, are ill societies in need of treatment that will lead
them to recovery and happiness. Among the pictures that point to the
distance of society from that path and that make clear the level of its
deviation and separation from it is the open spread of women not just
uncovering their faces but enhancing and making a display of their
beauty. We find that this is manifested regretfully, in Islamic (Muslim)
society despite that Islamic clothing is also widespread. So then, what
are the reasons that have led to this digression? We put this question to a varied
group of women from whom we derived ten major excuses and upon
examination and scrutiny, the frailty of the excuses became evident to
us. Stay with us dear Muslim sister in
these few lines so that we can know through them the reasons for turning
away from the hijaab and then discuss each. Excuse One:I'm
not yet convinced (of the necessity) of hijaab. We then ask this sister two
questions. One: Is she truly convinced of the
correctness of the religion of Islam? The natural answer is: Yes she is
convinced for she responds "Laa ilaaha illallah!" (There is no
god but Allah), meaning she is convinced of the aqeedah, and then she
says: "Muhammadun rasoolullah!" (Muhammad is the Messenger of
Allah), meaning by that that she is convinced of its legislation or law
(sharee'ah). Therefore, she is convinced of Islam as a belief system and
a law by which one governs and rules their life. Two: Is the hijaab then a part of
Islamic Law (sharee'ah) and an obligation?If this sister is honest and
sincere in her intention and has looked into the issue as one who truly
wants to know the truth her answer could only be: Yes. For Allah ta'aala,
Whose deity (Uloohiyyah) she believes in has commanded wearing hijaab in
His Book (Al-Qur'aan) and the nobleýprophet ('alaihi salaat wa
salaam)whose message she believes in has commanded wearing the hijaab in
his sunnah.What do we call a person who says they believe in and are
content with the correctness of Islam but who nonetheless does not do
what Allah or His Messenger have ordered? Certainly they can in no way
be described as those whom Allah speaks of in this aayah:
The only saying of the faithful believers when they are called to Allah
and His Messenger to judge between them is that they say 'we hear and
obey' and such are the successful.
[Soorah An-Noor 24:51] In summary:
If this sister is convinced of Islam, how then can she not be convinced
of its orders? Excuse Two: I am convinced
of Islamic dress but my mother prevents me from wearing it and if I
disobey her I will go to the Fire. The one who has answered this excuse
is the most noble of Allah's creation, the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu
'alaihi wa sallam) in concise and comprehensive words of wisdom:
There is no obedience to the created in the disobedience of Allah.[Ahmed] The status of parents in Islam,
especially the mother, is a high and elevated one. Indeed Allah ta'aala
has combined it with the greatest of matters, worshipping Him and His
tawheed, in many aayaat. He stated:Worship
Allah and join none with Him and do good to parents.[Soorah
An-Nisaa 4:36] Obedience to parents is not limited except in one aspect,
and that is if they order to disobedience of Allah. Allah said:
But if they strive with you to make you join in worship with Me others
that of which you have no knowledge, then obey them not.[Soorah Luqmaan 31:15] The lack of obedience to them in sinfulness does
not prevent being good to them and kind treatment of them. Allah said
afterward in the same aayah: But behave with them in the world kindly. In summary:
How can you obey your mother and disobey Allah Who created you and your
mother? Excuse Three: My
position does not allow me to substitute my dress for Islamic dress. This sister is either one or the
other of two types: She is sincere and honest, or she is a slippery liar
who desires to make a showy display of her "hijaab" clamoring
with colors to be "in line with the times" and expensive. We will begin with an answer to the
honest and sincere sister. Are you unaware my dear sister, that it is
not permissible for the Muslim woman to leave her home in any instance
unless her clothing meets the conditions of Islamic hijaab (Hijaab
shar'ee) and it is a duty of every Muslim woman to know what they are?
If you have taken the time and effort to learn so many matters of this
world how then can you be neglectful of learning those matters which
will save you from the punishment of Allah and His anger after death!!?
Does Allah not say:
Ask the people of remembrance (i.e. knowledgeable scholars) if you do
not know. [Soorah An-Nahl 16:43]. Learn therefore, the requirements of proper
hijaab. If you must go out, then do not do so
without the correct hijaab, seeking the pleasure of Allah and the
degradation of Shaitaan. That is because the corruption brought about by
your going out adorned and "beautified" is far greater than
the matter which you deem necessary to go out for. My dear sister if you are really
truthful in your intention and correctly determined you will find a
thousands hands of good assisting you and Allah will make the matter
easy for you! Is He not the One Who says:And
whoever fears Allah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for
him to get out (from every difficulty) and He will provide him from
sources he never could imagine[Soorah
At-Talaaq 65:2-3]? With regards to the 'slippery' one we
say: Honor and position is something determined by Allah ta'aala and it
is not due to embellishment of clothing and show of colors and keeping
up with the trendsetters. It is rather due to obedience to Allah and His
Messenger (sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam) and holding to the pure law of
Allah and correct Islamic hijaab. Listen to the words of Allah:
Indeed, the most honorable amongst you are those who are the most pious.
[Soorah Al-Hujuraat 49:35] In summary:
Do things in the way of seeking Allah's pleasure and entering His Jannah
and give less value to the high priced and costly objects and wealth of
this world. Excuse Four:It
is so very hot in my country and I can't stand it. How could I take it
if I wore the hijaab? Allah
gives an example by saying:
Say: The Fire of Hell is more intense in heat if they only understand.
[Soorah At-Taubah 9:81] How
can you compare the heat of your land to the heat of the Hellfire? Know, my sister, that Shaitaan has
trapped you in one of his feeble ropes to drag you from the heat of this
world to the heat of the Hellfire. Free yourself from his net and view
the heat of the sun as a favor and not an affliction especially in that
it reminds you of the intensity of the punishment of Allah which is many
times greater than the heat you now feel. Return to the order of Allah
and sacrifice this worldly comfort in the way of following the path of
salvation from the Hellfire about which Allah says:
They will neither feel coolness nor have any drink except that of
boiling water and the discharge of dirty wounds.[Soorah
An-Naba' 78:24-25] In summary:
The Jannah is surrounded by hardships and toil, while Hellfire is
surrounded by temptations, lusts and desires. Excuse Five:I'm
afraid that if I wear the hijaab I will put it off at another time
because I have seen so many others do so!! To her I say: If everyone was to
apply your logic then they would have left the Deen in its entirety!
They would have left off salaat because some would be afraid of leaving
it later. They would have left fasting in Ramadhan because so many are
afraid of not doing it later…etc. Haven't you seen how Shaitaan has
trapped you in his snare again and blocked you from guidance? Allah ta'aala loves continuous
obedience even if it be small or recommended. How about something that
is an absolute obligation like wearing hijaab?! The prophet (sallallahu
'alaihi wa sallam) said:
The most beloved deed with Allah is the consistent one though it be
little.Why haven't you sought out
the causes leading those people to leave off the hijaab so that you can
avoid them and work to keep away from them? Why haven't you sought out
reasons and causes to affirm truth and guidance until you can hold firm
to them? Among these causes is much
supplication to Allah (du'aa) to make the heart firm upon the Deen as
did the prophet (sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam). Also is making salaat
and having mindfulness of it as Allah stated:And
seek help in patience and the prayer and truly it is extremely heavy
except for the true believers in Allah who obey Allah with full
submission and believe in His promise of Jannah and in His warnings (Al-Khaashi'oon).[Soorah
Al-Baqarah 2:45] Other causes to put one upon guidance and truth is
adherence to the laws of Islam and one of them is indeed wearing the
hijaab. Allah said: If they had done what they were told, it would have been better
for them and would have strengthened their faith.
[Soorah Al-Baqarah 2:66] In summary:
If you hold tight to the causes of guidance and taste the sweetness of
faith you will not neglect the orders of Allah after having held to
them. Excuse Six: If
I wear the hijaab then nobody will marry me, so I'm going to leave it
off until then. Any husband who desires that you be
uncovered and adorned in public in defiance of and in disobedience to
Allah, is not a worthy husband in the first place. He is a husband who
has no feeling to protect what Allah has made inviolable, most notably
yourself, and he will not help you in any way to enter Al-Jannah or
escape from the Hellfire. A home which is founded upon disobedience to
Allah and provocation of His anger is fitting that He decree misery and
hardship for it in this life and in the Hereafter. As Allah stated: But whosoever turns away from My reminder (i.e. neither
believes in the Qur'aan nor acts upon its teachings) verily for him is a
life of hardship and We shall raise him up blind on the Day of
Resurrection. [Soorah Ta Ha
20:124] Marriage is a favor and blessing from
Allah to whom He give whom He wills. How many women who wear hijaab (mutahajibah)
are in fact married while many who don’t aren't? If you were to say
that '..my being made-up and uncovered is a means to reach a pure end,
namely marriage', a pure goal or end is not attained through impure and
corrupt means in Islam. If the goal is honorable then it must
necessarily be achieved by pure and clean method. We say the rule in
Islam is: The means are according to the rules of the intended goals. In summary:
There is no blessing in a marriage established upon sinfulness and
corruption. Excuse Seven:I
don't wear hijaab based on what Allah says:
And proclaim the grace of your Rabb
[Soorah Ad-Dhuhaa 93:11] How can I cover what Allah has blessed me with
of silky soft hair and captivating beauty? So…this sister of ours adheres to
the Book of Allah and its commands as long as they coincide with her
personal desires and understanding! She leaves behind those matters when
they don't please her. If this was not the case, then why doesn't she
follow the aayah:And
do not show off their adornment except only that which is apparent[Soorah
An-Noor 24:31] and the statement of Allah subhaanah:Tell
your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw
their cloaks all over their bodies [Soorah
Al-Ahzaab 33:59]? With this statement my sister you
have now made a shari'ah (law) for yourself of what Allah ta'aala has
strictly forbidden, namely beautification (at-tabarruj) and uncovering
(as-sufoor), and the reason: Your lack of wanting to adhere to the
order. The greatest blessing or favor that Allah has bestowed upon us is
that of Eemaan (faith) and hidaayah (guidance) and among them is the
Islamic hijaab. Why then do you not manifest and talk about this
greatest of blessings given to you? In summary:
Is there a greater blessing and favor upon the woman than guidance and
hijaab? Excuse Eight:I
know that hijaab is obligatory (waajib), but I will wear it when Allah
guides me to do so. We ask this sister on what plans or
steps she will undertake until she accepts this divine guidance? We know
that Allah has in His wisdom made a cause or means for everything. That
is why the sick take medicine to regain health, and the traveler rides a
vehicle or an animal to reach his destination, and other limitless
examples. Has this sister of ours seriously
endeavored to seek true guidance and exerted the proper means to get it
such as: Supplicating Allah sincerely as He stated: Guide us to the
Straight Path. [Soorah Al-Faatihah 1:6]; Keeping company with the
righteous good sisters - for they are among the best to assist her to
guidance and to continue to point her to it until Allah guides her and
increases her guidance and inspires her to further guidance and taqwaa.
She would then adhere to the orders of Allah and wear the hijaab that
the believing women are commanded to wear. In summary:
If this sister was really serious about seeking guidance she would have
exerted herself by the proper means to get it. Excuse Nine:It's
not time for that yet. I'm still too young for wearing hijaab. I'll do
it when I get older and after I make Hajj! The Angel of Death my sister, is
visiting and waiting at your door for the order of Allah ta'aala to open
it on you at any moment in your life. Allah said: When their term comes, neither can they delay it nor can they
advance it and hour (or a moment).
[Soorah Al-An'aam 7:34]. Death my sister doesn't discriminate between
the young or the old and it may come while you are in this state of
great sinfulness disobedience, fighting against the Lord of Honor with
your uncovering and shameless adornment. My sister, you should race to
obedience along with those others who race to answer the call of Allah
tabaaraka wa ta'aala:Race
with one another in hastening towards forgiveness from your Lord and
Paradise the width whereof is as the width of the heavens and the earth.
[Soorah Al-Hadeed 57:21] Sister, don't forget Allah or He will
forget you by turning His mercy away from you in this life and the next.
You are forgetting your own soul by not fulfilling the right of your
soul to obey Allah and proper worship of Him. Allah stated about the
hypocrites (Al-Munaafiqoon):
And be not like those who forgot Allah and He caused them to forget
their own selves.[Soorah Al-Hashr
59:19] My sister wear the hijaab in your young age in opposition to the
sinful deed because Allah is intense in punishment and will ask you on
the Day of Resurrection about your youth and every moment of your life. In summary:
Stop presuming some future expectation in your life will indeed occur!!
How can you guarantee your own life until tomorrow? Excuse Ten:I'm
afraid that if I wear Islamic clothing that I'll be labeled as belonging
to some group or another and I hate partisanship. My sister in Islam, there are only
two parties in Islam, and they are both mentioned by Allah Almighty in
His Noble Book. The first party is the party of of Allah (hizbullah)
that He gives victory to because of their obedience to His commands and
staying away from what He has forbidden. The second party is the party
of the accursed Shaitaan (hizbush-Shaitaan) which disobeys the Most
Merciful and increase corruption in the earth. When you hold tight to
and adhere to the commands of Allah, and among them is wearing the
hijaab - you then become a part of the successful party of Allah. When
you beautify and display your charms you are riding in the boat of
Shaitaan and his friends and partners from among the hypocrites and the
disbelievers and none worse could there be as friends. Don't you see how you are running
from Allah and to the Shaitaan, trading filth for good? Run instead my
sister to Allah and follow His way:So
flee to Allah (from His Torment to His mercy). Verily I (Muhammad) am a
plain warner to you from Him.[Soorah
Adh-Dhaariyaat 51:50] The hijaab is a high form of worship that is not
subject to the opinions of people and their orientations and choices
because the one who legislated it is the Most Wise Creator. In summary:
In the way of seeking the pleasure of Allah and in hope of His Mercy and
success in His Jannah and throw the statements of the devils among
people and jinn against the wall! Hold tight to the legislation of Allah
by your molars and follow the example of the striving and knowledgeable
Mothers of the Believers and the female companions (radiallahu 'anhum
ajma'een). In Conclusion Your body is on display in the market
of Shaitaan seducing the hearts of men.The hairstyles, the tight
clothing showing every detail of your figure, the short dresses showing
off your legs and feet, the showy, decorative and fragrant clothing all
angers the Merciful and pleases the Shaitaan. Every day that passes
while you are in this condition, distances you further from Allah and
brings you closer to Shaitaan. Each day curses and anger are directed
toward you from the heavens until you repent. Every day brings you
closer to the grave and the Angel of Death is ready to capture your
soul. Everyone shall taste
death. And only on the Day of Resurrection shall you be paid your wages
in full. And whoever is removed away from the Hellfire and admitted to
Al-Jannah, is indeed successful. The life of this world is only the
enjoyment of deception (a deceiving thing).[Soorah
Aale 'Imraan 3:185] Get on the train of repentance my sister, before it passes by your
station. Deeply
consider my sister, what is happening today
before tomorrow comes.
Think about it, my sister - Now, before it is too late! |