Chapter One
As always no one wants to be alone, I think that we are more terrified of not having anyone then when we do have someone, I think it is because we never truly know what will happen, maybe we will die alone, maybe no one will love us, maybe just maybe someone will love us but then leave us so we stay alone, but we live in fear that we will end up alone forever, when we never really see the big picture that we as people can be alone and not have to worry about it. Sometimes I think we are just to wrapped up in what the world tells us, to face the reality, they say � You as a person should get married, have 3.5 children, live in a house that suits your standing, if you are born poor you should stay poor� but the thing is you can live in a big house, have 1 kid and not be married but alone and still have a great life, it is you that has to see outside the box and see that what you want you can grab for , if you do not want to be alone then don�t find someone else who you can love, who can love you and maybe make you happy but you can never be too sure of that either you can not say that when you are with someone that they can make you happy for the rest of your life because you do not know that, I am sorry to say this but you do not know if that person can always provide for you and a family, you can not say that they will never think �damn I want another woman or man� you can not say that they will not stop loving you because it can happen ,It does happen and you never know it might be happening. We have to be happy with ourselves before we can be happy with someone else and that is something we sometimes forget , that in order to just be with someone we do have to be alone and yes you have to face yourself and concur some of your fears because someday someone might just say �I�m sorry but I can not be with you , I do not love you and I love someone else� that means you will be alone again until you find someone else , which you will but the point I am trying to make here is that we as a person need to see that we can be alone and be happy and be with someone and be happy. Otherwise we will never grow as individuals . You will not die alone , you will always have your friends to fall back on and they will never let you down. Never forget that you will always have someone in your life, you don�t always need a man or woman you should be independent and still be happy.