Imagine a child that is sexually molested by his parents. The child would think that what they�re doing to her is very normal, because what she sees and experience in home is the basis of her education. Their parents are her role model. So when this girl starts to take this kind of behavior with her school friends, she will be rejected because no one is comfortable with her behavior. So the girl is filled with anger because she can�t understand why is she rejected when she tries to be friendly. But for now, she doesn�t know that she isn�t being friendly. The girl starts to express his anger against the society that once rejected her without any reason. And she isn�t wrong when she thinks she is being rejected without any reason. She is doing exactly what she saw in his home. When the girl grows and begins having more reasoning power, she then will notice that her parents failed her and she will start turning her anger against them and enter a state of confusion. She will ask herself why did her parents do that. The answer is maybe because someone did the same to their parents. Why?: Lack of education. People like this girl shouldn�t be rejected. On the contrary, they should be getting all the attention and all the help they can from everybody. That way, society would stop creating monsters, and start creating heroes. But again, it�s all a problem of a lame education.
There are two ways to make someone feel anger. The first would be disrespect, which I think is totally unnecessary. There is no point in disrespecting someone else. This would be attacking. The second way would be making someone realize something they don�t want to admit, a truth they rather keep hidden, even from themselves. If I tell you something you realize is true but you hate to admit it, I�m not trying to make you feel anger, but it�s this anger that makes you realize the truth, an anger created by ourselves and for our aid. So when you are angry, analyze and know why. It could be that you�re forced to realize something you don�t want to. And anger is eating you up, when it shouldn�t.
We fear what we don�t understand. We don�t know how or when it will act. We don�t fear the things we understand, because we will not be surprised and we will know when and how it will act. Just like the little girl we were talking about earlier. She feared society because she didn�t understand their reaction to her actions. And this fear turned into anger and hate. So the best way to lose fear against something, is to try hard and understand it. Face the fear and understand it. Don�t run away from it. Find the root of the problem and solve it. Of course, the little girl is not capable of such reasoning. But these kinds of problems(not only sexual abuse)don�t just happen to little girls. They also happen to grown ups.
