| What do Children cost? |
| The government recently calculated the cost of raising a child from birth to 18 and came up with $160,140.00 for a middle-income family. What do you get for your $160,140.00?: Naming rights. First, middle, and last. Glimpses of God everyday. Giggles under the covers every night. More love than your heart can hold. Butterfly kisses and velcro hugs. Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds and warm cookies. A hand to hold, usually covered with jam. A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites,building sandcastles, and skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain. Someone to laugh yourself silly with no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day. For $160,140.00 you never have to grow up: You get to finger-paint, play hide-and-seek, catch lightening bugs, and never stop believing in Santa Claus. You have an excuse to keep reading the adventures of Piglet and Pooh, watching Saturday morning cartoons, going to Disney movies and wishing on stars. You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray-painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day and cards with backward letters for Father's Day. For $160,140.00, there's no greater bang for your buck: You get to be a hero just for retreiving a frisbee off the garage roof, taking the training wheels off the bike, removing a splinter, filling the wadding pool, coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless. You get a front row seat to history; to witness the first step, first word, first bra, first date, first time behind the wheel. You get to be immortal. You get another branch added to your family tree, and if your lucky a long list on lines in your obituary called Grandchildren. You get an education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality no college can match. In the eyes of a child you rank right up there with God. You have the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost. ~Author Unknown~ |