PARTY RULES

All Club Members MUST abide by all the Club Rules below.  They are not that difficult!  Please realize that we are only able to hold parties in the first place since all participants expect each other to abide by the rules.  If all party attendees abide by the rules, the parties will be a success!  It's that simple.

If you do NOT adhere to our rules: (1) You WILL be removed from any party in progress with NO return of your donation; and (2) You WILL be removed as a Club Member with no chance ever of being reinstated!  Your loss!

Here are some basic common sense guidelines to remember while at the party:

• Donations are needed to cover party and club expenses.  Nothing is free in this world!  The suggested donation varies between parties and is a function of the venue.  Donations must be submitted no later than 24 hours before the party.
• Clean up after yourself! Please throw condoms, drinks, and all your garbage away. We are not in the business of sanitation!
• We reserve the full right to decline admittance to any person or persons without giving any reason.
• The most important rule is to HAVE FUN and keep it FUN for others. This is a social club with friendly people. This club is not for people that have no other way to get laid!
• We shall not be held responsible for any loss of personal items or injury sustained by any member at any party.
• You declare that you are a broadminded, consenting adult and that you respect the rights to confidentiality of all others at all times.
• Social interaction is important at a party, don't be shy or a wall-flower!  This does not make for good parties!  If you are an introverted person, these parties probably are not for you.
• Discretion and Privacy - Discretion is a must for participatiion in swinging. Many times, you will find swingers who choose to go by their nickname rather than their real names. This goes for online conversations and in real life.  Be cautious when asking about personal information while talking with any swingers.  Sometimes it is improper and impolite.  Let the other person volunteer information first.  Also, remember that what happens at any gathering stays secret within the swingers. Do not discuss what happens with the outside world. Remember that everyday society does not support the swinging lifestyle. Finally, NEVER talk to anyone in the Press/News Services about the lifestyle. They almost always paint swinging in a bad light, and have caused many problems for swingers in the past.
• Drugs and Smoking - Most Swingers are drug-free, may be few do drugs to varying degrees. It is wise to refrain and be respectful of others. As for smoking, it is always best to ask others around you first if you may smoke.
• Manners - When involved in sexual activity, you need to remember five things: 
  • Respect the boundaries and wishes of others;
  • Never assume;
  • Always ask permission before touching, watching, or joining - especially at a party;
  • No means No. If someone says, "No," move on and don't take it personally;
  • Communicate your wishes and desires before engaging in any activity.
• Keep Negative Emotions in check - There may be times when someone else may anger or upset you, or when something may happen that may trigger Jealousy or another negative emotion. If this happens, just leave it. Give yourself time to cool down and think and act rationally.
• Consider your actions - Just remember that we all take responsibiility for our actions. There may be times where you may lose control of yourself in the excitement of a particular activity and do something that you may later regret. Always consider your actions carefully before proceeding.