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October -December 2005

ALL HALLOW ’S EVE FESTI VI TI ES
Friday October 28 7 pm on


7 pm POT LUCK : Bring a dish big enough for 10 A-F Your favorite meat, cheese, nut, fish or other delicious protein type dish G-M Juices or fresh fruit N-R Salads S-Z Desserts and treats.

Also: Bring your favorite scary story and/or a tape or CD to dance to. HOT TUB AVAILABLE ALL EVENING--CLOTHING OPTIONAL Bring towel and sandals.

ALL HALLOWS EVE RITUAL (outside under the stars)...
Bring something you want to let go of--a symbol or written
note. It will be cleansed in the cauldron's flame.

Samhain is a Pagan holiday on which the veil between the worlds of spirit and matter is lifted and it is possible to be spiritually in touch with our ancestors and those we loved who have passed on. Ancient knowledge may be shared with the living. Rituals are performed to keep any negativity from the past out of the future. It is a time of both endings and beginnings. "On this night of Samhain, Summer's end, we greet the Winter, knowing full well that at bright Beltane we will be saying farewell. Let us be Merry despite the growing icy chill. In Death is Life and in Life Death. The Sabbat Wheel is ever turning...Samhain fires are burning. Come tread the sacred ground, let loose of all that bound and set your spirits free! Blessed be."

HALLOWEEN PARTY follows: Costume as ye will and/or be body painted in some beautiful and unusual way by a friend (body paint supplied by LTD) OR professional body painting available by calling ahead on LTD hot line.

You are welcome to do some sort of dramatic or funny presentation appropriate to your costume. Audio equipment available for sound effects--call ahead to plan it with Paul if you have something elaborate in mind. Be creative! Scary Story telling in living room by the fire. ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW VIDEO AT MIDNIGHT
Cost: $7.50 non members/$5.00 to members
RSVP to the LTD hotline 818-886-0069

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!
LIVE THE DREAM ALTERNATIVE
LIFESTYLES MEET POINT at LOSCON 32


SUNDAY MORNING 11-29-05 TIME: 10:00a - 11:30a
JOIN US FOR FRUIT, CHEESE, JUICE, AND TALK!


Were you inspired by the Line Marriage from Moon is a Harsh Mistress, warmed by the Nest in Stranger in a Strange Land, fascinated by the even more unusual group marriages/empathic groupings in Spider Robinson’s Star Dance and Callahan stories? Dreams can come true. This get-together is for those already into multiply committed relationships and those who want to learn more about them. People like us do not only exist in SF books! Come meet some kindred spirits. We'll share our experiences in real triads, group houses, open marriages, etc. LOCATION: Ask at LAX Marriott Hotel registration desk for room number of Live the Dream or see note in LOSCON News.

LTD New Years Eve / Hanukkah Party:
SATURDAY December 31 7:30 pm until???


(Crash space available) Latkes (provided by your hostess along with Apple Sauce and Sour Cream), songs about the Maccabees, dreidels and a belated Winter Solstice ritual. We'll light the Hanukkah Menorah all candles as this is the eighth night. Did we forget a ritual important to you? Tell us and we'll add it! BRING stories/songs/poetry to share, your favorite holiday dish for pot luck supper, wrapped science fiction, fantasy or magickal gift ($5-$10) for GIFT EXCHANGE. Fancy dress is appropriate, though not required on this occasion. Kids bring kid gifts to exchange with each other.
Sharing our holidays is part of what weaves the bonds of Family in a group like ours. Understanding what is important to each of us during this festive season and how we celebrate it is a way to grow closer and delight in our diversity. Those spending the night are welcome to watch the parade in High Definition on our large screen TV next morning--the closest you can get to being there! Clothing optional Jacuzzi (with holiday music playing inside it!) available all evening –bring sandals and towels. Cost $5 for paid members, $7.50 for non members, children free. Location: Penfield Group House at 8515 Penfield in Winnetka –the west San Fernando Valley between Parthenia and Chase (nearer Chase). Penfield is between Tampa and Winnetka (just East of Winnetka). Phone number same as LTD hotline – 818-886-0069.

Saturday January 16 th 11 am to 4 pm
TRIAD BECOMES QUADRAD!

The triad of Marcus, Terry and Paul is adding a fourth. Laura Fiecter has entered our lives and our hearts. Though her background was as far from alternative life styles as one could get, Laura has not only bonded with our triad, but with every member of our household through shared interests and a willingness to communicate. We will talk about what is involved in joining a group house and expanding an existing group marriage-- what works and what doesn't in every area from chore distribution to sleeping arrangements. Courtship Rite by Donald Kingsbury as well as Heinlein's Time Enough for Love and Moon is a Harsh Mistress explored these topics. We'll see how what's in SF like this relates to the real life situation.
Pot luck lunch at 1 pm –bring something healthy and delicious to share. Afternoon activity: Talk and touch for growing closer + hot tubbing.
Location same as winter holiday party.

 



All Hallows Eve Ritual You Can Do This at Home! PRIEST takes up sword or athame, unsheathes it and walks widdershins once around the circumference of the circle, beginning in the east, making sorties toward the center so as to cover the entire area. This is done in front of the encircled attendees, swinging the sword to banish evil spirits and cleanse the area. He repeats as a chant until the circuit is
completed

Onward, Onward! Evil come to he who evil thinks. Thoughts in the Light bring the Light.

and hands the sword/athame to the PRIESTESS so she can cast the circle. PRIESTESS takes the sword and beginning in the east, walks deosil three times around the circle, going behind the encircled attendees, holding the sword pointing toward the ground ahead of her. She chants until the three circuits are completed

"THREE TIMES AROUND, THREE TIMES ABOUT POWER STAY IN, WORLD STAY OUT!"

and returns the sword to the east side of the altar after it has been sheathed.

Quarter callers: Take the appropriate element symbol (incense (for Air)/candle (for Fire)/water(for itself) /salt (for Earth)) from the altar, goes to the east, south, west and north points in turn, returning each element to the altar before doing the next direction, and invokes the guardians of the appropriate watchtowers, saying
Guardians of the East, guardians of Air and Wind, Be with us here in mighty presence that our circle be guarded and our rites be blessed.
Guardians of the South, guardians of Fire and Heat, be with us here in mighty presence that our circle be guarded and our rites be blessed.
Guardians of the West, guardians of water, oceans, rivers be guarded and our rites be blessed.
Guardians of the North, of earth and of soil and things which grow, be with us here in mighty presence that our circle be guarded and our rites be blessed.

When all four quarters have been called, PRIEST says:

"WHAT IS NOW IN THE CIRCLE IS BETWEEN THE WORLDS. WHAT IS BETWEEN THE WORLDS DOES NOT CONCERN THE WORLD!"

PRIEST turns to face PRIESTESS. She crosses her wrists on her chest and stands with feet about 12 inches apart as PRIEST administers the Fivefold Kiss. As PRI EST ’s head rises above her waist, she moves her arms until they are outstretched to the sides.

PRIEST kisses in turn PRI ESTESS ’S feet, knees, vagina, breasts and lips saying, as appropriate
"BLESSED BE THY FEET, WHICH HAVE BROUGHT THEE IN THESE WAYS."
"BLESSED BE THY KNEES, WHICH KNEEL AT THE HOLY ALTAR."
"BLESSED BE THY WOMB, WITHOUT WHICH WE WOULD NOT BE."
"BLESSED BE THY BREASTS, FORMED IN BEAUTY."
"BLESSED BE THY LIPS, WHICH SPEAK THE HOLY NAMES."

PRIEST says "WELCOME, LADY!" and kisses PRIESTESS on the lips again.

PRIESTESS now returns Fivefold Kiss, with PRIEST duplicating PRIESTESS' movements when she was the recipient, as she says
"BLESSED BE THY FEET, WHICH HAVE BROUGHT THEE IN THESE WAYS."
"BLESSED BE THY KNEES, WHICH KNEEL AT THE HOLY ALTAR."
"BLESSED BE THY PHALLUS, SOURCE OF THE SEED OF LIFE."
"BLESSED BE THY BREASTS, FORMED IN STRENGTH AND BEAUTY."
"BLESSED BE THY LIPS, WHICH SPEAK THE HOLY NAMES."
PRIESTESS says "WELCOME, LORD!" and kisses him on the lips again.

PRIESTESS: "We are gathered here tonight to celebrate another turn of the wheel of the year. Samhain marks the New Year's Eve of Wiccans, our greatest holiday of the year. Once again we begin the cycle of fertilizing, planting, nurturing and harvesting. At Samhain the veil between the worlds is the thinnest; at Samhain those who have already crossed over can return the easiest. It is they whom we honor and let them know we still think of them and love them.

We shall go around the circle thrice. The first time, let each person call upon someone who has gone before and invite them to join our circle tonight as honored guests. Starting with the person at the east quarter, let us go around the circle in turn as each person calls by name the one they wish to invite, their relationship to that person and what they wish to give that person as a gift to take back with them to the other side."

(Example: " I call upon Elsa Grossmann Dietz, my mother, and give to her the beauty and joy of the flowers I grow, especially the roses, to enjoy on the other side.")

PRIEST and PRIESTESS call upon their departed after participants have gone around the circle to the east quarter again.

PRIESTESS: "WE WELCOME THEE ALL, WHO HAVE COME FROM BEYOND TO JOIN US IN THIS CIRCLE. BE REASSURED THAT THOU ALL ARE LOVED, NOT FORGOTTEN."

(Just the beginning of the Ritual. The complete Ritual can be found here)

 

 

 


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